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JDizzle Guest
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Posted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 9:48 pm Post subject: Getting TOO excited when watching porn. |
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I don't particulary have any problems masterbating. I don't know what the average time for masturbation is for a guy but I seem to do just fine in lasting. My problem is when I watch porn I get too excited and I find that if I don't get rid of it I feel penis going through the motions of cumming.
Like I'll be watching and all of a sudden I can feel it start to rise, so I shut it off and bite my lip until it goes away. I'm an 18 year-old virgin and pressume that this is an adolecent problem that will go away after I've had sex several times but if anyone had any suggestions that would be great. |
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Usquanigo FemaleFirst Chatter (200+ Posts)

Joined: 18 Jun 2008 Posts: 411 Location: The Sprawl
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Posted: Thu Jun 26, 2008 1:40 pm Post subject: |
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You're too wound up. Stop worrying about it and have fun.
Some guys are quick, some guys take a long time. Women are the same way, some are quick, some never get off (but that has a LOT to do with the guy too, but nevermind that now... lol).
You will almost always get yourself off faster with porn than you will having sex. It's a totally different situation. And the level/strength/depth of the orgasm will be very different as well.
You learn yourself far better than anyone else ever can, and you have a level of grip and control that isn't possible with 'the kitty'. So even if you lasted an hour in bed, you'd still be able to pop within a minute or 2 doing it yourself with porn. It's just the way it is.
Do it as often as you want, and as quickly as you want, and as long as it doesn't get in the way of life, everything is ok. Seriously. |
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KevSom FemaleFirst Grand Master (1000+ Posts)

Joined: 22 Feb 2008 Posts: 2915 Location: Perth, Scotland
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Posted: Thu Jun 26, 2008 5:46 pm Post subject: |
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| So what if you get hard watching porn? Whats the big deal? Even if someone notices, just laugh it off and say you're a horny b***** and the girl getting shagged is well hot. |
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drew FemaleFirst Guru

Joined: 28 Dec 2005 Posts: 4640
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Posted: Thu Jun 26, 2008 5:54 pm Post subject: |
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You're too wound up. Stop worrying about it and have fun.
Some guys are quick, some guys take a long time. Women are the same way, some are quick, some never get off (but that has a LOT to do with the guy too, but nevermind that now... lol).
You will almost always get yourself off faster with porn than you will having sex. It's a totally different situation. And the level/strength/depth of the orgasm will be very different as well.
You learn yourself far better than anyone else ever can, and you have a level of grip and control that isn't possible with 'the kitty'. So even if you lasted an hour in bed, you'd still be able to pop within a minute or 2 doing it yourself with porn. It's just the way it is.
Do it as often as you want, and as quickly as you want, and as long as it doesn't get in the way of life, everything is ok. Seriously. |
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JDizzle Guest
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Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 9:02 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks for the advice.
But my point is sometimes I feel like I am about to cum if you don't shut it off, without even touching myself or stimulizing myself I feel like I'm about to cum. |
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The Chairman FemaleFirst Guru

Joined: 06 Apr 2008 Posts: 3101 Location: United Kingdom
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Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 10:12 pm Post subject: |
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Train yourself by watching 30mins of porn then switch off and do something different for another 30mins and go back to watching until you watch the complete movie without masturbating..
Then switch off the movie and enjoy yourself.... |
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