bf complains when I wear mini skirts

amyhill · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 03 Jul 2008 Posts: 6

me and my bf have been together for four months now, everything is fine except he is now trying to tell me what I can and cannot wear.

he hates me wearing anything he considers revealing and especially when I wear a mini skirt or short dress as he hates other men looking at my legs.

what is wrong with him I wear what I feel fashionable and comfortable in not to flash my legs and boobs as a come on to other men.

clairewestbridge

jessp · You Go Girl (100+ Posts) Joined: 04 Jun 2008 Posts: 161

Totally agree with Claire,wear what you want,bet you probably had a short skirt on when you first met him.He should feel proud if you get attention from other men

Starshine · Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 5:28 am Post subject:

If you give in on this now, I think you will have lots of difficulties as time goes on. Be your own woman!

I hope you sort this out but at the end of the day if he is the wrong person for you it is better to know now.

Alf Huckham · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 28 Feb 2008 Posts: 5061

TOTALLY AGREE

elainefr · Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 10:42 am Post subject:

if he thinks like this after just four mounts , what will he be like after four years

amyhill · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 03 Jul 2008 Posts: 6

thanks for your replies, had a long chat with bf on thursday night and I think we have sorted it out.

As I explained to him I have never given him any reason to think I am being unfaithful to him. I think he is just insecure but that doesnt give him the right to dictate what I wear.

So last night went out with him clubbing and decided to see if what he said he actually meant. I could see he wasnt to happy with what I was wearing when I met him in town but we did have a fab night and didnt argue once. So hopefully we have sorted itxxx

amyhill · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 03 Jul 2008 Posts: 6

hiya

just to let you know I have finished with my bf, last saturday night we went out round the town I thought we had settled our differences on what I wear but obviously not.

I could tell he was in a mood when I met him (obviously didnt like what I was wearing) later that night he caught a couple of men looking at me and omg I thought he was going to hit them.

obviously it was all my fault for daring to wear something that revealed my legs.

so we are finished and I am actually releaved no more worrying about what I wear yipppppeeee xxx

Ivan Diederhoff · Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2008 5:37 pm Post subject:

Its a shame things had to end that way, but you'll be better off for it. There are a lot of men that aren't that controlling. Enjoy your freedom, and just live life how you want to. A good one will come along soon enough!

Starshine · Posted: Sun Aug 03, 2008 4:49 am Post subject:

Welcome back to life. I'm sure you will meet someone nicer soon.

datura stremonius · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 09 Aug 2008 Posts: 10

is good to watch other girls to wear mini skirts but do not allow your girlfriend to do the same. typical moron atitude and i am saying this as a man. Good you moved on and wear what like. If my gf wants to wear mini skirts i will buy her more Smile

Bushwalker · Posted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 11:05 am Post subject:

Good riddance to bad rubbish...

Next time round you need to aim for someone who treats you as an equal, and not as a bit of property..

Wink

KiltyCol · Posted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 6:27 pm Post subject:

I would never dream of telling my wife what she could wear. I always respect her freedom of expression. Free people are always more attractive than imprisoned people.
She is very respectful of my right to choose what I wear, although she loves to see men in kilts and certainly likes to encourage me to wear one, as long as I am happy to. It was my choice to start wearing kilts.

Alf Huckham · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 28 Feb 2008 Posts: 5061

Oh no, not this "ole Chestnut again"

Alf Huckham · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 28 Feb 2008 Posts: 5061