Should I make my wife's fantasy come true

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Should I make my wife's fantasy come true

Postby pjay on Thu Sep 20, 2007 7:15 pm

Hi Sexy Co,

Yes We have done it several times, first time after seven years of marriage (irony-seven year itch) someone we both knew came on to her I got so horney when she told be about him coming onto her, talked about it every night in bed I was always rock hard and dripping. One day she rang me at work to say she was going to go through with it, I had to rush to the loo for a w**nk.
That night she dropped some tools I had borrowed back to him, the waiting jelousy and uncertainty was excruciating but I was also incredibly horney and had to have several w***ks. Finally she came home her bra was in her *a**a* so I knew something had happened then I realised she had taken off her necklace which she woud take off when she sucked me.
I couldn't wait to get her into bed I desperately wanted to know all the details, but was embarassed to ask too much, the sex was still amazing.

This went on for a couple more times over the next two weeks but what I really wanted was to join in, the thought of her being pleasured by both of us sent me over the edge with excitement.

He wasn't sure but he was finally talked into it. So one night he came to ours, they went up stairs to our bedroom and I was to give them ten minutes, I probably left them 15 mins then crept up the stairs quietly listening to see if I could hear anything, finally I pushed the door open and took in the amazing sight of them both naked, he was laid down his length was flat against his belly and she was astride him her moist opening against his manhood... A picture I will never forget.

They continued as I watched everything, then it was my turn but I felt like the third party, they seemed to have the connection afterwards I left the room and the house and spent the night at a hotel my life in turmoil.

She never saw him again, we patched things up but the subject was taboo between us for about 14 years.

14 years later I was almost obsessed with wanting to try again but succesfully this time. I am glad to say I got my wish on several occasions without any hiccups the latest experiences have generated untold excitement between us and the experiences have brought us closer together.

Is it that we have been married longer now or that the partners were not people we know socially, not sure but that is another story.
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Postby boturki on Sat Sep 22, 2007 2:24 am

as she told you ((( just a fantasy )))
life is too short for anything you might miss

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Re: Should I make my wife's fantasy come true

Postby aniello on Sat Sep 22, 2007 6:46 am

sevensisters wrote:I was reading an old post from 2005 on the subject of 3some sex where a married lady was deliberating as whether or not to agree to her husbands request to have a MFM experience. My wife and I have been together for over 20 years and I have asked her on may occasions if she would like to have a MFM experience as while we are having sex she has her best orgasms when I talk to her about another man being present. However, when we talk about it later she says it is only fantasy. I would love to make her fantasy reality as the idea really turns me on. We have, what I consider, a healthy sex life and have tried many things in private but should I fix it to happen as I am sure we would both love it.

cornuto, do what you gotta do, but charge the guy you're giving your wife's pussy to....if you wear the horns by choice, don't let it happen for free and make your wife a free putana....if you charge a good buck for her pussy, that makes her a high priced putana...i've heard of guys wearing the horns on purpose, but after the wife tasted new dick, she got addicted to new dick and didn't stop doing new dicks and the cornuto husband couldnt say nothing because he let it happen once..good luck cornuto..

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Re: Should I make my wife's fantasy come true

Postby Guest on Sat Sep 22, 2007 5:32 pm

aniello wrote:
sevensisters wrote:I was reading an old post from 2005 on the subject of 3some sex where a married lady was deliberating as whether or not to agree to her husbands request to have a MFM experience. My wife and I have been together for over 20 years and I have asked her on may occasions if she would like to have a MFM experience as while we are having sex she has her best orgasms when I talk to her about another man being present. However, when we talk about it later she says it is only fantasy. I would love to make her fantasy reality as the idea really turns me on. We have, what I consider, a healthy sex life and have tried many things in private but should I fix it to happen as I am sure we would both love it.

cornuto, do what you gotta do, but charge the guy you're giving your wife's pussy to....if you wear the horns by choice, don't let it happen for free and make your wife a free putana....if you charge a good buck for her pussy, that makes her a high priced putana...i've heard of guys wearing the horns on purpose, but after the wife tasted new dick, she got addicted to new dick and didn't stop doing new dicks and the cornuto husband couldnt say nothing because he let it happen once..good luck cornuto..

I agree, though not in those words. :lol:

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Postby guest999999 on Tue Oct 30, 2007 1:48 am

I think your BF likes the idea of you being a total slut- craving lots of C*** and being dirty. I like to imagine this during sex as it turns me on to think my GF is being a slut....

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Postby Guest on Tue Oct 30, 2007 2:53 am

sexy co wrote:For the record, we have not and are unlikely to ever actualy do this. For us, it's just a role play.

All I was wondering, was what he got out of this, as per my comments above.

Is there any other gals out there, or even guy's who do sinilar that can tell me what he gets out of it. For me it's just the dirtty talking, either me telling him or vice versa of what I got up to in our imaginations.

C


I don't know why there has to be an agenda behind every kink. It's just a FANTASY, and that's what he gets off on. I'm a woman and I'm the same way. It's just the fantasy itself.

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Postby wantittobe on Tue Oct 30, 2007 5:01 pm

sexy co wrote:Guy's,

For the record, we won't ever do the share/watch thing. We love it as a fantasy, but I just wondered what he got out of it.

I did as suggested in an earlier post and told him I was going to do it and even who with and he went wild with the horn. After I told him quickly I was only teasing.

But, I still dont have a definitive reply on what he really gets out of this...........any ideas?? Hi Sexy Co This my fantasy also, for me its the submission and humilation side of it. I'm middle aged now but have always had submissive fantasies, i'm lucky in that my wife want to have sex with other men and has been talking to some men in chat rooms so sooner or later it is going to happen. I want to be there but she will not let me and as she says i'm the one who is to be humilated so she will have the final say as regards who and where. She wants to do it in our bed and send me out for the evening and i'm not to come home until she phones me, i just hope it all works out ok and maybe it will progress to where i could be there and be made to serve them. All of that has to come from them as its no good me suggesting things as its like me running the show and thats not what i want ,for me they have to want to humilate me and enjoy doing it. Hope that helps you understand a bit more and remember everyone has there different turn ons and after i have cum if i was allowed to i'm sure it might not seem like a good idea until the next time.
Co

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Re: Update

Postby Guest on Tue Oct 30, 2007 7:58 pm

wantittobe wrote:
sexy co wrote:Guy's,

For the record, we won't ever do the share/watch thing. We love it as a fantasy, but I just wondered what he got out of it.

I did as suggested in an earlier post and told him I was going to do it and even who with and he went wild with the horn. After I told him quickly I was only teasing.

But, I still dont have a definitive reply on what he really gets out of this...........any ideas?? Hi Sexy Co This my fantasy also, for me its the submission and humilation side of it. I'm middle aged now but have always had submissive fantasies, i'm lucky in that my wife want to have sex with other men and has been talking to some men in chat rooms so sooner or later it is going to happen. I want to be there but she will not let me and as she says i'm the one who is to be humilated so she will have the final say as regards who and where. She wants to do it in our bed and send me out for the evening and i'm not to come home until she phones me, i just hope it all works out ok and maybe it will progress to where i could be there and be made to serve them. All of that has to come from them as its no good me suggesting things as its like me running the show and thats not what i want ,for me they have to want to humilate me and enjoy doing it. Hope that helps you understand a bit more and remember everyone has there different turn ons and after i have cum if i was allowed to i'm sure it might not seem like a good idea until the next time.
Co
Wantittobe when i'm with your wife next time i'll show her what you have written maybe you'll get what you wish for, i know i'll be getting what i want!!

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Postby Guest on Wed Oct 31, 2007 6:38 pm

BIGBOY500 wrote:
dealer wrote:sexy co
I let another guy join us once. It was nothing to do with being submissive, gay or inadequate as many seem to pressume we have a fantsatic love life and chose to do this as a one off experience and as part of an ongoing fantasy.

I get a huge amount of pleasure and satisfaction from seeing her happy stimulated, aroused and satisfied. This makes the whole sex thing much better, in fact I would rather not bother if in any way she wasn't enjoying it. So to see her massively turned on in this one off situation was a very erotic thing for us both.
The whole thing was set up to ensure it was about the two of us having fun. The other guy was only involved when we wanted and in the position we wanted, we could say we used him, but he was more then happy with that!
We f*cked like mad together as soon as he left.

You have to only do this kind of thing after considerable discussion, agreement and understanding of limits and why you want to and when both agree.

My wife now plans to get turned on watching a woman give me a handjob for just the same reasons.


Doesnt it bother you though to see the woman you love having fun by being shagged by another bloke???.... I find that plain weird to be honest!... I find the thought of any other bloke porking my gf absolutely disgusting!... other ladies though are fine!.... :lol: 8) :lol:


spoken like a true hypocrite! their is no way i would share my man with another woman!

i find it funny that most men thing it is ok to have a threesome when it is with two girls! but if the girl wants another guy then that is a big no no!

if my man asked me to let another girl join us i would refuse point blank! then i would say would you let another guy join us? of course the answer would be no way. i would reply well thats why you do not get the threesome hypocrite!

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Postby mande on Sun Nov 04, 2007 5:49 am

I did it with a girlfriend, and while it was really strange at first, when she went wild with pleasure, it was really a great thing.

However, these things can get complicated, so you HAVE to pick the right person, and that means NOT someone she arranged, or works with, etc.
That's what happened in my case, and the guy kept trying to get her to cheat on me with him.
Not cool at all!
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Postby G_man on Wed Nov 07, 2007 10:34 am

Amazing how people will simply ignore conventional wisdom:

1. Two company, three is a crowd.

People just don't think about things. People are more protective of there bank accounts than their wives or husbands.

Simply, would the "extra guy/girl" introduced into the relationship' have access to your bank account details?? I mean..you people need a reality check.

Whats more important, your bank accounts, or you wife/husbands body and mental health.

If you wouldn't share your bank account details with a stranger, why share your bed!

enough said!

Gman

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Postby loxzani on Sat Jul 05, 2008 5:23 pm

sexy co wrote:This is a major fantasy for my SO. He loves to talk durty with me during sex, about other guys shagging me. I must admit, I get really wet and cum like a train when he tells me about what he fantasisies about.

For some reason, he likes me to tell him that the other guys were way bigger than him and better. Dont know why he likes that??? In his fantasy, i am on the bed with one or two "big" guys and he watches me, then joins in later for seconds. As I said, the sex is ace when we talk this way, but I dont see what he gets from it. Any guys want to comment?

I know he has no gay interests, so that cant be it

Any help?


Hi
Wont mention my name girl but i promise you that you would be amazed as to how meny guys have this f.I am maried for about 9 Years an have the same f.I wont tell her this bt it make me very horny.

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Postby Guest on Sun Jul 06, 2008 12:17 am

i find it funny that most men thing it is ok to have a threesome when it is with two girls! but if the girl wants another guy then that is a big no no!

i would reply well thats why you do not get the threesome hypocrite![/quote]


I don't think a guy not wanting a MMF but desiring a FFM makes him a hypocrite, some guys just aren't into doing that with another guy. I would never do a MMF, even when I was single. The thought of being naked in bed with some guy, even with a girl to buffer us, has zero appeal to me. Just as some women would not want to be in a sexual situation with another woman. Different strokes for different folks

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Postby Guest on Sun Jul 06, 2008 12:20 am

. wrote:i find it funny that most men thing it is ok to have a threesome when it is with two girls! but if the girl wants another guy then that is a big no no!

would you let another guy join us? of course the answer would be no way. i would reply well thats why you do not get the threesome hypocrite!



I don't think a guy not wanting a MMF but desiring a FFM makes him a hypocrite, some guys just aren't into doing that with another guy. I would never do a MMF, even when I was single. The thought of being naked in bed with some guy, even with a girl to buffer us, has zero appeal to me. Just as some women would not want to be in a sexual situation with another woman. Different strokes for different folks

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Re: Should I make my wife's fantasy come true

Postby sally wey on Mon Jul 07, 2008 9:48 am

sevensisters wrote:I was reading an old post from 2005 on the subject of 3some sex where a married lady was deliberating as whether or not to agree to her husbands request to have a MFM experience. My wife and I have been together for over 20 years and I have asked her on may occasions if she would like to have a MFM experience as while we are having sex she has her best orgasms when I talk to her about another man being present. However, when we talk about it later she says it is only fantasy. I would love to make her fantasy reality as the idea really turns me on. We have, what I consider, a healthy sex life and have tried many things in private but should I fix it to happen as I am sure we would both love it.






first off you must talk about it outside the bedroom,attached is how John and I went about doing a threesome, since our first time we have had MFMs,FMFs, and even swopped, but really find out if it is for you both, it is not for everyone, some couples have broke up over things like this, ours got stronger, we always have cut-off points, like not inviting anyone back or John making the coffee and me saying I'll make it, Sally

first threesome.

the 1st time my wife and I had a threesome ( MFM ) was the best orgasm my wife had, it was with a man that we knew slightly,we had gone out a few times together and on this occassion we thought we would try it, when we got home to our house,my wife was sat on the settee with ( I will call him Ron ) and I had gone out to make the drinks, she mentioned that we were thinking of doing a threesome and would he like to join us, well he jumped at the chance, so my wife came out to tell me, I replied go for it, when I got back in the sitting room Ron had stripped her down to her Bra,panties,stockings and suspender belt,which was a light blue in colour, I joined them on the settee and helped strip her naked, after much caressing Ron and my wife went up to the bedroom while I locked up, it really looked good to see Ron and her feeling each other up, I joined them on the bed and after running my hands all over her body, she pulled Ron over and into her, he whipped his penis in and out for what seemed ages, all of a sudden my wifes legs shot straight up and shook like hell,because of this I came as well, ( 1st time since I was a lad ) we had sex for a while that night, and have had MFMs and FMFs and swopped partners but my wife and I have said that it was the best we have ever had, this is a true story I only wish I could write better, MFMs are the best for us, women got more erogeneous zones then men anyway what do you think?
Im a housewife, we live in DEVON england and we love the countryside, we are into threesomes, and love sex

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