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LARGER LABIA-SELF CONSCIOUS

Postby Guest on Fri Jul 04, 2008 3:05 pm

im really self conscious about myself already and to make matters worse i have a large inner labia. im about to be 16 and have been going out with this guy for over a year now and im a virgin but hes not. im so scared that hes going to find something that he doesnt like about me and not want to be with me so ive been pushing him away every time he trys to make a move. i can tell that hes getting more and more less patient with me but i cant seem to get over my self consciousness. its not realy the sex part im scared of its what he will think of me. I NEED HELP QUICK!!

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Postby bloke 'luv'! on Sun Jul 06, 2008 2:23 am

bloke LUV Great Big LONG Inner labs!
Several 'pussyy pumping' sites testify to this!
Gurgle it! ;)
Give up date & tell of mates bits, volume, look on face, etc. :)

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Postby ccd on Mon Jul 07, 2008 9:55 am

Yep - I like them large too. Most guys do - more to play with. Don't worry about it - he'll probably be really pleased.

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Postby shavenbush on Mon Jul 07, 2008 10:58 am

larger liabia minora are somthing to be proud of. Please don't hide them away be proud of the fact you are one of the lucky ladies who have inner lips which show beyond your outerlips.
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Postby Exodus on Mon Jul 07, 2008 9:24 pm

ccd wrote:Yep - I like them large too. Most guys do - more to play with. Don't worry about it - he'll probably be really pleased.


Can't say most when it is just your opinion speaking . . .

As a guy, I perfer small, tucked away lips. Bigger lips that hang out are not appealing to me. However, everyone is different. Maybe he will like it, maybe not. If you keep pushing him away though, he will eventually get tired of it and move on. The only way to see how he will react is by going through with it.
"Its Not About Whats Right, Its About Whats FAIR!"

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Postby sebastien1 on Tue Jul 08, 2008 9:01 am

i love big big inner labs. to me they are heavenly.

dont be ashamed of them , they are great. :D

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Postby ccd on Tue Jul 08, 2008 10:26 am

[quote="Exodus]Can't say most when it is just your opinion speaking . . .

That's why I said *most*. I've never met a guy who didn't like them big but I'd assumed some exist - you being a case in point - hence the use of *most* not *all*.

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Postby Guest on Tue Jul 08, 2008 4:55 pm

Alright sweet sixteen, when you decide to 'go for it' no guy in his right mind will say or even think "OMG look at her vagina, it's hideous" He will love yours...no doubt. I personally like a little extra down there. Something to play with and kiss, suck, lick , flick, chew...

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Postby Fast11 on Tue Jul 22, 2008 7:01 pm

Being a teenager, you should definitely realize that the guy WILL talk about your labia to his friends, and probably everyone else who will listen.

If you are uncomfortable with that, do NOT allow him to know.
It's best to save yourself for marriage anyway.

All that being said, here is my personal opinion on large labia, excerpted from another post:

One of my two strangest fetishes are for large labia (oh MY, the bigger the better; I totally swear it is true). I have read about girls permanently elongating their labia by repeated stretching or hanging weights. I can't seem to get my girl interested :) .

I would absolutely go CRAZY for an attractive girl with labia that would hang down a few inches, or even like 6 or 8 inches. Am I totally weird? I would LOVE to see a girl that could stretch her labia up to her belly button or halfway down to her knees.

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Postby Exodus on Tue Jul 22, 2008 9:45 pm

Fast11 wrote:Being a teenager, you should definitely realize that the guy WILL talk about your labia to his friends, and probably everyone else who will listen.

If you are uncomfortable with that, do NOT allow him to know.
It's best to save yourself for marriage anyway.
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You are a door knob . . .

So cause the guy might gossip, she shouldn't do anything with anyone until marriage? Girls gossip too, does that mean no guy should do anything until marriage either . . . Who cares if they gossip. Its just words.
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Postby Fast11 on Thu Jul 24, 2008 2:24 pm

[quote="ExodusYou are a door knob . . .

So cause the guy might gossip, she shouldn't do anything with anyone until marriage? Girls gossip too, does that mean no guy should do anything until marriage either . . . Who cares if they gossip. Its just words.


No Exodus, I said it "is best to save it for marriage." I did not in any way relate that to her labia, so read a little more carefully next time. As much as we (guys) want to get laid, we all also realize that we certainly wouldn't want our mothers/sisters/daughters/female cousins/etc. having sex with some "doorknob" of a teenager, especially if she truly does have large labia. It's a recipe for disaster.

And try to not utilize name-calling; it makes you look very immature.

We all know that girls have much deeper body-image issues than guys, so that is why I told her to not show a teenage boy. Do you remember being a teenager? Do you presently know how immature they are? Many teenagers LOOK FOR things to hurt people with, for the sake of their own (and others') entertainment.

She is FIFTEEN years old, and though I am sure that many/all adult males would love her labia, I would bet my bank account that just about any teenage boy would use it to entertain his friends.

So chill out Exodus.


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