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The Importance Of Sex In A Relationship

Postby lucy andrews on Sun Jul 06, 2008 8:28 pm

You can the read the full article at: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/relationships/The+Importance+Of++Sex+In+A+Relationship-155.html

sex is fantastic and very important in a relationship xx

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Postby MaxtheGaul on Sun Jul 06, 2008 10:39 pm

Once a week doesn't sound a lot though. :)

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Re: The Importance Of Sex In A Relationship

Postby jinjin on Mon Jul 07, 2008 4:25 am

lucy andrews wrote:You can the read the full article at: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/relationships/The+Importance+Of++Sex+In+A+Relationship-155.html

sex is fantastic and very important in a relationship xx


It should not be too important. A relationship that is too dependant on sex will have little or nothing to help a couple get through difficult times. One should address the issues creating stress instead of resorting to sex or sex substitutes to mask the problems.
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Postby MaxtheGaul on Mon Jul 07, 2008 8:11 am

Sometimes jinjin you sound too much like a marriage counsellor. I know too many people who have had problems because their sex life was crap. Working on fixing it is often a lot easier than fixing the resulting stress.

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Postby honbuns on Mon Jul 07, 2008 3:13 pm

I think sex is important in a relationship but it should not be the only thing and if for one reason or other sex is undesireable or impractical then a good relationship will still survive.

However I do think that physical closeness, holding hands, cuddles etc are essential.

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Postby Fred75 on Mon Jul 07, 2008 8:21 pm

Sex is very important to men.
We put more value on the physical aspect of the relationship.

A lot of marriages fail when the woman no longer treats her husband like she did when she was the girlfriend!
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Postby Cambridge on Tue Jul 08, 2008 1:04 am

Fred75 wrote:Sex is very important to men.
We put more value on the physical aspect of the relationship.

A lot of marriages fail when the woman no longer treats her husband like she did when she was the girlfriend!
:wink:


Wah! Wah! Wah! Just as many fail when the man no longer treats her like he did when he was the boyfriend. Your attack on women is thinly disguised, hairy-back. :roll:

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Postby honbuns on Tue Jul 08, 2008 2:10 pm

Cambridge you make a very good point, obviously one that Fred would not agree with but that only confirms that you must be one the right track.

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Postby noodles on Tue Jul 08, 2008 4:30 pm

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Re: The Importance Of Sex In A Relationship

Postby noodles on Tue Jul 08, 2008 5:07 pm

lucy andrews wrote:You can the read the full article at: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/relationships/The+Importance+Of++Sex+In+A+Relationship-155.html

sex is fantastic and very important in a relationship xx



If you're bothered about sex. I wreckon its about compatability. If you like it and need it ideally you need to be with someone who feels the same. Likewise if you're not that interested in it.

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Postby FFFCaroline on Mon Jul 14, 2008 6:40 am

I loved my husband from the first time I saw him...There is electricity between us...Sex is not everything, but it is the glue that binds us....It is in our eyes when we look at each other yet our life would not end without it...But it is so wonderful with it.....For us, sex is more enjoyable than anything we do.....And we do have many things to do....... :lol: TC, C

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Postby MaxtheGaul on Mon Jul 14, 2008 7:53 am

Oh Caroline you're sooo squidgy. :) But you're right.

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Postby Fred75 on Mon Jul 14, 2008 1:05 pm

Cambridge wrote:
Fred75 wrote:Sex is very important to men.
We put more value on the physical aspect of the relationship.

A lot of marriages fail when the woman no longer treats her husband like she did when she was the girlfriend!
:wink:


Wah! Wah! Wah! Just as many fail when the man no longer treats her like he did when he was the boyfriend. Your attack on women is thinly disguised, hairy-back. :roll:


No.
See women have a lot more control of the relationship than men do.
And todays feminist woman now feels entitled not to have to be her husbands GF after she has finally reeled him in!
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Postby brunettebimbo on Mon Jul 14, 2008 1:21 pm

honbuns wrote:I think sex is important in a relationship but it should not be the only thing and if for one reason or other sex is undesireable or impractical then a good relationship will still survive.

However I do think that physical closeness, holding hands, cuddles etc are essential.


I kind of agree with this. Sex shouldn't be the main structure of a relationship. Me and my boyfriend have sex at least once a day and not only is it enjoyable but it makes us feel close.

We would still be together even if we weren't able to have sex. Sex is just the icing on the cake! :D
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Postby FFFCaroline on Mon Jul 14, 2008 2:32 pm

MaxtheGaul wrote:Oh Caroline you're sooo squidgy. :) But you're right.


Squidgy..eh....If that is like horny...I will agree.. :wink: But like aged cheese, sex gets better with age.... :lol:

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