boyfriends and best guy friends and me

[Cambridge]

True... Unless he was phenomenal...

Verve, do you believe in Batman??? What kid at that age is phenomonal?

[Verve]

Verve, do you believe in Batman??? What kid at that age is phenomonal?

You know what Cambridge you are so right. I wouldn't know. I didn't have sex with a kid when I was a kid...

[quietgrrl]

is 17 considered a kid? guys, i've waited a long time. it's tough for me because..well, it's either the guy i'm very much attracted to, or the boy i can say or do anything with. best friends last, boyfriends don't. but, i really care about them both.

i must sound so shallow...and maybe i've become that. honestly, i'm still confused. i just...i really want to make love. have sex. enjoy the summer nights. and i feel selfish for feeling this way. but, i don't want to look back and have regret for holding back. because that's happened before.

life is messy. and the rules we usually stick by don't always work. i really love both my boyfriend and my best friend. am i "in love" with either? i have no idea.

[Cambridge]

is 17 considered a kid? guys, i've waited a long time. it's tough for me because..well, it's either the guy i'm very much attracted to, or the boy i can say or do anything with. best friends last, boyfriends don't. but, i really care about them both.

i must sound so shallow...and maybe i've become that. honestly, i'm still confused. i just...i really want to make love. have sex. enjoy the summer nights. and i feel selfish for feeling this way. but, i don't want to look back and have regret for holding back. because that's happened before.

life is messy. and the rules we usually stick by don't always work. i really love both my boyfriend and my best friend. am i "in love" with either? i have no idea.

is 17 considered a kid? guys, i've waited a long time. it's tough for me because..well, it's either the guy i'm very much attracted to, or the boy i can say or do anything with. best friends last, boyfriends don't. but, i really care about them both.

Or, it’s getting pregnant and not knowing which one of them is the father.

i must sound so shallow...and maybe i've become that. honestly, i'm still confused. i just...i really want to make love. have sex. enjoy the summer nights. and i feel selfish for feeling this way. but, i don't want to look back and have regret for holding back. because that's happened before.

What, when your cat died? Get real, kid. You’re asking us to tell you when, exactly, you should set off a stick of dynamite. Get real.

life is messy. and the rules we usually stick by don't always work. i really love both my boyfriend and my best friend. am i "in love" with either? i have no idea.

Well, if you don‘t know, wtf are you asking us?

[quietgrrl]

..right

[quietgrrl]

Or, it’s getting pregnant and not knowing which one of them is the father.

What, when your cat died? Get real, kid. You’re asking us to tell you when, exactly, you should set off a stick of dynamite. Get real.

Well, if you don‘t know, wtf are you asking us?

jesus calm down i'm not retarded or anything, just a bit confused. i'm merely looking for anyone who can relate to my situation, maybe offer some insight or advice on how to cope with unsure feelings. i doubt when you were a "kid" life was black and white and you knew exactly what was right and what you wanted.

i came here because yes, this is an adult forum, but I have an issue that most would regard as gossip, not really feelings. i keep posting my uncertainties because i figure somebody out there must know what i'm going through, and maybe they might offer some help instead of throwing my confusion back in my face because i'm younger. thanks.