18 1/2, 5 weeks pregnant - terribley confused.

[Male2]

Read the post above here about abortion. It ain't pretty.

[Winky89]

I would worry that I may have an abortion at an early age and then find out that that was my one chance to be a mother. To know that I had given up my one and only chance would kill me.

Also, Mum had me when she was 18 and gave her life to us. She was in a relationship at the time, and it lasted for 5 years. If she managed it, through the times where she was living on crappy wages so she could only afford to eat toast so that us kids could eat well, then I could manage it if duty called.

[Special]

It has taken me 22 months to conceive and I feel very happy to have a little one inside me. But its something I want and I can see that you have a tough decision to have to make.

My sister was in the same situation in the year 2000 and chose to abort. It was a decision that she accepts and has no regrets. her and her partner are now planning a marriage in 2008 and kids to follow in that year. At hte time my parents were supportive and his werent.

What ever you decide remember, that abortion is a choice that only you and your partner at the end of the day need to make together.
Religion aside, what is best is ulitimately your happiness.

Best of luck and take care

[stevieclaire]

I sat and read some of the stories of women who have the wrong idea of what a mother should be. In this day and age I can't believe women are so easily lied to by one another. It makes me sick to think that (a little girl) could think that going out and playing with thier friends justifies killing their own child ,just because they think that they are going to miss out on a few parties in college. If you really want to know what it is to kill a child that you are caring in your body, look up how doctors abort those so called "unwanted" childern. Just go to any abortion web site and see the pictures of children with their arms and legs cut off ,their little bodies black from the neck down where their skin has been burnt off, then on to see the babies brain where it's been sucked out with long tube. After you see this then ask yourself " How important is your own childs life is to you." Any real woman would give their own life to save that of their child, even a mother dog will fight to the end to save her pups. Then I ask you women who would so easily trash your childs life ,is that what "MOTHER" means?[code:1][/code:1]

whoe ever wrote this is sick you should be ashamed life is about choices everyone is diffrent stop speaking like that its worrying to think how you know such sick stuff

[beenthere1]

stevieclaire "whoe ever wrote this is sick you should be ashamed life is about choices everyone is diffrent stop speaking like that its worrying to think how you know such sick stuff"[/quote]


Reality is tough to swallow sometimes. The truth about abortion may make you feel sick but the truth is not sick. Aborting an innocent life is sick.

[Guest]

i just turned 19 a couple of weeks ago. i am 18 weeks pregnant today... at the begining of my pregnancy i was unsure wat to do but most of my family was very supportive although i did get a few comments from myside of the family but my partner's family were overwhelmed...abpout the time you reach your second trimester your spirt goes up dramatically... i didnt have morning sickness "luckly" but morning sickness is ment to be a great sign that everything is developing fine.. things are a bit hard 4 me at the moment as me nor my partner have a job and i still live with my parents,,which is the worst,,,. but i u gotta think about you and the baby no 1 else. you do wat you finks best and am sure you will just fine. xx

[Miserable B]

I blame my DH for my being so miserable today. I walked out and left him with our kids. My frnds are telling me I have a major problem not him. They tell me I am hurting my kids big time and I'm outta control. I take sleeping pills, anti-depresents birth control and high blood pressure meds as well as drink booz a lot. I'm a mess.

[Yikes!]

I blame my DH for my being so miserable today. I walked out and left him with our kids. My frnds are telling me I have a major problem not him. They tell me I am hurting my kids big time and I'm outta control. I take sleeping pills, anti-depresents birth control and high blood pressure meds as well as drink booz a lot. I'm a mess.

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You must be pretty wrecked to walk out on your kids! Normal Mother's don't do that.....they stay and work things through WITH their partners....as long as there is no physical abuse or child abuse....Do get professional help....you really need to grow up and go home....choose to love your partner just as you choose to love your kids even when you don't feel like it.

[IWasYou]

I blame my DH for my being so miserable today. I walked out and left him with our kids. My frnds are telling me I have a major problem not him. They tell me I am hurting my kids big time and I'm outta control. I take sleeping pills, anti-depresents birth control and high blood pressure meds as well as drink booz a lot. I'm a mess.

Abortion screws up womens heads no matter what 'they' say! It causes so many problems.....unhappiness we blame on others and we do things we can't explain. We stay in denial which is where you are right now.....the selfish ME stage.

Get professional help honey before you destroy your family and yourself even farther. You can turn it all around but you must get off the booz and drgs first, go home and do the work to make it right. Your kids don't deserve to feel abandon [even tho you see them they do feel that way] becuse of a choice you made long ago . Start today.

God bless you along the way.

Take care of yourself.

[nire189]

I blame my DH for my being so miserable today. I walked out and left him with our kids. My frnds are telling me I have a major problem not him. They tell me I am hurting my kids big time and I'm outta control. I take sleeping pills, anti-depresents birth control and high blood pressure meds as well as drink booz a lot. I'm a mess.

Abortion screws up womens heads no matter what 'they' say! It causes so many problems.....unhappiness we blame on others and we do things we can't explain. We stay in denial which is where you are right now.....the selfish ME stage.

Get professional help honey before you destroy your family and yourself even farther. You can turn it all around but you must get off the booz and drgs first, go home and do the work to make it right. Your kids don't deserve to feel abandon [even tho you see them they do feel that way] becuse of a choice you made long ago . Start today.

God bless you along the way.

Take care of yourself.

Make sure you get good couples counseling with therapist that are pro-marriage like these people http://www.marriagefriendlytherapists.com/index.php?v=1
Some are not good at all and they will screw you up even worse.
Take care.