I a divorced female and I have a male divorced friend we met at work. At the time we met he had a girlfriend of 2 years and he would always come to my work area to talk to me, and then we became best friends then more then best friends. Now I have known him for 5 years and just about a month ago he broke up with his girlfriend but it was not because he wanted to be with me, he said because he was not happy with her since the start. I guess he hooked up with her because at the time he was going threw his divorce he must have been lonely.
So now it has been 1 month since he had broken up with his live in girlfriend. And before that he would call me up when he felt sad or depressed and I would talk to him or just listen. And before he would call me often and now that he is single again he has distanced himself from me and that is hurting me so much because we both felt that we were each others soulmates. And rumour has it at work that he is seeing this girl from his department and I had asked him about this and he would say it was not true that she was just a friend. So someone else told me again and I confronted him face to face about his seeing this girl and still he said no and he said just because I sit with her in the cafeteria doen't mean I am seeing her. I told him that then why has he been so distant with me! and it seems that he got closer with this other girl if he knew how I feel about him and he said " let me tell you I don't know what I want but for now I don't want nobody serious and I know you do want something serious with me but right now I don't want someone serious". And then he said " the day I will want someone serious if I still feel something for you I would want it to be you". He also told me that he still wanted to be my friend. But it hurts so much that I can't be his friend. What should I do I Love him.
