by Skylar2012 on Mon Jan 17, 2005 5:11 pm
Ok so here’s the story. I was going out with a guy for 3 months, then broke up with him for a new guy that I met and was friends with for 2 months. We started dating and everything was going good. He used to be the type to go out and get all the girls he could. He stopped that and was with me every night. I don’t think he ever cheated one me. Then we broke up because he didn’t like that I went uptown every night to hang out with my friends (BTW I never said he couldn’t come too). Well 2 weeks later I started dating another guy and was it was going ok. I then found out that my ex was dating someone too. I figured that was good for both of us and we still didn’t talk One night like a week later he (my ex) came up to me and started a general conversation so I was nice and we tried to become friends. We talked when we saw each other around and talked on the phone once and a while. So the other day he asked me to hang out with him. I figured what the heck as long as nothing happens it will be fine. Nothing happened that night. But he did tell me that he loved me and missed me. I didn’t really know what to say cause I still love him but didn’t really want to tell him that at the time. He was telling me and his girlfriend that he loved us. Then I asked him about that and he said that he didn’t love her and that he wanted to be back with me. I told him he shouldn’t lie to her. I didn’t really know if I wanted to be back with him cause he was kinda wanting a two girlfriend thing. (she lives 160 miles away from us). Then he asked me to hang out again but this time we messed around a little, didn’t have sex or anything but I still felt bad about what we did. I told my bf and he said that as long as nothing else happened he was ok since I was honest about it. So now I still love him but I’m afraid that if I get back with him I will only get hurt again any advise?
Jill
