can a 2year relationship really be just a lie

[angel27]

i was seeing my ex for two years he always told me he loved me but he never ever showed it then he walked away from me without an answer. is it cos he was always lieing to me and i was blind!!!!!!

[scard4life]

i was seeing my ex for two years he always told me he loved me but he never ever showed it then he walked away from me without an answer. is it cos he was always lieing to me and i was blind!!!!!!

I dnt think a two year relationship could possibly be a lie there has to be sumthing there in order to be able to stand being with that person for two years... but were you guys together? offically?? or were you just mesing around bkause if thats what it was then he probaley was just getting with you bkause he knew you cared alot and that'd you'd get with him whenever he wanted you.... iand i mean that in the nicest way honestly.... bkause my cousin went through that and it was horrible for him to stand there and he told a guy frewn whom i was going out with and he didn't wanna keep it from her bkause thats harsh... but then again it could also be that mayb he wasn't over you and sumtimes in relationships when it lasts to long and the funn and excitement isn't their likie it was in the begining or all that goes on between the two isarguements and fighting people tend to grow away from eachother and evenually find that they no longer find their intrest in that person......i think that you hould make the call............it all really depends on his actions.........

[hi_there]

I agree, there must have been something there but perhaps some other thing was still missing. Did you communicate much with each other?

[cabanok]

i was seeing my ex for two years he always told me he loved me but he never ever showed it then he walked away from me without an answer. is it cos he was always lieing to me and i was blind!!!!!!

I know how you feel I had a relationship for almost two years we were going to move in together he wanted me to move to oregon introduced me to all his family at thanksgiving and always said how much he loved me. Told my little girl that he will always be a part of our life and protect us. Came back from Oregon and he started acting weird. Said he couldnt do it and that he doesnt want to be my boyfriend anymore. He has totally screwed with my head my emotions have been outa controll, Yet he calls to tell things about his family problems. I finally changed my numbers and blocked his emails. I still love him very much but I just cant deal with someone who would crush my and my daughters dreams. If someone really love you they would not do that. A lie I think they have that potential. They dont know how to love anything.