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Postby DipsyTipsy on Thu Jun 29, 2006 9:48 pm

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. wrote:I do not see my daughter as anything sexual. she may be a young women but she will always be my daughter and we are family. and if she has no problem with me seeing her in the buff. then why should i have a problem.


Because your her father and your daughter is not a unsexual child anymore.


People are sexual from the time of birth !


NO People are not sexual until they reach puberty.
Only paedophiles think otherwise so I hope your comment was just a wind up.
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Postby jarvisgr20042004 on Fri Jul 14, 2006 4:52 pm

I see nothing wrong in this at all. In fact, I think that to wear something to bed is daft.

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Postby Guest on Tue Jul 18, 2006 10:55 am

people are somewhat sexual almost from birth, but certainly not in the adult sense. they can physicaly experience sexual arousal, but dont have an understanding or desire of/for it. so in essence they are sexual in some ways but not many.

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Postby Guest on Tue Jul 18, 2006 8:45 pm

. wrote:people are somewhat sexual almost from birth, but certainly not in the adult sense. they can physicaly experience sexual arousal, but dont have an understanding or desire of/for it. so in essence they are sexual in some ways but not many.


What a load of crap. Where is the evidence to back up that children feel sexual arousal? I'm sure all the victims of child abuse that experience flash backs don't remember being aroused. And I don't remember having any sexual desire until I started pubity either.
Children haven't started puberty hence no sex hormones hence NO SEXUAL AROUSAL.
That comment sounds quite sick to me actually.
If you've got any links to websites that would back up your idea I'd more open to believe you though.
Until then it sound like some sick justification that perverts use.

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Postby DipsyTipsy on Tue Jul 18, 2006 8:50 pm

. wrote:people are somewhat sexual almost from birth, but certainly not in the adult sense. they can physicaly experience sexual arousal, but dont have an understanding or desire of/for it. so in essence they are sexual in some ways but not many.


What a load of crap. Where is the evidence to back up that children feel sexual arousal? I'm sure all the victims of child abuse that experience flash backs don't remember being aroused. And I don't remember having any sexual desire until I started pubity either.
Children haven't started puberty hence no sex hormones hence NO SEXUAL AROUSAL.
That comment sounds quite sick to me actually.
If you've got any links to websites that would back up your idea I'd more open to believe you though.
Until then though it just sounds like some sick justification that perverts have used forever to excuse their behavour.
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Postby Mac on Mon Jul 24, 2006 6:33 pm

There is nothing wrong with sleeping in the nude. However older girls, when on their period, should be encouraged to wear p@nties.
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Postby blueracer on Thu Aug 10, 2006 4:12 am

I can se both sides, but it is embarrasing when your stepchildren (both girls 13 and 9) sometimes walkabout in the nude. IF I was their natural father then things may be different........

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Postby cookie77 on Wed Aug 30, 2006 6:28 pm

Can't see the problem myself, as long as they have choice, if you supply them with nightwear then they can choose whether they actually wear it or not.

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Postby LauraB on Fri Sep 15, 2006 10:50 pm

Up until now, our kids have generally slept in PJs/nighties, but after the hot summer we've had here in the UK, DH and I don't have any issue with them sleeping nude. After the first couple of really hot nights, we told them that they were now old enough (girls 9 and 7, boy 5) to choose what to wear to bed each night, provided the choice was from PJs/nighties, underwear or birthday suits. Jeans and school uniform were most definitely out. On the first night, with bedroom temperatures well over 25, our recommendation of birthday suits was universally and enthusiastically taken up and despite the cooler nights recently, nobody has even considered either of the other two options. Playground gossip during the first couple of weeks of the new school term suggests that our youngsters weren't the only ones introduced to the benefits of sleeping nude this summer,and bedtime conversations, with our older daughter in particular, suggest that lots of households, ours included, will soon be donating unwanted childhood nightwear to the next jumble sale. The funny thing is that DH and I have been sleeping in the nude since long before we were married, and have never made any secret of this as far as the children are concerned, yet not one of us has ever questioned why the children dressed for bed and we didn't!

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Postby MillyMM on Sun Sep 17, 2006 6:13 am

I always sleeps with nothin on. It's actually warmer in winter time too, really. What all the fuss about? I also likes going skinny dipping in the big pond on the farm. Thats just the thing on a hot summers day :D

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Postby animallover15 on Sun Sep 17, 2006 8:30 am

people are somewhat sexual almost from birth, but certainly not in the adult sense.

They said not in the adult sense!!!

Children touch their genitals, masturbate
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Postby Guest on Fri Sep 22, 2006 3:54 pm

To the father...

tell her sha cant selep in the nude... you want to teach her to respect her modesty and keep her body to herself!

Otherwise she is just acting like a whoore on the street corner flaunting herself!

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Postby Kalith on Fri Sep 22, 2006 4:05 pm

. wrote:To the father...

tell her sha cant selep in the nude... you want to teach her to respect her modesty and keep her body to herself!

Otherwise she is just acting like a whoore on the street corner flaunting herself!


WHAT...why not. How is that being a lady? No one sees it and she is more confortable...and she is a child she doesn't think about it that way...and even if she wasn't a child teens and young adults can make that distinction up in their heads.
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Postby hottrod on Mon Sep 25, 2006 3:35 am

Kalith wrote:
. wrote:To the father...

tell her sha cant selep in the nude... you want to teach her to respect her modesty and keep her body to herself!

Otherwise she is just acting like a whoore on the street corner flaunting herself!


WHAT...why not. How is that being a lady? No one sees it and she is more confortable...and she is a child she doesn't think about it that way...and even if she wasn't a child teens and young adults can make that distinction up in their heads.


because it teaches her that it is appropriate behavior what happens when she goes to a friends house for a sleep over or when she move into a dorm when she goes to college

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Postby Kalith on Mon Sep 25, 2006 3:42 am

hottrod wrote:
Kalith wrote:
. wrote:To the father...

tell her sha cant selep in the nude... you want to teach her to respect her modesty and keep her body to herself!

Otherwise she is just acting like a whoore on the street corner flaunting herself!


WHAT...why not. How is that being a lady? No one sees it and she is more confortable...and she is a child she doesn't think about it that way...and even if she wasn't a child teens and young adults can make that distinction up in their heads.


because it teaches her that it is appropriate behavior what happens when she goes to a friends house for a sleep over or when she move into a dorm when she goes to college


I fail to see where you make that connection...I sleep in the nude. But when i have friends or guests or if i am at someone elses house i wear an over shirt and boxers. It is easy to make the difference if you teach the child. Encourage when she is alone and forbid it with any of the above circumstances.
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