by passionflower on Sat Feb 05, 2005 9:14 am
I'm 20 (will be on the 12th) and I like guys but I've been attracted to girls on and off since I was about 13. I know everybody asks this same question but how do I tell the difference between being bicurious and bisexual? I've never been in any relationship with a guy or girl (just never felt ready, preoccupied with other things). I was always attracted to girls in that I only had fantasies about them but in the last month or so, I started picturing and feeling like I want to be in an actual relationship with one. Or a very close friendship with extras (the extras being kept in the dark). What does that make me? Am I just exploring options? It seemed weird to me that all of a sudden, the picture in my head changed. And I've had more fantasies about girls than guys lately. Lol, sorry if I've confused anyone. It just feels really different now than before.