by green eyes on Sat Dec 02, 2006 10:22 pm
Scorpio male, i do love and respect your advice in your last post regarding Scorpio male jealousy...it is so hard for some Scorpios to be the evolved Eagle, and just surrender and not want to dominate every situation and outcome. The scorpio male i mentioned in the above post is very, very gentle, humble, and trusting at times with me - of course I've been loyal to him for the last 7 years, as friend and sometime lover (when we live near each other, or when he's not with someone else). But then he can just instantly and without warning become secretive, and irritable and cold and then withdraw - it seems like this happens just when we are starting to get close - as happened in the situation I mentioned above. If we've had a fight - as I mentioned above - usually we talk after no more than 2-3 weeks, but usually it's because I reached out to him, either through a letter or a few phone messages. Then when we do reconnect I'm always made to feel as if I'm the expendable one, and that i am LUCKY that he has decided to continue our connection, and that even though he has said i am one of 2 people in the world that he is close to, and has stood by him, and that he has told his deepest, darkest secrets to - I am made to feel as if I need to try harder and be even more understanding of him, and not the other way around? Sound typical??!!
OK, Scorpio male, I hope you will respond to my last post - I REALLY need your opinion and advice!!!!!!! I do not have any Scorpio men in my life that I can ask for advice except the one that am estranged from. I LOVE him with ALL MY HEART and SPIRIT, and KNOW he values our connection, and has for 8 years. HOW do I NOW act...in order to help heal this and reconnect with him...is it better to stilll give him his space, after 2 months of no communication? Or should I try to write a nonthreatening, short, but somewhat expressive, honest letter, telling how this has made me feel, and that I miss our connection? Usually he responds to my letters, but this time I'm just not sure what to do......I have ALWAYS let him call all the shots...I know they need to dominate, but do they actually respect you more if you get angry and say NO MORE?? Please, any advice any Scorpio can offer will be extremely appreciated!!