Handjobs. Any techinques you men favor?

[Guest]

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[unatural]

I think it is sick to play with yourself and someone else. I have never done it to a man and never will. I enjoy what God planned.

[hipster]

what did god plan?

which god?

[Cheeves]

Get a decent lotion, warm it in your hand first, and start stroking him. Start slow, then as "it" hardens, you can increase your speed, but just ask him as your doing it if you should go slower or faster, and he'll tell you what feels good.

I think that is so considerate that you want to be the best for him! He is going to love having you jack him off!

You should surprise him, and just take out the lotion on impulse at first, and jack him off several times in one day.

Most guys like to drink while they're doing it, as it makes them feel like they want to get drunk...so line up some shots for him, or several drinks & let him pound them down while you're jacking him off. He won't be buzzed much until after he has come, but it's a real kick for a guy to pound down his faves, have an "O" and then wind up with a nice buzz too! It is soooo relaxing! And he feels like getting drunk while you're doing it to him, so let him! In fact, its a nice show of support to get yourself drunk with him!

Whatever you do, I know he will have a blast with you doing that for him, and I hope you do to as he returns the faves!

[Deej]

ok just my thoughts...getting the right firmness of grip is essential...if necessary get him to hold your hand while you do it to give you the right idea..after all he should be pretty practiced at this

lube or oil is very good idea as it does help.

If possible cup and stroke his balls, the area between balls and ass, and even the ass as well if you feel like it

eye contact does it for me as well! Some well chosen words as well...but eye contact still wins...

have fun!

[Guest]

My wife and me often give each other handjobs. We regularly include it as foreplay or a one off if wer're tired.

We generally lie next to each other ( her on the left, me on the right) and with her right hand she takes hold of my C***. With my right hand I lean over and with a whole heap of KY jelly I massage it into her whole Mons area.

Now, I am a circumcised man, but only for 5 years (I'm 29 now) and so I know both ways of doing it. My wife is very, very adpt at giving a good handjob, and when you're doing it to each other together it really does make you concentrate, but if you come at the same time its magic.

Usually the thought that your partner is about to come can really help to make you come too. Its the thought of pleasing each other I suppose.

Obviously, if your man has no foreskin you cannot and should not try and drag what is left over his glans. just grasp the shaft fairly lightly and move your hand up and down and around the base of the glans. If you have some lube (or saliva!) make his helmet really wet and then you can start every now and then bringing your hand a little higher all over the tip.
Most me though, by this stage, are often producing their own lube in the form a clear fluid, or pre-cum as its sometimes called.

If your man is not circumcised, you probably won't need lube, especially if his foreskin is loose and damp underneath. If your partners foreskin is usually retracted (even when limp) and the glans is always dry, then he may really appreciate a bit of lube, and you may have opened up a whole new world for him.

A regular rhythmical up and down, gently done though, for about 10 minutes should do the trick. Try and spped up a bit towards the end of the session and see if he appreciates it . So save some energy.

But, honestly, doing it together is great (especially if your man has got soft hands/good technique) because you respond to each other and flat on your back you can see his length in you hand and with him leaning over to pleasure you, you can see if each other is enjoying it, and close your eyes if you want to concentrate.

Just my Opinion.

Zack.

P.s. If you want some advice on circumcised or not, just leave a message for me.

[zxavier9r]

my man like it when i hold one hand around the bottom of his dick (closest to the body), not too tight and spit in my other hand and focus on his knob witha couple of full strokes everynow and again.... he says the most sensitive part is his knob and about a cm under it... or if you really wana get naughty... use one hand giving him a spitty hand job focusing on the knob, use the other to massage is balls and use ur tounge to lick what i call "the mans clit" which is that clit look a like in between his scrotum and bum!!! goodluck, works a treat

[Sexy Bitch]

Be sure to start with something that will make him erect instead of just touching his penis try fingering yourself first or simply kiss him on his penis.
During the hand job ask him if he wants it tighter or faster. Try also putting his penis between your breasts and trying to make him cum than. Some guys have a fetish about there cum on you.

[mostirreverent]

Handjobs wet or dry, it is nice to finish with lotion. If you are going for a long experience, take your time and use lotion (see below). For a quickie on the couch or in the car, fast dry strokes are fine, usually fast stroking.

Check for testicle sensitivity as I’ve heard it varies. I like it anyway, pulled padded, and squeezing.

I say this as you can hold his C*** in a lubed had, and make it move in your hand by pulling his sac. You can also grind his balls with a nice slick hand. For me, slow deliberate stokes are key.

Do different things during the act, like a twisting motion over his head, or running your fingertips over the ridges of his glands or down the shaft.

Some more ideas which are positions rather than strictly grip technique:
1. Have him do it himself for a bit and watch. Then, stand behind him naked, pressing your bare breast against him. With one arm wrapped around his chest, reach around with your good hand (yeah, as if there were a bad hand for this) and do what he did. Play with his balls as well. This can also be done while sitting behind him with your legs spread and stretched out on the bed, floor, or a big chair.
2. With him naked on his hands and knees, kneel behind him. Reach through between his legs and grab his C*** like your are holding a compass (or iPod). Move your hand back and forth. You can grab his balls at the same time too.
3. Kneel and sit back on your heals. Have him rest his but on your thighs, with his legs around your waist. Grab and stroke. Take his balls (do you see a theme here?) as in #2 as well.
4. If you are in #3, then sit up so his legs are bend over him, with his knees pointing toward his shoulders. Milk him like a cow.
5. With him on his back, kneel over his face. Have him bend his legs back as in #4, and tuck them under your arms. Reach under him and again milk him like a man cow until he unloads on his chest. You can also have him lick you. His hands will also be available to play with your tits.
6. With most of these, you can just pull his balls back and forth and make his C*** slap against his body too.
7. Ask him to tell you when he is near coming. At this point, take his balls and lightly (or as hard as he likes it) squeeze. Tell him you are going to squeeze the come right out of him.

[Raymond-Bergman]

I call mine - the David Platt

A good up and downer.

[mostirreverent]

:twisted: I think it is sick to play with yourself and someone else. I have never done it to a man and never will. I enjoy what God planned.

i life of S*** i suppose

[Guest]

Use baby oil and massage gently

[LBK]

everything ive read in here seems to be good advice

just make sure u relax , use one hand on his dick , one cupping and massging his balls he'd love this !!

also , when u <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_64' target='_blank'>W***</A> him off u could be naked / top half naked and tease him by rubbing ur hard nipples on the tip of his cick and maybe tit <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_64' target='_blank'>W***</A> him for a sec so u can lick his C*** aswell as <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_64' target='_blank'>W***</A> him off atthe same time

talk dirty to him aswell and ask how much he likes it / if he wants u 2 go faster ? how bad he's been ? and how horny he is making you....all these work [ if hes the type of guy who loves talking dirty - and lets face it thats the majority of guys ]

enjoy hope it goes / went well

Excellent advice

[DanMc]

It must be excellent advice, after all its taken four years to arrive.

[LBK]

It must be excellent advice, after all its taken four years to arrive.