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. wrote:MenIf they got their way, they would look at the their wife in a new way, calling her a slut etc. The times I have heard of this and then the couple splitting up. Be grateful for what you have and stick to your fantasy!
. wrote:. wrote:MenIf they got their way, they would look at the their wife in a new way, calling her a slut etc. The times I have heard of this and then the couple splitting up. Be grateful for what you have and stick to your fantasy!
This is not my fantasy or fetish, but over the years I have met several guys who have this fantasy and discussed their motivations.
You're correct that some men who are turned on by their wife/partner having sex with another man apparently approach the fantasy from a dominant perspective. The turn-on for them is in having such control over their wife/partner that they can turn her into a "slut" willing to sex another man on demand.
But other men with the same fantasy/fetish apparently approach it from a submissive perspective. These men are turned on by being cuckolded by their wife/partner because they are sexually inadequate to satisfy her so that she feels free to have sex with better-endowed or otherwise more sexually virile men but demands that her husband/partner remain monogamous and in some instances even denies her husband/partner intercourse altogether. Some men within this group get off on hearing details about their wife/partner's superior sexual satisfaction with "real men" and even being ordered to clean her orally after she has had sex with a "real man."
To each his own.
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