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I want other men to screw my wife...how common is this?

Postby optiman on Thu Dec 07, 2006 4:06 am

We have been married for 8 years, & shortly after our daughter was born 6 years ago I began fantasising about my wife giving sex to other guys & it was such a turn on for me that it became almost my only fantasy.
I started talking to her about it during sex & it got us both really hot, & after a year or so of constant pleading & pressure, she agreed to let it happen so we contacted a guy through the net & met him at a motel & we both had sex with her & she was ok with it...even enjoyed it despite nerves.
That let the genie out of the bottle for me & it became a fixation, more accurately an obsession, to the point where it's the main focus of my sex life now. My wife has slowly come around to my way of thinking & is a willing participant & has learnt to relax (with a few drinks ) & enjoys the extra attention & orgasms she gets with other men.
I love my wife & daughter dearly, but every month or two I need her to give her body to another man/men. I have been present on every occasion except two, & I often join in, but just as often I wait until we're alone & we talk about it while we f***.
Apart from this particular diversion, we live normal lives.....work, pay bills,socialise with friends, etc. She is 29 & I am 44.
I'm not asking for moral judgements on our lifestyle, but would like to know how many other men have this same obsession & if they live it out.

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Postby Guest on Thu Dec 07, 2006 4:39 am

You like to see your wife, hot, horny, and passionate, right? Well, why does it have to involve other men? Why not just you? I've never been able to understand this.

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Postby optiman on Thu Dec 07, 2006 4:47 am

And I don't understand it myself....it's just the way things are. It's not only the actual screwing that I like....it's the anticipation beforehand, then the erotic analysis afterwards.
Like I said, I don't understand it, but couldn't give it up even if I wanted too.

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Postby Guest on Thu Dec 07, 2006 4:54 am

it is not uncommon

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Postby Guest on Thu Dec 07, 2006 5:03 am

Thats what I think too.

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Postby Guest on Thu Dec 07, 2006 9:49 am

Men :roll: If they got their way, they would look at the their wife in a new way, calling her a slut etc. The times I have heard of this and then the couple splitting up. Be grateful for what you have and stick to your fantasy!

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Postby lolly1982 on Thu Dec 07, 2006 2:18 pm

you can always get a lifesize doll she can ride for you lol

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Postby noodles on Thu Dec 07, 2006 2:39 pm

even enjoyed it despite nerves.

it became a fixation,

My wife has slowly come around to my way of thinking & is a willing participant & has learnt to relax (with a few drinks )

but every month or two I need her to give her body to another man/men.


I dont care whether you were after moral judgements - i think you're an arsehole!!!!

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Postby lolly1982 on Thu Dec 07, 2006 2:44 pm

its not your body you are giving you dont own her you freak!

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Postby naughty nikki 18 on Thu Dec 07, 2006 10:21 pm

I spoke to a guy _ who told me he liked watching his girlfriend at the time having sex with other men so i dont think its uncommon but there not togither anymore i wonder why ...

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Postby Guest on Fri Dec 08, 2006 10:15 am

. wrote:Men :roll: If they got their way, they would look at the their wife in a new way, calling her a slut etc. The times I have heard of this and then the couple splitting up. Be grateful for what you have and stick to your fantasy!

This is not my fantasy or fetish, but over the years I have met several guys who have this fantasy and discussed their motivations.

You're correct that some men who are turned on by their wife/partner having sex with another man apparently approach the fantasy from a dominant perspective. The turn-on for them is in having such control over their wife/partner that they can turn her into a "slut" willing to sex another man on demand.

But other men with the same fantasy/fetish apparently approach it from a submissive perspective. These men are turned on by being cuckolded by their wife/partner because they are sexually inadequate to satisfy her so that she feels free to have sex with better-endowed or otherwise more sexually virile men but demands that her husband/partner remain monogamous and in some instances even denies her husband/partner intercourse altogether. Some men within this group get off on hearing details about their wife/partner's superior sexual satisfaction with "real men" and even being ordered to clean her orally after she has had sex with a "real man."

To each his own. :D

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Postby Guest on Sun Dec 10, 2006 1:50 pm

Interesting. I too have this continuing fantasy/wish of my wife going with other men for sex. It turns me on like nothing else and I would love for it to happen, but every time I mention it to her (many times) she goes cold on it so I stop, but I don't stop having the fantasy. Go for it and enjoy!

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Postby happytimeis69 on Wed Dec 13, 2006 5:58 pm

Lolly lolly had a brolly, Put it on the grass, Sat down beside it, It stuck stright up her NOSE? (rhymes with glass). If you aint tried it, Dont knock it). Think the brolly is still there? Answers to: www.Daytime T.V. com.bollocks

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Postby Guest on Wed Dec 13, 2006 6:19 pm

. wrote:
. wrote:Men :roll: If they got their way, they would look at the their wife in a new way, calling her a slut etc. The times I have heard of this and then the couple splitting up. Be grateful for what you have and stick to your fantasy!

This is not my fantasy or fetish, but over the years I have met several guys who have this fantasy and discussed their motivations.

You're correct that some men who are turned on by their wife/partner having sex with another man apparently approach the fantasy from a dominant perspective. The turn-on for them is in having such control over their wife/partner that they can turn her into a "slut" willing to sex another man on demand.

But other men with the same fantasy/fetish apparently approach it from a submissive perspective. These men are turned on by being cuckolded by their wife/partner because they are sexually inadequate to satisfy her so that she feels free to have sex with better-endowed or otherwise more sexually virile men but demands that her husband/partner remain monogamous and in some instances even denies her husband/partner intercourse altogether. Some men within this group get off on hearing details about their wife/partner's superior sexual satisfaction with "real men" and even being ordered to clean her orally after she has had sex with a "real man."

To each his own. :D


I think many just simply have strong voyeuristic tendencies. Watching people f-uck is arousing to many.

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Postby noodles on Wed Dec 13, 2006 6:25 pm

dont have a problem with anything in principal, just parts of his post i found dodgy (as stated above).

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