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my girlfriend still communicate with X-boyfriend!!Cheating?

Postby borgsix on Sun May 15, 2005 4:55 pm

She still having txt messages and calls from her 8yrs. long relationship boyfriend.I don't know why she is still doing such thing!!!!she said they broke up because of a 3rd party.That he is a playboy.But another time she tells me that she a good guy!!!!it seems she is not telling the truth.


At first we met , I felt that she had a crush on me. so thats' why I made friends with her and started courting her.Time goes,we go out not asking about the past,I neverask of her past, because I'm a jealous guy. And so
our friendship went on,went out watch movies..... And I told her how I feel. She told me that she is still commited,she stile has a Boyfriend.I went gogo,I cried, and still insist that I Love her. Days passed and still date though I know she has a Boyfriend,because she told me.She told me that its so hard for her to choose because we are much the same character as he is.So I waited,Until at one time I stole her a kiss,she did not get mad.she said its just fine. Then after a month or so I insist on her to be my girlfriend,then she told me she also Loves me,and I don't know if we were on that moment.


So I presume she is already mine because she told me that she just don't want to repeat things that she was fooled by her X,so it means were.
I asked her to have sex , she told she doesnt want because she had a trauma.In time I convinced her. so we had it. we will have our 1year aniversary.

But a week ago she attended her Aunty's wedding.We made the preparations,I made the card while I was making it, thought I saw her X's name at the card as her partner.because she was the brides made.
I was not able top attend it because it was made in the province. and I had work. But I never mind ,because I thought it was over.

She came back,and again its just fine.At one time I borrowed book and she refuse,I insist and saw a massage at the front page.I went blank and I asked her who gave her that?she said Its her X.

I don't know what true right now please help me
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Postby Loki on Sun May 15, 2005 5:17 pm

So this girl wasnt willing to be your girlfriend? She only agreed to have you call her your girlfriend to shut you up! And she had sex with you because you talked her into it? Instead of wanting to have sex with you? WTF is wrong with you?

You dont know what is true? From what I can understand in your post, it doesnt sounded like she lied to you!
* She told you she was still commited to her ex!

You've pretty much answered your question at the begining of your post.

BTW, you sound like a right dickhead!! You insist on her to be your girlfriend and you had to convince her to have sex with you!

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Good points, Loki!!

Postby mandyelizabeth on Mon May 16, 2005 7:35 am

Hi Loki,

Hey, they are really good points you make there, buddy! :)




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Postby Loki on Mon May 16, 2005 8:31 am

Hi Mandy,

Thank you for your comment. I guess thats probably why he hasnt made anymore post!

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Postby LilYemiko on Sun May 22, 2005 7:48 am

You know bud... pretty much forcing this poor girl into being yer girlfriend has explained why she is still talking to her old boyfriend. I mean, hell... I would to if I were under the same situation. Yer first mistake was to continue to move forward with her right after she told you that she was already committed. So if I were you... if she breaks it off for good.. leave it at that.
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Stop her

Postby yangam on Mon May 30, 2005 1:27 pm

Please stop her from continue thhink of him.

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Postby niki22 on Tue May 31, 2005 7:59 pm

Learn to take "no" for an answer.

Also learn that before getting in a relationship, you MUST communicate about what each other wants in a relationship and your pasts....whether you like it or not.

If you love someone, you will *want* to hear their pasts because that is part of them. Grow up and get over it.

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Postby fever on Sun Jun 05, 2005 12:05 pm

Well u know she was in a relationship so really its your own fault and u have no one else 2 blame. She obviously took advantage of u if its the case of shes still with him, if u really want her that bad tel her its u or him and then u can get on with ur life.


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