When are you too old to have a huge first wedding?

[Guest]

Can you not read? The statement was "juvenile antics". By the way, this is a forum, where people are free to post issues that they would like feedback about. Please take your displaced anger to someone else's blog.

I'm free to post as i see fit.Who cares, if juvenile or not ? Nothing can outdo the stupidity of being scared of marrying after 30, imo.

[Guest]

GUEST LEAVE THIS WOMAN ALONE YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY A PATHETIC TWISTED LOSER SO MUCH SO YOU CANNOT EVEN REGISTER ON THE SITE.

GO BACK UNDER THE ROCK YOU CRAWLED FROM

Hello, please talk to someone who cares. Now go bore someone else, Miss Chavette.

[ladolcevita]

I am turning 31 next month. I always thought that I would be married by thirty! Should I get in a hurry to find someone? When I do get married, I want to have a big wedding, but I do NOT want to look like the mother in law in my wedding dress. WHEN IS TOO OLD???!!!!!

DO what YOU want to do. We are living in different times today - women have more options today (not enough) but more- and that old stigma of having to be married by 25 or 30 is going out the window. If you have a career and want to focus on that for example, that is NOT a crime. People used to get married much younger because women just used to sit around and be housewives (there's nothing wrong with that) but since more women have careers today, I say in several decades time the late 20's and sometime in the 30's will probably be the norm for marriage (if it isn't already)

Getting married in your 30's or later is nothing to be ashamed of. Do it when you're ready. You can have a big wedding whenever you want - if you're not ready to get married now don't sweat it - only your happiness matters.

[ladolcevita]

I am turning 31 next month. I always thought that I would be married by thirty! Should I get in a hurry to find someone? When I do get married, I want to have a big wedding, but I do NOT want to look like the mother in law in my wedding dress. WHEN IS TOO OLD???!!!!!

DO what YOU want to do. We are living in different times today - women have more options today (not enough) but more- and that old stigma of having to be married by 25 or 30 is going out the window. If you have a career and want to focus on that for example, that is NOT a crime. People used to get married much younger because women just used to sit around and be housewives (there's nothing wrong with that) but since more women have careers today, I say in several decades time the late 20's and sometime in the 30's will probably be the norm for marriage (if it isn't already)

Getting married in your 30's or later is nothing to be ashamed of. Do it when you're ready. You can have a big wedding whenever you want - if you're not ready to get married now don't sweat it - only your happiness matters.

[Guest]

It is no wonder that many marriages fail when people think they have to follow a norm.Don't come crying to us when you people who marry out of a mindset of ''having to'' finally realise that your marriages have gone to S*** ! You are also helping building bad social standards when you buy into them and propagate them.


Oh, sorry to have an opinion !

[Lhorna]

Thankyou for your input lado. It was thoughtful and offered some of the positive insight I was hoping for.
As for guest, if I was buying into the norms, and propagating, would I still be exploring this subject here at this point? You have a right to your opinion, but to give it while under the mask of "guest", tells me that you dont even buy into your own crap. I am with the lady who wants you to crawl back under your rock. Your an idiot, and the whole point of this thread seems to have completely went over your head. So sorry you dont have a clue. Do us all a favor and quit attempting to sabotage threads on subjects that women like to discuss. It seems maybe you have been seriosly damaged by a female, I am sure you can find a thread that can see you through some of your frustrations with women. It would probably help if you were not a site named FEMALE FIRST. Or are you just here to pi** off women because you dont have the balls to do it in your real life?hmmmmm?

[casey]

Guest go F*** yourself you actually might enjoy as you dont seem to be getting it as you ARE OBVIOUSLY BITTER AND TWISTED WITH YOUR LIFE you get a kick out of upsetting others you are F***** UP

[Guest]

Thankyou for your input lado. It was thoughtful and offered some of the positive insight I was hoping for.
As for guest, if I was buying into the norms, and propagating, would I still be exploring this subject here at this point? You have a right to your opinion, but to give it while under the mask of "guest", tells me that you dont even buy into your own crap. I am with the lady who wants you to crawl back under your rock. Your an idiot, and the whole point of this thread seems to have completely went over your head. So sorry you dont have a clue. Do us all a favor and quit attempting to sabotage threads on subjects that women like to discuss. It seems maybe you have been seriosly damaged by a female, I am sure you can find a thread that can see you through some of your frustrations with women. It would probably help if you were not a site named FEMALE FIRST. Or are you just here to pi** off women because you dont have the balls to do it in your real life?hmmmmm?

I am a woman, idiot.

[Guest]

Guest go F*** yourself you actually might enjoy as you dont seem to be getting it as you ARE OBVIOUSLY BITTER AND TWISTED WITH YOUR LIFE you get a kick out of upsetting others you are F***** UP

Everyone who has a different opinion to yours and finds your opinion dull is bitter and twisted ? Very simplistic, but i didn't expect less.

[Guest]

Oh, and i'm ''Lola''.Nice to meet you.

[casey]

you do not have an opinion guest aka Lola in your first post you wrote "you have problems"

how exactly was that supposed to helpful

end of thread

[Lola.]

you do not have an opinion guest aka Lola in your first post you wrote "you have problems"

how exactly was that supposed to helpful

end of thread

It is no wonder that many marriages fail when people think they have to follow a norm.Don't come crying to us when you people who marry out of a mindset of ''having to'' finally realise that your marriages have gone to S*** ! You are also helping building bad social standards when you buy into them and propagate them.


There ya go.

[Lhorna]

That is interesting guest, but I never said you were not a woman. I indicated you had some issues with women, you could be a five legged dog for all I care, I still stand by my reply to your insipid remarks. MORE IMPORTANTLY, TO THE FOLKS THAT HAD THOUGHTFUL INPUT- MUCH LOVE TO YOU!! ALSO, IF GUEST WOULD NOT HAVE FOUND THIS THREAD I WOULD HAVE NEVER KNOWN JUST HOW COOL YOU ALL WERE ABOUT STANDING UP FOR OTHER MEMBERS, YOU'RE ALL GREAT AND THOUGHTFUL PEOPLE! I AM SO HAPPY TO HAVE STUMBLED UPON THIS SITE!!!

[Lola.]

That is interesting guest, but I never said you were not a woman. I indicated you had some issues with women, you could be a five legged dog for all I care, I still stand by my reply to your insipid remarks. MORE IMPORTANTLY, TO THE FOLKS THAT HAD THOUGHTFUL INPUT- MUCH LOVE TO YOU!! ALSO, IF GUEST WOULD NOT HAVE FOUND THIS THREAD I WOULD HAVE NEVER KNOWN JUST HOW COOL YOU ALL WERE ABOUT STANDING UP FOR OTHER MEMBERS, YOU'RE ALL GREAT AND THOUGHTFUL PEOPLE! I AM SO HAPPY TO HAVE STUMBLED UPON THIS SITE!!!

One stood up for you, now don't go overexaggerating, Miss, and uh, if your threadtitle doesn't have ''issues'' scrawled all over it !

Anyway, sweet and heartfelt post.You sure know how to whine on command.Sympathy points pour toi !

*yawn*