female advice

[al]

Women, I don't understand you !

I split from someone last September and haven't seen or spoken to her since. But three weeks ago I got a text out of the blue wanting an explanation on why things went wrong. Since then we've swapped 50 texts.

My question is this. Is she wanting closure or did she get in touch because she wants to start things up again. I don't understand a thing !!! Please explain how your minds work.......

Ta

[Jules]

It could be either as we don't know the context of the call, but the only way to find out is to talk to her. What do you want reconciliation or have you moved on and are happy with closure.

[MissJackie23]

It could be either as we don't know the context of the call, but the only way to find out is to talk to her. What do you want reconciliation or have you moved on and are happy with closure.

Talk to here, she may want to get back with you, but don't go with that impression

[SarahLouLuvsU]

If I wanted to txt my ex. i probably would want to get back with him...

[karen]

sounds as if she is still interested....

[TanyaB]

I have to say I often think of my ex and I still have his mobile number in my phone and I flick through the names and come across his and I want to call him just to speak to him and see how he is> I think its cant let go of thing and I still fancy him to bits but we ended it for some stupid reason so I think its because she want to see you again. Give her a call on a proper phone and have a proper chat

[lynn]

i think you need to phone her and talk it through as it sounds like she may have feelings left for u. but tread wearily !

[trish]

as a woman, i'd say she wants to see if you're still interested. we can find all sorts of ways of keeping in touch. but watch out, it didn't work out first time so second time around won't be any easier...........

[sam]

I think you miss her. But be clear about what you want before speaking to her. As a woman, I do think she is trying to keep in touch with you. Good luck.

[Karen]

Women, I don't understand you !

I split from someone last September and haven't seen or spoken to her since. But three weeks ago I got a text out of the blue wanting an explanation on why things went wrong. Since then we've swapped 50 texts.

My question is this. Is she wanting closure or did she get in touch because she wants to start things up again. I don't understand a thing !!! Please explain how your minds work.......

Ta

Al hows it going did you call her and did she reply and was it what you thought we are all waitng to see if our advice was nay use

[al]

thanks for your interest. no I didn't contact her. i'm not sure that would be a good idea. there's too much politics going on. an ex of mine warned me that she was going to contact me ( womens intuition! ) and she was right i suppose. just didn't understand why she wanted contact after 8 months. i had only been in her company once in that 8 months so couldn't figure why she texted me to clear up a few matters...! will keep u posted....bye

[al]

Karen, forgot to add that there were 50 txts sent over a 3 week period. she only mentions her current boyfriend once so she clearly isn't heavily into him. also i heard from an unlikely source that this guy has tried to dump her twice ( but they're still together ! ) so i think she wants back but shes a stubborn bitch and won't ask me directly.......we'll see........

[Tracey]

Karen, forgot to add that there were 50 txts sent over a 3 week period. she only mentions her current boyfriend once so she clearly isn't heavily into him. also i heard from an unlikely source that this guy has tried to dump her twice ( but they're still together ! ) so i think she wants back but shes a stubborn bitch and won't ask me directly.......we'll see........

best of luck, anyway

[jon]

Been there Al. Watch it as women are "devious"! at working their way back in to mens lives. By all means keep in touch with her but be direct in finding out what she wants. If her relationship with her current guy isn't as good as it was with you then maybe she's missing you. But she could also be hedging her bets. Good luck. Jon

[Someone sam]

The thing is just because you cannot have a relationship with some one it dosn't mean that they do not value your freindship. Thats were we women differ from guys we don't let male pride infuence things. We may feel that we have been with somebody for a few years but the relationship as in getting married ect is not going to work but you are still a good person and we do not want to lose your freindship. So we want to stay that way. Thats probably what the contact is all about.