Revealing, Topless or Nude in front of friends, acqu

[Asian]

To the guys: Would you allow your girlfriend or wife to wear revealing, very sexy clothes in front of mates (guy friends) or your male colleagues? Wouldn't this create a problem later when they will be "fantasising" about her, and may be making jokes or jibes at you?

Similarly, if at a topless or nude beach, would you allow her to be topless or nude where your friends are around also? In this case, your friends would have "finally" seen her bare breasts or pussy. Wouldn't you feel a "loss"?

Talking from experience, I was on holiday in Australia recently, and met back with my old college mate. He brought me round Sydney, together with his wife, who incidentally was also my coursemate previously. She's a stunner actually, and those uni days, I had a thing for her, but of course never stood the chance. Anyway, they brought me to the beach and it was fun. She wore a nice bikini, which was a treat, but the interesting bit is she started to take her top off. Wow! I nearly choked, just imagine your fantasy girl is now topless.

She had nice breasts, by the way.

[THAT_GUEST]

First, neither me or my girlfriend believe topless or nude beaches have any place in solid relationship. We both tend to think that they are meant to advertise and promote, and if a relationship is indeed solid, there shouldn't be a need for such things. We do our nude recreating where it is just for us.

That being said, as it comes to how she dresses. She tends to be conservative. She has a beautiful body...she knows it, I know it, and the world with functioning eyes knows it. So she doesn't go out of her way to give too much of a view. Her beauty and grace in the presence of the rest of humanity is a gift. I like to think she saves a little something special for me in how provocative she dresses.

[Asian]

Do you consider yourself to be in the minority view? As an American, is it conservative? Thanks.

[Guest]

I think it is unusual for couples who have formed from groups of friends not to behave like this.
My wife and I started dating while we were at uni. When she stayed over she would pop down to the kitchen nude or topless or to and from the shower and all my house mates regularly saw her naked. We are still friends with those guys.
Now married she spends a lot of time at home topless with just shorts on, especially in the summer. When friends come over she doesn't flaunt it but will say hi and go up stairs. When we come back from the pub she always comes down to say hello in her knickers and chats for a while. No one thinks anything of it.
I would have found it weird if she suddenly started covering up just because we moved in together.

[Asian]

Guest, wow!

Wouldn't you feel that your buddies are getting a free show? Isn't it your loss?

[Guest]

They're just boobs man, all women have them
Also, they're not my property

[newkatie]

Hi

Why are you so surprised "Aisan"?

Do you know how much hassle it is to keep running up stairs to get dressed or how irritating it is to put a bikini top on when on holiday every time someone you might vaguely know walks by?

[Asian]

Hello, newkatie. How you feeling today?

Actually, what you just said indicates that you are just looking for any old excuse to put your assets on display. You're a real exhibitionist, arent you? What then, does your boyfriend or husband have to say about that? Is he happy about it? Or he loves sharing his woman to others?

[newkatie]

Do I have to get insulted every time I open my mouth

[Guest]

Do I have to get insulted every time I open my mouth

If you didn't like it you wouldn't keep on returning.

[mrsjolly]

To the guys: Would you allow your girlfriend or wife to wear revealing, very sexy clothes in front of mates (guy friends) or your male colleagues? Wouldn't this create a problem later when they will be "fantasising" about her, and may be making jokes or jibes at you?

Similarly, if at a topless or nude beach, would you allow her to be topless or nude where your friends are around also? In this case, your friends would have "finally" seen her bare breasts or pussy. Wouldn't you feel a "loss"?

Talking from experience, I was on holiday in Australia recently, and met back with my old college mate. He brought me round Sydney, together with his wife, who incidentally was also my coursemate previously. She's a stunner actually, and those uni days, I had a thing for her, but of course never stood the chance. Anyway, they brought me to the beach and it was fun. She wore a nice bikini, which was a treat, but the interesting bit is she started to take her top off. Wow! I nearly choked, just imagine your fantasy girl is now topless.

She had nice breasts, by the way.

i once walked around a house full of mates after a shower, completely nude. Female and male. I don't mind people seeing my vagina or breasts. They are part of what makes me female...and I'm proud to have them. Also, I'd just shaved down there...so I wanted to flash...you know?

[Asian]

Do I have to get insulted every time I open my mouth

Katie, I wasn't insulting you! It was a compliment. I love reading some of your more risque stories, and to me, you're a real cockteaser.

I would love to F*** your brains out.

[Asian]

i once walked around a house full of mates after a shower, completely nude. Female and male. I don't mind people seeing my vagina or breasts. They are part of what makes me female...and I'm proud to have them. Also, I'd just shaved down there...so I wanted to flash...you know?

Hi ma'am You must be one hot MILF. As you said, you're quite an exhibitionist, but what does your husband has to say about it? Does he even know?

[Guest]

My husband and i have been i holiday a number of times with friends and i dont have a problem going topless.
The first time i did it a friend said that i was brave and i answered her by saying well we all have a pair. The next holiday we went on with them she also went topless with me.

[elliott20]

I think it's less accepted in the US than say, many parts of Europe. When I was backpacking through Italy, I've been to a number of beaches with my friends and we always couldn't stop but marvel at all the hot women just walking around topless like it's no big deal. (It also gave us all away as being hopelessly american since we weren't very good at hiding our gawking faces back then)

Of course, nude beaches have one thing I gotta complain about... quality control. I've never seen so many nude 50+ year old people in my life. It's a little excessive, to say the least.