pathological liar

[NIKKI1126]

Hi I have been married to a pathological liar..He can never be honest and now he has run our bank accounts to drains. He would just lie about anything. I was so sick of him that I thought it was best for me to move to NYC and pursue my Phd. I thought may be distance might help him understand the importance of wife and son. I was turned wrong to a point that I will call him and say"swear on my life you won;t waste your time playing everquest, and his reply would be promise I won't" couple days later I would find out he did. He used all the money we had to buy tech toys and I couldn't control anything. I have no money to buy our son food. I have to keep borrowing money from my mom. He promises me that he will correct everything, he would change and I heard the same things in December when I first found out about his shopping habbits. He sounds so real when he makes promises and trap myself into believing it but it doesn;t change...I am not sure wat should I do?

[Lena]

Wait till he falls asleep then pour gasoline on him and set a fire........................

Tie him to a chair and put on marathon of EASTENDERS, the boredoom will kill him

Take him to a back area then suddenly slap his face saying " What do you mean Martin Luther King was gay " ? and then watch the lynching ............

[H.Patel]

He is a very bad man.

[Guest]

i wud have to hear his side of the story

[Guest]

Hi I have been married to a pathological liar..He can never be honest and now he has run our bank accounts to drains. He would just lie about anything. I was so sick of him that I thought it was best for me to move to NYC and pursue my Phd. I thought may be distance might help him understand the importance of wife and son. I was turned wrong to a point that I will call him and say"swear on my life you won;t waste your time playing everquest, and his reply would be promise I won't" couple days later I would find out he did. He used all the money we had to buy tech toys and I couldn't control anything. I have no money to buy our son food. I have to keep borrowing money from my mom. He promises me that he will correct everything, he would change and I heard the same things in December when I first found out about his shopping habbits. He sounds so real when he makes promises and trap myself into believing it but it doesn;t change...I am not sure wat should I do?

I'm sorry but I have to ask, how do we know that you are not the pathological liar?

You must admit that in light of your post, it is a fair question.

[Guest]

coud be

[Guest]

Hi I have been married to a pathological liar..He can never be honest and now he has run our bank accounts to drains. He would just lie about anything. I was so sick of him that I thought it was best for me to move to NYC and pursue my Phd. I thought may be distance might help him understand the importance of wife and son. I was turned wrong to a point that I will call him and say"swear on my life you won;t waste your time playing everquest, and his reply would be promise I won't" couple days later I would find out he did. He used all the money we had to buy tech toys and I couldn't control anything. I have no money to buy our son food. I have to keep borrowing money from my mom. He promises me that he will correct everything, he would change and I heard the same things in December when I first found out about his shopping habbits. He sounds so real when he makes promises and trap myself into believing it but it doesn;t change...I am not sure wat should I do?

You get out now. A liar CAN change, but not until he is good and ready, ususally when his whole world is in danger of collapsing around him.
Pull the plug on him now, before you lose yourself.

[wickedwitch]

I married one years back, they are really good at putting on the charm to win you back, but he never did change and I found out the hard way.

Remember Pathalogicl liars will look you in the face no matter what and Lie through there back teeth. You will never trust him again or believe him, so where there is no trust there is no foundation.

[lady-in-waiting]

I have met people who are pathological liars, but only to themselves.

[Guest]

I have met people who are pathological liars, but only to themselves.

huh?

[lady-in-waiting]

I have met people who are pathological liars, but only to themselves.

huh?

I am referring to people who are pathologically in denial.

[Guest]

Hi I have been married to a pathological liar..He can never be honest and now he has run our bank accounts to drains. He would just lie about anything. I was so sick of him that I thought it was best for me to move to NYC and pursue my Phd. I thought may be distance might help him understand the importance of wife and son. I was turned wrong to a point that I will call him and say"swear on my life you won;t waste your time playing everquest, and his reply would be promise I won't" couple days later I would find out he did. He used all the money we had to buy tech toys and I couldn't control anything. I have no money to buy our son food. I have to keep borrowing money from my mom. He promises me that he will correct everything, he would change and I heard the same things in December when I first found out about his shopping habbits. He sounds so real when he makes promises and trap myself into believing it but it doesn;t change...I am not sure wat should I do?

I'm sorry but I have to ask, how do we know that you are not the pathological liar?

You must admit that in light of your post, it is a fair question.

+1

[noodles]

Wait till he falls asleep then pour gasoline on him and set a fire........................

Tie him to a chair and put on marathon of EASTENDERS, the boredoom will kill him

Take him to a back area then suddenly slap his face saying " What do you mean Martin Luther King was gay " ? and then watch the lynching ............

Excellent - like the first option myself

[Guest]

Wait till he falls asleep then pour gasoline on him and set a fire........................

Tie him to a chair and put on marathon of EASTENDERS, the boredoom will kill him

Take him to a back area then suddenly slap his face saying " What do you mean Martin Luther King was gay " ? and then watch the lynching ............

Excellent - like the first option myself

[noodles]

Why the eye roll guest. Its called humour - maybe you should try it sometime.