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Handjobs. Any techinques you men favor?

Postby LikeAVirgin on Tue Jun 01, 2004 5:24 pm

My boyfriend has been wanting me to give him a hand job for awhile now, but I've been really hesitant because I've never given one before.

I want to make him happy and give him as much pleasure as possible, so how do I do that? I know to ask him what he likes and everything, and I will when the time comes, but do any of you men out there have any pointers that I could work with until then?

I've read on the male G-Spot, or Prostrate, and that has helped, but there must be something else you like since not all women know about it.

Ladies feel free to reply too, let me know what your man likes.

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Postby Graham on Tue Jun 01, 2004 5:32 pm

male G spot :?

ok, never heard or felt that.

if u aint done a hand job b4 here are a few tips, cause it can b sore if u aint doin it right

1. start by goin UP not down!
2. dont squeaze to hard, just nice an smooth.
3. Try and rotate ur hand around while ur goin up and down (hard i know it sounds, makes alot of difference)
4. use ur other hand to rub ur b/fs balls, sounds mingin but its a real turn on!

hope all goes well...

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Postby Atomic_dogz on Tue Jun 01, 2004 5:43 pm

If that does not work try wearing sheer tights/pantyhose and use your feet to stroke him. I am pretty sure your feet will receive a "WARM & WET" very shortly!!

FOOTJOBS!!!

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Postby LikeAVirgin on Tue Jun 01, 2004 6:14 pm

Graham-
Go here: For some info on the male G-Spot/Prostrate.

And for your #1, by going 'UP' do you mean go in an upward motion? Or up his shaft? Sorry, was a bit confused on that one. And is a hand job more of a stroking/massaging thing or more of a rythmic jerking?

Also, have any of you guys out there recieved a hand job from someone and known it was their first time doing it? If so, what would you say are some things they did 'wrong', or could have improved?

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Postby Graham on Tue Jun 01, 2004 7:16 pm

LikeAVirgin wrote:Graham-
Go here:For some info on the male G-Spot/Prostrate.

And for your #1, by going 'UP' do you mean go in an upward motion? Or up his shaft? Sorry, was a bit confused on that one. And is a hand job more of a stroking/massaging thing or more of a rythmic jerking?

Also, have any of you guys out there recieved a hand job from someone and known it was their first time doing it? If so, what would you say are some things they did 'wrong', or could have improved?


it depends on how u wanna do it, if u wanna make him cum "jerkin" is the way....
if its just foreplay, massagin it slowly up and down is better
what i mean by goin up first, if u go down u just pull the foreskin down and it f**kin hurts.

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Postby LikeAVirgin on Wed Jun 02, 2004 12:26 am

So down means towards the body? Or away?

Thanks for the help, it's greatly appreciated.

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Postby Graham on Wed Jun 02, 2004 5:03 pm

away from the body...

good luck, tell us how u get on.

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Postby peter83 on Wed Jun 02, 2004 5:50 pm

I like it when my wife gives me a hand job standing behind me so that I can feel her pubic hair against my arse.

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Postby talairan on Thu Jun 03, 2004 7:30 pm

Use a Lubricant (KY, petroleum jelly) it will lessen the friction, particularly under the glans (which is the most sensitive part).
While you are giving him the hand job ask him if he likes what you are doing, and then do it slightly harder/ faster etc. Alternate between long, slow strokes up and down the shaft, with rotation around it as has been suggested before, and short quick strokes just under the glans (with just thumb and forefinger curled around it), with foreskin pulled down.
When he becomes catalytic you know you've done something right. :D

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Postby Rapax on Fri Jun 04, 2004 4:56 pm

It's very simple... be more natural you can... nobody can tell you how you can do ... only your boyfriend knows what he likes for himself ... so feel free to ask him while you do it...or if you don't... go slow and take a look at his face, you can read if he likes...however I use to say... "nobody can make me an handjob like i can"... it's a very personal thing... :wink:

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Postby Fitzroy on Sun Jun 13, 2004 9:09 am

The hand that rocks his penis, rules his world. :D

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Postby LizMc on Mon Jun 14, 2004 6:04 pm

The best W*** is a tit W***!!

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Postby Tony on Tue Jun 15, 2004 10:42 am

LizMc wrote:The best W*** is a tit W***!!


LizMC,

Can u clarify wot a tit W***! is please..!! some of us are not as experienced as all unfortunately.!

Thanks
Tony

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Postby Fatlisa on Tue Jun 15, 2004 11:32 am

Tony wrote:
LizMc wrote:The best W*** is a tit W***!!


LizMC,

Can u clarify wot a tit W***! is please..!! some of us are not as experienced as all unfortunately.!

Thanks
Tony


It is when you place your penis between the breasts while they are being pushed together and basically thrust between them. While you are doing that she can lick the tip of you dick is she wants.

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Postby Tony on Tue Jun 15, 2004 12:24 pm

Fatlisa wrote:
Tony wrote:
LizMc wrote:The best W*** is a tit W***!!


LizMC,

Can u clarify wot a tit W***! is please..!! some of us are not as experienced as all unfortunately.!

Thanks
Tony


It is when you place your penis between the breasts while they are being pushed together and basically thrust between them. While you are doing that she can lick the tip of you dick is she wants.



Thanks for the clarification Lisa, Just the sound of it is making me Hrony..! :lol:

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