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Caught my Girlfriend with a huge dildos

Postby JKN » Fri Jul 06, 2007 1:17 pm

This is a serious post.
I returned to our flat from work after leaving 15 mins beforehand this morning as I had left my lunch at home.

My girlfriend was due to start work later that morning, I surprised her in our bedroom. We both got a big surprise as I caught her naked on our bed masterbating with a huge dildos
We were both embarrassed, we both knew we W*** on our own, thats just normal, I was not prepared by her using this massive instrument.

We are both 23 and have been seeing each other for 4 years, I thought I knew her and what she likes.
I am a resonably sized guy but I cannot compete with that monster now hidden in our home!

Advice please girls (not from those creepy guys that insult you on this site)
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Postby statto » Fri Jul 06, 2007 1:36 pm

Alright mate

Do you still have an active and fun sex life? Then if so, don't look at it as a problem as she clearly is not using this in place of you, just to have some fun.

As it is now obviuosly going on, why not talk to her about it, maybe use some of her toys in your sex life....look at it as an opportunity and not a threat.
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Re: Caught my Girlfriend with a huge dildos

Postby nikko2 » Fri Jul 06, 2007 1:37 pm

JKN wrote:This is a serious post.
I returned to our flat from work after leaving 15 mins beforehand this morning as I had left my lunch at home.

My girlfriend was due to start work later that morning, I surprised her in our bedroom. We both got a big surprise as I caught her naked on our bed masterbating with a huge dildos
We were both embarrassed, we both knew we W*** on our own, thats just normal, I was not prepared by her using this massive instrument.

We are both 23 and have been seeing each other for 4 years, I thought I knew her and what she likes.
I am a resonably sized guy but I cannot compete with that monster now hidden in our home!

Advice please girls (not from those creepy guys that insult you on this site)



Just add those toys in the game together, and both will have fun.
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Postby Guest » Fri Jul 06, 2007 2:32 pm

I have Fleshlight and kept secret. I'm not let know other family member. Fleshlight is very private for my pleasure :D

You caught her that was very embarrassed. That very unfortunately
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Postby jinjin » Fri Jul 06, 2007 3:40 pm

Toys are simply a masturbatory tool. If there was a masturbation dependency problem affecting your relationship, you would have sensed it well before this incident. I suggest you either dismiss the incident or incorporate toys into your sex play.
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Postby GKN » Fri Jul 06, 2007 4:06 pm

To be honest now I've overcome my initial shock I feel a bit horny thinking about the image of her with the mammoth tool.

What amazes me is that she is a petite 5'1" and I would never of thought she could of 'taken' the size of the dildos
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Postby JKN » Fri Jul 06, 2007 4:07 pm

To be honest now I've overcome my initial shock I feel a bit horny thinking about the image of her with the mammoth tool.

What amazes me is that she is a petite 5'1" and I would never of thought she could of 'taken' the size of the TOY that she had with her.......
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Postby Ruth5 » Fri Jul 06, 2007 6:27 pm

You should have joined in with her, if you have been together for 4 years now, you must know each other pretty well, so don't take it as a threat, most, if not all, guys w@nk when they are in a relationship so its nothing differant.
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Postby Guest » Fri Jul 06, 2007 8:17 pm

This shows she secretly lusts after a guy with a bigger C***. You will never be able to satifsy her. if you can live with this then fine. Me personally I'd be off
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Postby Ruth5 » Sat Jul 07, 2007 9:34 am

. wrote:This shows she secretly lusts after a guy with a bigger C***. You will never be able to satifsy her. if you can live with this then fine. Me personally I'd be off


This of course, is also true !
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Postby mande » Sun Jul 08, 2007 12:44 am

Don't listen to these idiots above.

You love her, right?
Well then just accept what she likes to do, and have done to herself. You should write yourself into the story.
The next time you're having sex, ask her to break it out and use it in front of you. You can feel her, suck her, do all sorts of nice things to her while she uses it on herself, including putting your C*** in her mouth.
You will both have loads of fun. Why think you're competing with it? If you make it a "IT or ME" situation, then you will be.
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Postby Guest » Sun Jul 08, 2007 12:50 am

So mande you'd be happy for your man to pull outa pair of big false tits while getting jiggy with him? Perhaps a blow up doll too for him to penetrate. Hey enjoy it and join it
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Postby Guest » Sun Jul 08, 2007 12:58 am

. wrote:So mande you'd be happy for your man to pull outa pair of big false tits while getting jiggy with him? Perhaps a blow up doll too for him to penetrate. Hey enjoy it and join it


:lol: :lol: :lol:
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Postby aussiebloke » Mon Jul 09, 2007 10:32 am

Mate, I've got a average sized dick and bought my missus an absolute giant of a vibrator.

We use it together (I love to push it into her and watching her eyes bulge with enjoyment) and she uses it by herself.

Since getting it, sex has been better. Don't worry about it - she still prefers a real live dick but there is no way I can do what this whopper does.

I agree with the others, relax, jump in and enjoy the fun. (Also, if you enjoying playing with toys, my missus also loves to use the balls that you insert in the fanny and walk around in - very nice :evil: )
Ahh bugger, I did it again!
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Postby bexxx » Mon Jul 09, 2007 4:00 pm

JKN wrote:

What amazes me is that she is a petite 5'1" and I would never of thought she could of 'taken' the size of the TOY that she had with her.......

You would be suprised at what we can take when we are feeling horny! I use a massive dong to mastur-bate with as I like it and have done for years. It is not something I use to replace a guy, just something different that I like the feel of. Don't be intimidated by it, try and get her to let you enjoy it with her - and don't ask her not to use it when you are not there. Maybe she was embaressed that she uses it, it is rather daunting when first showing a guy your toys, especially the big ones. If you do end up using it with her then go slowly with it and don't get carried away - you can do a bit of damage being too rough with something of that size. When you have something 3-4inches diameter inside you then going slowly is the key, to start with :wink:
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