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Boyfriend wants me to pee my pants.

Postby Guest on Tue Jul 17, 2007 6:17 pm

It all started by accident really, a couple of weeks ago we were on our way home from a party, when I became desperate to pee. Well, the upshot of it was, the lager I'd consumed made near on impossible to hold it until we got home, and I'm afraid I disgraced myself, by totally wetting myself. My knickers, tights and the back of my skirt were soaking, naturally, I was embarrassed and felt totally humiliated, although my boyfriend tried to play it down and not make me feel so bad. I was thankful for his reaction, as he didn't seem to bothered that his girlfriend had just peed herself like a little girl, but subsequently I realize why.
A few days later he told me that seeing me wet myself was the sexiest thing he'd ever seen, and now he wants me to do it again, but deliberately!.
Is this normal, has anyone else ever heard of a man being turned on in this way?. I find it all a little strange myself.

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Postby pisces on Tue Jul 17, 2007 6:23 pm

i have never heard of this being a turn on,but hey!whatever floats his boat!don't do anything you're not completely comfortable with,though
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Postby Guest on Tue Jul 17, 2007 7:06 pm

generally people on this baord tend to think

1. Everthing is hot
2. Do everything to please your man

I disagree with both

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Postby pisces on Tue Jul 17, 2007 7:40 pm

Tys wrote:Do it, and then crap on his chest. He'll love it.

You're welcome.

tys,could u behave yourself for once please? :lol:
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Postby TonyRockyhara on Tue Jul 17, 2007 8:24 pm

. wrote:generally people on this baord tend to think

1. Everthing is hot
2. Do everything to please your man

I disagree with both


Said the horny old spinster...

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Re: Boyfriend wants me to pee my pants.

Postby jinjin on Tue Jul 17, 2007 10:29 pm

What you described is a fetish called urolagnia. It is also known as watersports or golden showers. Urolagnia is generally considered harmless because the urine of a healthy individual (you) is sterile.

However, urine is used to expel excess salts and minerals from the body. So it may become a health problem, if he wants to drink your urine. Drinking urine is not urolagnia, but a related fetish called urophagia.

Also, individuals with sensitive skin may be prone to getting a skin rash.

If you both feel comfortable about this fetish and are prepared to manage the potential health risk and increase laundry expense then pee away.
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Postby Gotta Say on Tue Jul 17, 2007 11:02 pm

Jinjin has explained it great as she usually does. You just type golden shower in google and see the number of results you receive to get an idea if this is normal lol.

I have to say Jinjin that you take the fun and erotic factor out by turning things into scientific lectures. Just kidding :P Keep doing it :)

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Postby Guest on Wed Jul 18, 2007 2:09 am

yeah i find it hot

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Postby Gill K on Wed Jul 25, 2007 3:19 pm

I had a similar experience about a year after I got married. Like you, I was on the way home, absolutely desperate, could not hold it and totally wet myself. I was quite upset but, to my surprise, my husband was very turned on. Next day, he brought the subject up again and wanted to know if I had wet myself before or known other girls do so. Then he asked if I would do it again. I was quite shocked but said I would try sometime. I love him very much and wanted to please him but it did seem rather strange. Anyway, when I got up a bit later to go to the loo he said why didn't I do it. After hesitating, I said I would. We stood in the kitchen, which has a tiled floor, and I made a great puddle, soaking my knickers and tights. Actually it was not easy to start because I had to overcome years of conditioning not to wet my knickers. Since then, I have done it quite a few times. It always turns my husband on (with a good follow up!). I don't do it that often because if it became too frequent I think it might lose its effect. I must admit that now and againI do it when by myself, usually when on the way home and needing to go.

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Postby ruastray on Sun Jun 29, 2008 11:08 pm

I would be one of the guys who would be very turned on if a female I was on a date with, accidently wet herself. I would be concerned that this did not cause distress to her, but if it did not, I would want to get a lot more intimate :)
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Boyfriend wants me to pee my pants

Postby keira1 on Mon Jun 30, 2008 4:29 pm

Hi, like a lot of folks on this forum I like the feeling of a full bladder and the desperation of needing to pee......at home alone I often wander around my garden letting out little squirts, it always leads to a wonderful orgasm.
An even stronger orgasm is to hold on to my pee and masturbateMy g/f and I play water games together and we enjoy a very intense time (either needing or not needing to pee)

I say give it a go, if nothing else your b/f may really get a buzz out of it and sex may be even better for you both, at the least your b/f will enjoy it and you wont, but you will have given him some addesd pleasure.

:wink: :wink:
with luv n stuff Keira x

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Postby ruastray on Tue Jul 01, 2008 11:22 pm

hopefully by now you have flooded your panties a few times for your boyfriend. If you still come to this site, it would be nice to know how you got on. :)
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Re: Boyfriend wants me to pee my pants.

Postby Guest on Wed Jul 02, 2008 2:17 am

. wrote:It all started by accident really, a couple of weeks ago we were on our way home from a party, when I became desperate to pee. Well, the upshot of it was, the lager I'd consumed made near on impossible to hold it until we got home, and I'm afraid I disgraced myself, by totally wetting myself. My knickers, tights and the back of my skirt were soaking, naturally, I was embarrassed and felt totally humiliated, although my boyfriend tried to play it down and not make me feel so bad. I was thankful for his reaction, as he didn't seem to bothered that his girlfriend had just peed herself like a little girl, but subsequently I realize why.
A few days later he told me that seeing me wet myself was the sexiest thing he'd ever seen, and now he wants me to do it again, but deliberately!.
Is this normal, has anyone else ever heard of a man being turned on in this way?. I find it all a little strange myself.

he has a golden shower fetish & wud love to drink yr wee but is scared to tell you...

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Postby Nameless on Wed Jul 02, 2008 3:15 am

I'd be turned on by this and I suspect the majority of guys would be. I expect most of us would be reluctant to mention it, but once it has happened in the sort of incident mentioned, there's greater desire to see it happen again.

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Postby scottishtightslover on Wed Jul 02, 2008 9:32 am

i agree

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