by uri » Mon Feb 11, 2008 10:49 am
guys, why are you so afraid of the girly/gay thing?
It seems a bit weird to me, because in the past thrity years, everything changed: Men wear long hair, perfume, earrings in both ears, die their hair, pluck their eyebrows, etc. Even heard of skirts and makeup for men.
But still, men are afraid of being considered "girly" or "gay", so they must do everything in "male" fashion: "male" earrings, and not dangly girly earrings, "male" piercing, and not "Girly" piercing, "male" perfume, etc.
Hellow guys - you don't hate girls, don't you? You like the way girls look? want to look that way? Go gor it! So someone might think you're gay, or a woman, so what? What wrong with "sorry, you're wrong"?
Well, I know, it's not that simple. I just wanted to bring that up...
If it was that simple I wouldn't be so much in love with the subject... I'd love to be girly. I'd pierce my belly button to look girly - right after I'd have my hair removed down there...
I actually did pierce my navel myself some 12 years ago. put a regular earring there, and had it under my shirt until it got infected. yes I have a scar - also have scars on my nipples, also self-pierced...