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Pregnant and 19

Postby Guest » Sun Jul 29, 2007 6:50 pm

I have done 3 pregnancy tests today and all are positive. I'm only 19 and want to go to university in the future, so a baby is out of the question! There's absolutely no way i can tell any of my family-i think they would dis-own me. Is anybody in or been in a similar situation to this? How did u deal with it? And roughly how long does it take to get an appointment for an abortion? It really hasn't sunk in properly-i never in a million years thot I'd be in this situation! I'm in complete shock!
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Re: Pregnant and 19

Postby Guest » Mon Jul 30, 2007 1:02 pm

. wrote:I have done 3 pregnancy tests today and all are positive. I'm only 19 and want to go to university in the future, so a baby is out of the question! There's absolutely no way i can tell any of my family-i think they would dis-own me. Is anybody in or been in a similar situation to this? How did u deal with it? And roughly how long does it take to get an appointment for an abortion? It really hasn't sunk in properly-i never in a million years thot I'd be in this situation! I'm in complete shock!


Talk to animalover15.
She is the resident baby killing abortionist and can tell you where you can have the child sucked out and washed down the sink
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Postby Guest » Mon Jul 30, 2007 7:57 pm

No if u had read the post properly u wud kno that. And btw it's my body, therefore it's my decision! I only need to tell the people I want to tell. Please could somebody offer some proper advice instead of slating my decision to have an abortion? I know some people don't agree with abortion but I know this is the right decision to make. And unless you have experienced being pregnant at 19 urself I'd rather u kept ur negative opinions to urself.
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Re: Pregnant and 19

Postby Guest » Mon Jul 30, 2007 7:59 pm

And please cud u change the record? It's getting rather tedious now, not to mention the fact u are completely sick and insensitive.
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Postby Verve » Tue Jul 31, 2007 2:51 am

Steve have you walked your dog lately?
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Postby Guest » Tue Jul 31, 2007 7:28 am

you should have used protection if you didnt want kids people like you make me sick there are couples out there who would give anything to have kids and then people like you who dont think twice about killing then
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Postby Winky89 » Tue Jul 31, 2007 8:36 am

but there are also a lot of unwanted children out there, blame the adoption system. If it wasnt so tough to get through then these couples would have their children. What's the point in a young girl bringing a child into the world if it's not going to be loved or taken care of properly.

Protection is not 100% effective. Myself and my brother were both conceived while Mum was using the pill.

To the OP: My mum gave birth to me at 18, I've turned out ok. Think carefully about what you're doing. You will know deep down what to do eventually.
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Postby Guest » Tue Jul 31, 2007 1:03 pm

Winky89 wrote:but there are also a lot of unwanted children out there, .


That's bloody brilliant!
Blame the adoption system instead of stupid women that spread their legs without thinking of the consequences!

Your the perfect example as to why 18 years old doe not mean your an adult!
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Postby Guest » Tue Jul 31, 2007 1:07 pm

Winky89 wrote:

To the OP: My mum gave birth to me at 18, I've turned out ok.


No you haven't!
Your a callus little girl when it comes to men and children.
Blame your mother for spreading her legs too early for a man that was crap!
The only reason you THINK your OK is because you found a cesspool of other divorce product rejects here on this forum.
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Postby Guest » Tue Jul 31, 2007 4:19 pm

. wrote:you should have used protection if you didnt want kids people like you make me sick there are couples out there who would give anything to have kids and then people like you who dont think twice about killing then


The thing is tho, i did use contraception! I am a prime example of how contraception is not always 100% reliable. The last thing i want at the moment is a child, I've always said that I don't want children until I'm at least in my late twenties and married with a career.
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Postby Guest » Wed Aug 01, 2007 12:45 pm

. wrote:
. wrote:you should have used protection if you didnt want kids people like you make me sick there are couples out there who would give anything to have kids and then people like you who dont think twice about killing then


The thing is tho, i did use contraception! I am a prime example of how contraception is not always 100% reliable. The last thing i want at the moment is a child, I've always said that I don't want children until I'm at least in my late twenties and married with a career.


NO
YOUR A PRIME EXAMPLE OF AN BABY KILLING SLUT THAT COULD CARE LESS ABOUT THE LIFE WITHIN HERE
ALL YOU WANT IT TO BE ABLE TO SPREAD YOU LEGS AND DAMN (ABORT) THE CONSEQUENCES
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Postby Winky89 » Wed Aug 01, 2007 12:55 pm

Ok, so what if she does keep the baby and the father ends up not wanting to know - doesnt that make her a selfish single mother in your book steve? Either way she cant win.
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Postby Guest » Wed Aug 01, 2007 3:30 pm

Winky89 wrote:Ok, so what if she does keep the baby and the father ends up not wanting to know - doesnt that make her a selfish single mother in your book steve? Either way she cant win.


ADOPTION
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Postby Winky89 » Wed Aug 01, 2007 4:20 pm

So then the kid spends its first few years miserably being lumped from place to place? I dont think so...
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Postby Guest » Wed Aug 01, 2007 6:57 pm

Winky89 wrote:So then the kid spends its first few years miserably being lumped from place to place? I dont think so...


Here in the US the mother gets to pick the adoptive parents.

What you are talking about sounds like a foster/orphanage type home for abandoned kids.
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