Masterbating

[toconfused]

I am woried about my 9 year old girl.
It was last week and i went upstairs to tell her that tea was ready. I opened the door slitlely and i saw her with my boyfreinds viberater. She had her jeans and knikers off, sitting on her bed with her legs wide open MASTERBATING i diddnt say any thing i just knokced on the door she said dont come in be down in a second. Should i be woried?

[jinjin]

If you are worry about the masturbation, then there may not be anything wrong. Puberty usually starts anywhere between the ages of 8 and 13. Your daughter may have started early.

If you are worry about how she got a hold of your boyfriend's vibrator then you have an issue to investigate.

[Guest]

If your daughter knows how to use a vibrator she probably has been using if for some time. If she has entered puberty to the extent that she enjoys masturbating, she is going to continue doing it one way or another until she outgrows it. You may be upset about that, but her hormones have kicked in and there is nothing you can do to stop them. If you have nto done so already, you should have a talk with her as soon as possible about the changes that are starting to occur in her body. She is probably ahead of her freinds and classmates in entering puberty, so she has a lot of questions and needs someone to answer them.

Your daughter using your boyfriend's vibrator is another matter. You should make it clear to her that she should not take or use other people's property, particularly their personal things, without their permission. You do not have to mention the vibrator specifically, but you do need to talk with her. If your boyfriend did give her permission to use his vibrator, then you have a much more serious problem which you should discuss with your boyfriend rather than your daughter.

[Guest]

why does your boyfriend have a vibrator stored somewhere your 9year old can find it?
you have issues =]

[The Colonel]

I don't believe the OP.

What idiot would come to a forum, type that, and ask "should I be worried?"

I'm more worried about their perversion and the fact they can't spell.

[Death From Above 1993]

Slightly harsh there I think Colonel, not everybody has our impeccable spelling and grammar. It does strike me as a tall story, but I don't see what's perverted about it. If there is a grain of truth in it, then this boyfriend is remarkably careless (unless he did give this girl his vibrator, in which case, yeah, he's a creep!) and this girl has remarkably little respect for property.

[The Colonel]

Compare this then:

In Family:

http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/board/viewtopic.php?t=181854

In Parenting:

http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/board/viewtopic.php?t=181852

When you read a lot here, you spot them a mile away.

Note Guest 15 was posting asking for advice in Parenting, but was giving advice (the same advice supposedly "others" wew giving in Parenting) in Family.

This story isn't true.

[MOMMYguest]

I am in my mid 40's and I began masturbating when I was around 8. A boyfriend my mom had at the time that I HAD to call "dad" was being very strict with me. If I did anything he didnt like it was immediately, without discussion, a trip over his knee. He took me by the hand and led me up to their room and closed the door. A do not disturb sign was put on the door. Mom wasn't even even allowed up there.She wasn't to interfere. He would sit on something like a piano bench and put my over his knee.My dress would be lifted all the way up to my neck and my panties, well he would just remove the completely. He would give me a generous portion of corporal punishment with his open hand. If I was particularly bad ,like for sassing back or lying or steeling etc...it was a trip to his room where I was to take my cloths all off. I then had to get the hair brush and pass it to him and then ask him very politely ..."Can you give me my spanking now daddy, Ive been a bad girl." Good day I can remember this like it was yesterday. He would them put me face down over his lap and ask me if I was ready and rub my bottom with his hand. When I was ready he would proceed to paddle my bare buttocks putting me into a state of complete repentance. During these spankings my mothers boyfriend would take it upon himself to fondle me while I lay blubbering and crying sorry,promising to never do it again. I was spanked quite frequently like this and it soon became the source of my masturbation fantasies as a little girl. I would go back to my bed after these spankings and masturbatemasturbation. Thanks for listening.

[MOMMY guest]

. I would go back to my bed after these spankings masturbate

[sorrygirl]

When I was younger and had children and you caught your little boy or little girl touching themselves or another child you would say things like "that's dirty...you dirty little girl" or "good girls don't do that!" and maybe even pull down the pants and spank them quite soundly . When I was a little girl my mother caught me with a way older boy. I was only 8 or so and this boy was probably around 13 or 14. My mother came along and saw me sitting on this boys lap with his hand down the front of my pants ,rubbing me inside my panties. What my mother didnt know was what else this boy had been doing to doing to me. I remember telling my mom...but it felt good when he did that to me. I didnt know that feeling good was so wrong. What Ill never forget was being across her lap naked and my fathers belt against my skin all over my bottom and legs. And the thing is,I got blamed and the boy got to watch the spanking I got. My mother had no idea that this 14 year old had been putting his penis in my vagina and climaxing. After that, the boy was still allowed to come around and we didnt get caught after that. This brings me to my granddaughter and why I'm so surprised. I had a really hard time keeping myself from wigging out when I came upstairs and down the hall the other day carrying laundry. I had been out earlier that day and I'm guessing that the kids didnt know I was back. She is 9 and her friend(a boy) is 11. Something caught my eye and I was in the shadows with the laundry and stopped in my tracks. My granddaughter was laying on her bed and had no clothes on. She lifted her head and I realized that she had just been performing oral sex on the 11 year old friend(a boy) . I didnt believe my eyes until I saw her hand going up and down on this boys erection. It was then that I realized what had caught my eye. Long story short,... this was all the side effects of children sneaking out of their rooms at night and watching the Adult porn. that their parents had on the television in the living room. Children are sexual.

[mad dad]

I am woried about my 9 year old girl.
It was last week and i went upstairs to tell her that tea was ready. I opened the door slitlely and i saw her with my boyfreinds viberater. She had her jeans and knikers off, sitting on her bed with her legs wide open MASTERBATING i diddnt say any thing i just knokced on the door she said dont come in be down in a second. Should i be woried?

I have actually seen girl of 10 masturbating with a dildosvibrator and not just rubbing it on the outside, but actually had penetrated herself vaginally and was pushing it in and pulling it out and at a brisk pace I might add. I was a bit more than shocked and the container of Vaseline right there next to her. Why would she not have the door shut. From what I gather it was her sisters toy(I knew nothing about) and seemed to know what she was doing. She didnt even have a single piece of clothing on. I would like to know who showed her to use it. Of course Ive read that kids as young as 11 are giving even much older boys full oral sex. Sometimes teenagers are getting the younger ones to do it. I saw it on tv. They think its a status thing. The girls go up in status amongst the group with the more boys they perform oral sex on. I didnt wait for her mother to deal with it ,I waited until she was (done) and took her across my knee for one of the hardest bare bottom hand spankings she has ever gotten from me. Shortly after that I heard (through her tears)the thing up there buzzing again. What ...did the spanking turn her on. Was she masturbating again after that spanking.A frustrated father.

[Ivan Diederhoff]

I am woried about my 9 year old girl.
It was last week and i went upstairs to tell her that tea was ready. I opened the door slitlely and i saw her with my boyfreinds viberater. She had her jeans and knikers off, sitting on her bed with her legs wide open MASTERBATING i diddnt say any thing i just knokced on the door she said dont come in be down in a second. Should i be woried?

I have actually seen girl of 10 masturbating with a <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_64_261' target='_blank'>dildosvibrator</A> and not just rubbing it on the outside, but actually had penetrated herself vaginally and was pushing it in and pulling it out and at a brisk pace I might add. I was a bit more than shocked and the container of Vaseline right there next to her. Why would she not have the door shut. From what I gather it was her sisters toy(I knew nothing about) and seemed to know what she was doing. She didnt even have a single piece of clothing on. I would like to know who showed her to use it. Of course Ive read that kids as young as 11 are giving even much older boys full oral sex. Sometimes teenagers are getting the younger ones to do it. I saw it on tv. They think its a status thing. The girls go up in status amongst the group with the more boys they perform oral sex on. I didnt wait for her mother to deal with it ,I waited until she was (done) and took her across my knee for one of the hardest bare bottom hand spankings she has ever gotten from me. Shortly after that I heard (through her tears)the thing up there buzzing again. What ...did the spanking turn her on. Was she masturbating again after that spanking.A frustrated father.

Be glad I'm not your neighbor, had I heard you spanked her for something as natural as self pleasure, I'd have the cops tearing your ass up!!!! When they were done with you, I'D tear your ass up! You think beating them is going to stop a child from exploring themselves? All you're doing is giving a negative association and messing their heads up! Worst thing is, when someone bitch slaps you, you'd be the first one to go running like a pussy and complain how wrong it was! LOSER!