My boyfriend needs a bra!

[Panty-boy]

My wife has just found out that I still love to wear panties, bras, stockings etc. She hates the idea and is 'forcing' me to stop - it is the only basis on which she will continue the marriage (we have 3 children). My dressing originally came to light about 5 years ago, and was a big problem then, and although I said I would stop, I find it very difficult to stop.

I have tried on suspender belts in lingerie shops which was a massive thrill - my wife does not know this and would be absolutely distraught if she found out! She would be horrified and embarrased at the idea of doing any shpping for undies with me (she is intensely sensitive about what other people think - even entering an Anne Summers shop in a neighbouring town would be too embarrassing for her "in case someone saw her")

She won't allow any kind of dressing - in the house or out of it.

Not sure where this will go, but I am trying hard not to buy any new things or to wear anything girlie, but I am finding it unbelievably difficult. It seems odd that something so potentially innocuous (wearing lacy underwear) should a) be such a problem for my wife and b) so hard for me to stop doing

Thanks for listening, reading, whatever

[Guest]

Well, my wife keeps teasing me and telling me that I need a bra which I really do. I am sure she is not serious about it but I do not know how to tell her. This not to metion my own fears. She is a stong woman an I know it the moment I wear it, she will not make me the same man again!!

IF YOU NEED A BRA TELL HER. MY WIFE CAUGHT ME OUT A FEW WEEKS AGO AND I EXPLAINED WHY SHE WAS QUITRE HAPPY. SHE WILL UNDERSTAND YOU AND IT WILL BE EASIER FOR YOU WHEMN BRA WEARING IS A NORMAL NOT A CLANDESTINE PART OF YOUR ACTIVITIES

[Guest]

My boyfriend has been wearing a jogging bra most of the time now and if he picks the right shirt it doesn't show. He thought it was stupid at first but now he likes the way it holds his boobs and they don't jiggle around so much, so it's made him feel better about himself. I'm glad I was able to talk him into it because he's not so stressed now and is a lot more fun to be with.

I guess it's true that bras have a purpose and if a guy needs to wear one, he should just do it!

I have been wearing a Sport Bra on/off for a year and now wear it most of the time. It support my 40B boobs and holds them in. I also feel it improves my figure. More men need to wear bras and it should be acceptable as a male garment. I am not all self-conscious about it!

[blueberry]

i understand why yr bf doesn't want to wear a bra. it is because he think bra is for girl, not for guy. If he wear it in summer time, everyone will see him wear a bra. Maybe he wear it in winter, it would be better. at least no one see it.

i have a question, why u became his gf? u like his character or u like his appearance? if u like his character and u don't mind he is that fat and he doesn't mind his own appearance. why u still care other people thought. it is between he and u, u love him it is enough. I don't think u need to care anybody think about yr bf.

Don't forget, he is yr bf, not their bf, u like him, it already enough. If u want him wear bra, it mean u care his appearance, u afraid other people laugh why u choice this guy to be yr bf.

i believe when u know him, he already that fat. U already knew what do other people think about him. Why u care about it now? u don't think it is too late to care about it? if yes, that's mean u are not love him as much as before. because u started care what do other people think about him and yrself started care his look.

so i suggest u let him like that, if he really doesn't want to wear a bra. IF u really care his look, i suggest u tell him to reduce his weight, it is a good way than make him wear a bra

[Ramond]

I guess you'd describe me a little over weight, and about three years ago, I started to have pain in my chest. My girl friend suggested that maybe I should consider wearing a bra. She helped me make an appointment, and I went to a local lingere story. I was there for about an hour, and after the clerk measured me she agreed that a bra would help. So I was fitted with a sports bra, a 42 Bwhich I've worn pretty well daily. Late in 2003, I had a second fitting and my size had gone up a little bit to 44C. My last fitting I had to go up a size so am now at a 44D .. . when I tried the new style bra it had much deeper cup and the lower band dug in so the fitter recommend that I try a long line bra. I was fitted in that style just last week. I have three long lines and because they don't cut in they don't show as much are are really very comfortable. They support me well and the bras have really helped with the pain and sagging.

[KATIELOPEZ24]

THE OTHER DAY MY BOYFRIEND AND I WERE TALKING ABOUT OUR DEEPEST FANTASIES AND HE MENTIONED HE WANTED TO WEAR LINGERIS WITH ME. I WAS SHOCKED BUT TOLD HIM I WOULD DO THAT WITH HIM. HE WANTS TO STRIP WITH ME AND HAVE ME TAKE OFF HIS LINGERIS WITH ME. HOW DO I GO ABOUT THIS. IS THIS NORMAL? WHAT SHOULD I THINK. I DONT WANT TO JUDGE HOM BUT WANT TO FULFILL HIS FANTASIES. HOW DO I DO THIS? PLEASE HELP!

[a_man_that_loves_bras]

I wear bras every day. I am a man. I wear bras because I choose to. I do have boobs, and I am not fat. I do not suffer from any disease or other medical condition, I just have boobs. My doctor did tell me some time ago that I have an unusual high level of female hormones present in my body, but the level of male hormones is what it should be. Oh well, I'm okay with all of that.

I feel happy when I get home each day and I come out of my male approved clothing and I slip into something much more feminine, and definately much more comfortable.

My failure is that I have not been able to meet a woman that accepts me in total. I meet women often, but when they learn that I enjoy wearing so much feminine clothing when at home, it seems to freak them out.

I remain true to me though, and this keeps me happy.

If your bf needs a bra, he has nothing to be ashamed of. Sports bras are nice and they can be worn underneath male shirts and not be easily seen. But you should encourage him. Do not nag him, but encourage gently. And once you get him in the sports bra, you might in time get him something much nicer, much softer, and something that may bring a new level of joy to both of you.

Good luck to you both.

[Mr A]

asking a man to wear a bra is wrong on sooo many levels

[Guest]

I believe the correct terminology is "man boobs" or "moobs" for short accompanied by brief, but enitrely necessary, jocularity. Giving a man a bra to wear - outside of deep dark fetishes - is equal to putting a plaster on a battle wound. Moobs are NOT cool, it's called diet and exercise supplemented by self hatred and despise.

Oh well if all else fails give him some some female hormone tablets and start milking those puppies to make the most of them, yum yum!

[Mac]

My boyfriend is overweight. I don't have a problem with that at all, and I love him, but he really needs a bra. The guy has boobs that are nearly as big as mine! They jiggle around when he walks and I know other people look and I see them snicker........ help?

If he needs a bra then he should wear one.

[sissy boy]

All sissies is required by law to wear a bra , it's a new law

[Erica4U]

As anyone can see there are mixed feelings about men and feminine lingerie! let's look at the big picture here. It is only clothing! It is nothing that hurst anyone! Believe it or not, men are growing breasts these days! Yes it is true! In fact there are a host of herbal supplements designed specifically for breast enhancement for men too! It has become a huge profitable sales HIT! Bras for men is a great idea from many standpoints! Increases business! Makes men happy and content! Jobs! For me, I wear bras because I have gynecomastia and I have had surgery however, they grew back. Now I want to grow my breasts too! There are women who do not find it offensive and I have met a couple of them and have had both endearing friends and extremely wonderful lovers because of my breasts! The thing is, bras need to be designed with a few differences. First the spacing of the cups are somewhat wider. The band under the arms should be much wider as well as along the back too! The cups should still be delicate and as sexy and pretty for men and with all the different cups styles and materials! There is nothing hotter than having met a very attractive women when I was shopping for my bra and becoming friendly and having her feel your chest while wearing a bra and having her remove it and play! I wear very classy, neat women's clothing because it makes me feel good! I love wearing nylon (tights) because of the sensation! I enjoy wearing heels because I love seeing a woman in heels and I think it is sexy! I wear them all day long and love it! I wear nice blouses and tunics with tasteful skirts and or dresses. SO WHAT! I am heterosexual (Straight) and I am no threat to society! In fact, about 70% of men who wear feminine clothing are highly educated males in professions! Including judges, policemen, CEO's, attorneys, Doctors etc. You Just don't know it! They do though because I have met several! So ladies, loosen up because many men are looking for women who can get into this with them! It's really fun and a huge turn on if your mind is open and not stuck in the mire! Times are always changing and there are always those who cannot make the change but those who do are prepared and are having a lot of fun with guys who have a secret! Sort of! I like when my bra shows through my T shirt! I enjoy hearing the mumbles and grumbles! I enjoy most is when I have a woman say, I like that color bra or that looks like one I have and you begin talking and the next thing you know, You have a wonderful, caring friend who understands and may even find you and your bra sexy!

[Mac]

........ I wear nice blouses and tunics with tasteful skirts and or dresses. SO WHAT! I am heterosexual (Straight) and I am no threat to society! In fact, about 70% of men who wear feminine clothing are highly educated males in professions! Including judges, policemen, CEO's, attorneys, Doctors etc. ...... So ladies, loosen up because many men are looking for women who can get into this with them! It's really fun and a huge turn on if your mind is open and not stuck in the mire! Times are always changing and there are always those who cannot make the change but those who do are prepared and are having a lot of fun with guys who have a secret! Sort of! I like when my bra shows through my T shirt! I enjoy hearing the mumbles and grumbles! I enjoy most is when I have a woman say, I like that color bra or that looks like one I have and you begin talking and the next thing you know, You have a wonderful, caring friend who understands and may even find you and your bra sexy!

Well said!

[Guest]

whats the best bra make for men?

[fredbloggs]

i go to the gymn regularly and always wear a bra top. the girls never mind. if fact they love it and i have never had so much luck. you should all try it