ever had sex with a relative?

by **serious1** on Sat Oct 27, 2007 11:32 pm

ever taking that next step with a cousin 3rd cousin etc did you enjoy or regret what you have done?

by **Guest** on Sun Oct 28, 2007 1:12 am

I was madly in love with my cousin when I was in my teens. I know he was attracted to me, too. But nothing happened and I wouldn't have allowed it to either. But that's just me. I have a good friend who fell in love with and married her 5th cousin. They've been together for almost 20 years and have several children. They're also very happy together. They were worried initially how the other family members would react, but no one seemed to have a problem with it since they were so far removed, so-to-speak. I guess it's not for everyone, but otherwise, why not.

by **Guest** on Sun Oct 28, 2007 2:29 am

me and my brother used to play with each other untill one day we ended up having sex. we stopped at that point and have never done anything or spoke about it since (now both married with kids).

I don't regret doing it, however I am pleased it made us stop.

by **Guest** on Sun Oct 28, 2007 4:52 am

. wrote:me and my brother used to play with each other untill one day we ended up having sex. we stopped at that point and have never done anything or spoke about it since (now both married with kids).

I don't regret doing it, however I am pleased it made us stop.

I REALLY need to ask. I cannot fathom having sex with my own brother. How can anyone feel sexually attracted to their own brother...or sister?

by **Rem Bran** on Sun Oct 28, 2007 12:24 pm

. wrote:me and my brother used to play with each other untill one day we ended up having sex. we stopped at that point and have never done anything or spoke about it since (now both married with kids).

I don't regret doing it, however I am pleased it made us stop.

do you fel sick finking about it?

by **avonlouuk** on Sun Oct 28, 2007 5:56 pm

I've never done it, but had 2 cousins I would have been very happy to have had sex with.
I actually ended up marrying my "cousin", but she is only a cousin by name, not blood. One of the children of my mother's life long friend who I grew up calling Aunty and Uncle. Not really a cousin, but I presume the feelings would be very similar except for knowing there's no blood tie.

by **Rem Bran** on Sun Oct 28, 2007 6:28 pm

how was/is the sex

by **kylie** on Tue Oct 30, 2007 1:30 am

I slept with my wife once.

by **Rem Bran** on Tue Oct 30, 2007 5:51 pm

do youregret it lol

by **avonlouuk** on Tue Oct 30, 2007 7:15 pm

Rem, the sex was great, when I got it....lol ( we've got 2 teenage kids and busy lives, but I think I remember what sex is. lol :twisted:

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by **Rem Bran** on Tue Oct 30, 2007 9:21 pm

would you go that road again?

by **Gotta Say** on Tue Oct 30, 2007 11:58 pm

I find this question "How can some be attracted to his/her own sibling?" to be wrong. Human mind is just attracted to opposite sex, that is all. There is no internal programming to stop your arousal when it is your sibling. It is how you are brought up.. what you learnt which is hindering you saying "Oh nooo this is your brother/sister" What if you never knew it is your brother/sister. You would be attracted naturally. So if for someone the learnt impulse of "oh no this is my brother/sister" is not strong enough, it is perfectly natural to be attracted to brother/sister. It is nothing to be ashamed about. How we handle it only matters.

by **Guest** on Wed Oct 31, 2007 2:09 am

Gotta Say wrote:I find this question "How can some be attracted to his/her own sibling?" to be wrong. Human mind is just attracted to opposite sex, that is all. There is no internal programming to stop your arousal when it is your sibling. It is how you are brought up.. what you learnt which is hindering you saying "Oh nooo this is your brother/sister" What if you never knew it is your brother/sister. You would be attracted naturally. So if for someone the learnt impulse of "oh no this is my brother/sister" is not strong enough, it is perfectly natural to be attracted to brother/sister. It is nothing to be ashamed about. How we handle it only matters.

Oh come on. I know what you're saying, but we also don't have "internal programming" to stop us from murdering someone who pisses us off, or to stop us from raping someone, or to stop us from sexually violating children, etc...there's right, and there's wrong. You've gotta be nuts to get sexually arroused by your own family member. And it is something to be ashamed of. Unless you were raised your whole life in a bomb shelter with a bunch of pervs and grew up thinking it was ok to have sex with whomever you desired, there's no excuse for such thinking, or leniency about it.

by **Gotta Say** on Wed Oct 31, 2007 3:18 am

You got it mixed up totally. We are not programmed to do wrong things naturally. But we are programmed very strongly to be attracted by opposite sex.

by **Hans101** on Wed Oct 31, 2007 7:01 am

I lost my virginity to my sister. I was her first time as well.

These things do happen. As for why....I don't have an answer other than because we could.

I think that the aversion to talking about incest is a big part of why it does not happen more often. In our case we both knew that the other was interested and willing, and so the ice was broken between us and we were able to talk about it together. Talking led to doing.

We were involved off and on for almost 3 years. It ended when I moved out of state. That was almost 20 years ago and nothing has happened between us since.

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