I love you.. or.

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I love you.. or.

Postby Emilia++ on Thu Nov 15, 2007 3:37 pm

I just wounder how often you tell your boyfriend/husband /girfriend or wife that you love here or him?? If you do..

I almost never say it, or hear it.. Hmm that bad :(
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Postby Verve on Thu Nov 15, 2007 3:52 pm

I say I like you a lot........ That's how I say I love you.......

Try your own way of telling him.

3 times a day.

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Postby BeachBall on Thu Nov 15, 2007 4:43 pm

I don't hear it as much as I'd like to :cry:

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Postby FFFCaroline on Thu Nov 15, 2007 8:28 pm

Every single day....you never know if an accident could happen or if you will ever see them again.....

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Postby melissa1806 on Fri Nov 16, 2007 5:32 pm

me and my boyfriend say it to each other all the time. He will just text me to say that he loves me! U never know whats gonna happen so it is best to tell the people you love that you love them!

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Postby Sistergurl on Fri Dec 07, 2007 12:04 am

aww, The person that said "every single day" is so spot on. This is sweet.
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Postby MaxtheGaul on Sat Dec 08, 2007 3:07 pm

FFFCaroline wrote:Every single day....you never know if an accident could happen or if you will ever see them again.....

Definitely.

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Postby firehawk on Sat Dec 08, 2007 7:02 pm

she and I always did, she was the first one to say it and would always say it when we rang each other or in texts, but even more so in person.

now.....there is no us :( Shame because it was special, and she said she only ever loved me and has never loved anyone or told them that she loved them in her entire adult life, not even the kids dad - and she is 30 years od age :-/

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Postby Louisek on Mon Dec 10, 2007 1:34 pm

i say i love you all the time, it has more meaning in different situations i think though. It is either a comment for example like a goodbye or somehting more meaningful and personal in other circumstances

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Postby little_miss_forceful on Fri Dec 14, 2007 9:15 pm

i used to say it everyday to my b/f but its only words isnt it and they still leave you
dont tell me your sorry cos your not
baby when i know your only sorry you got caught

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Postby Bouncy on Sat Dec 15, 2007 9:56 am

I have a rule that if my hubby and son can count the number of times I've told or shown them that I love them, then I haven't done it enough. It should be something they never doubt.

Just like Caroline said, you never know when it could be the last time and if they have to stop and think when that was, it's been too long. But if they always know, they'll never doubt it to be true.
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Postby Saffer on Sat Dec 15, 2007 10:55 am

When I was married we said it daily and I meant it, she later said that she loves me but NOT in love with and left! I now love my dog but not in Love!

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Postby SM on Sat Dec 15, 2007 3:17 pm

Every day. Just to give that little bit of reassurance and, I always want me and my home to be a 'safe place'.

Dunno if that makes sense, there is a lot of stress and tension in the world today. I feel it is important for my loved ones to know that once they step through my door and close it, all the troubles are left out there, and they can be at peace with me, safe to do whatever, even if it's to have a good old moan and objectively work through those troubles.
If you do it you’ll regret it, if you don’t do it you’ll regret it, either way your going to regret it, you might as well just do it!

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Postby noodles on Tue Dec 18, 2007 12:20 pm

I know it. I dont need to hear the words regularly - its makes it all the more special when they're said.

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Postby Princess Serena on Tue Dec 18, 2007 1:56 pm

Same here, my bf (of 9 months today!) told me in the summer that he had fallen in love with me, which was so lovely and i said it back, but he hasn't said it since. This doesn't bother me that much because i know he's the kind of guy who has trouble vocalising his feelings, he had enough trouble saying it that once, so i know that he thinks that he's said it once and i know how he feels so he doesn't need to keep saying it. We show it in our gestures, you know holding each other intimately and taking care of each other when we're ill etc. I guess it's just whatever works for you...
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