Gay is having a man insert another man's penis into his rectum. It's also entails having him depositing semen in the mouth, throat, or rectum of another man. From a psychological point of view, it is the lust or desire to have sexual relations with men.
Though toys often come into question, it is important that they remain as inanimate objects.
dildos
Psychological, species of both genders often see toys as things of lust, but it is important to realize that these toys are only tools to satisfy your sexual needs. Those who find it otherwise often disregard or treat the "real thing" the same way they treat the tools of lust.
A man that enjoys the act of "pegging", would only be constituted as gay if he envisioned his partner as a man, or having a man's penis. It also
The act of a man using a
dildosmasturbation is not a heterosexual act unless he envisions it to be so. Note: This act has led to extensive evidence to sway a mans opinion of homosexual activity though. I would think of the act of pegging, as a sort of "gateway drug".
ie. Your not homosexual now, but there is a chance you will be later.
Healthy alternative: I suggest using a bullet
vibrator. There is no in and out motion and a mans penis does not vibrate naturally. This should, hypothetically, lowering the risk of "homosexual contamination". I would imagine that if it did cause you to try homosexual intercourse, the lack of constant stimulation from a vibrating bullet, versus the in an out rubbing of another mans penis against your prostate, might make you think in opposition after trying it. Most likely due to lack of stimulation.
I'm a student psychologist and this has been my confirmed, and properly judged by peer review of other psychologist, diagnosis.