I am confused

[stillcurious]

Wow! I think that somewhere sometime, someone needs to put together a conference for only women (sorry men), all of us that have these thoughts could go, have a great time dancing, talking, drinking, or whatever they want to do....kind of like a big candle or tupperware party...hee hee...if one thing leads to another and some women end up in others hotel rooms for the evening, great! Or for those that go, and then decide it was not what they were looking for, they go home with an answer also :0)

I'd be all for it....

Finding out what it would really feel like...and if I would really like it as I think I would...

I wasn't really curious up until my early thirties... but the funny thing is that I may have given some subconscious signals early on...I had a good friend in high school who was "afraid" to even give me a friendly hug..claiming I looked at her a certain way....even though I never even thought of her in any sensual ways. Hm...maybe she was into me

My fantasies of being with a woman started a few years ago, so I guess I am a latebloomer (I am 35) First it was this fantasy of being with my best friend... but now I met this equally curious woman _ who just gives me butterflies whenever we "talk" _. And her pics... gorgeous. I can hardly wait to meet her... but am also afraid that the fantasy bubble may burst...

Yet at the same time I can hardly wait for my male SO to come over...

But I don't feel confused in the sense of "afraid of change"...I actually love this time of exploration...if only currently virtual... But I guess that almost none of my "friends" would understand if I told them what I am fantasizing about...or would they...?

Bi-curious ladies in the W USA - where do we meet to "talk"?

[mi]

Hi think all the time about being with a woman. Never share that with anyone because I do not know where to go to find someone.
Lately its like getting worse. For years the thought and feelings have always been there.
Even to meet someone _ who is trusting to talk with would be ok. This place is helping me with some understanding but also sharing.

[sweetgal]

hey people i fell like that all the time but i have to be honest women r much more sexier then men i mean their bodies r wow cum on

[Guest]

I think it comes down to the gooey at the fork test.

1. If looking at a naked woman makes you gooey. You are gay.

2.If looking at a man makes you gooey. You are striaght.

3.If you get gooey at the fork looking at both then you are bi.
Some days the line you walk, happens to be straight. Other days that line tends to... deviate!

Me? i'm three. Sometimes I wish I was 1 or 2. It would make life less confusing. I was never good at making decisions!

hi babyjane were do u live

[Guest]

one of a kind????????????????????????????

[Guest]

im gay!

[Guest]

i think im bi but im not too sure. I look at internet porn and i look at woman and men having sex and a woman "sucking" penis, but i look more at her body than the mans penis. I find it hard to look at men without looking at the girl. I imagina having oral sex with a girl and i know i want to try it. i dont know any girls that i'd like to have sex with, they are more of people i see on porn sites.. am i bisexual, lebian.. what?

[Guest]

lets face it mens dicks aren't the most attractive thing you are ever going to look at - womens bodies are much kinder on the eyes so just bit the bullet and have a look up close! they are much much nicer the closer you get to one!!!!!

[snowbaby18]

thier is nothing wrong with being bisexual

[becka_cooke]

a wise person once told me life isant just black and white, thiers grey areas and i think a persons sexuality is one of these grey areas were u cant just lable or categorise someone as gay, straight or bi because there will always be feeling of what if or maybe. so i think people should just go with the flow and go where their heart takes them

[Guest]

hell me 2

[BabyJane]

I think it comes down to the gooey at the fork test.

1. If looking at a naked woman makes you gooey. You are gay.

2.If looking at a man makes you gooey. You are striaght.

3.If you get gooey at the fork looking at both then you are bi.
Some days the line you walk, happens to be straight. Other days that line tends to... deviate!

Me? i'm three. Sometimes I wish I was 1 or 2. It would make life less confusing. I was never good at making decisions!

hi babyjane were do u live

I live in Sydney Australia. And you?

[Merci]

a wise person once told me life isant just black and white, thiers grey areas and i think a persons sexuality is one of these grey areas were u cant just lable or categorise someone as gay, straight or bi because there will always be feeling of what if or maybe. so i think people should just go with the flow and go where their heart takes them

totally agree with you there

[Guest]

My Dear
I am so much in pains of looking for my rigth partner
who will love me for what i am.
Please you can love me and take me as your husband write me
on chrisco_y2k@yahoo.com i promise to be honest and faithful with any
woman that will come into my life.
I pray that God will do it for me soon.
Thanks
Chris

[Sarah C.]

A few years ago I went to Bali with my boyfriend and we stayed in Ubud for a couple of days. There's this place that does massage but it was one of those normal places that anyone can go to - women massage women and men massage men (bf was so pissed off!) - and you can just get a hand or foot massage if that's all you want.

My boyfriend and I went for the full body treatment. The woman that did mine must have been really experienced, it was sheer bliss, but she touched me right up my bum and I let her carry on for a while before I stopped her and pretended to be shocked:oops:

She was apologetic and I didn't say anything more about it and she carried on with the normal treatment, but even today I shiver when I think of how she made me feel.

I don't think I'm a lesbian, but oooh!

Sarah.