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Postby lisa star on Fri Jan 25, 2008 10:47 pm

Can anyone tell me, if one or the other partner has been married in a church first time round.
Can you still be married in a church next time ?

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Postby rebel-carpenter on Mon Mar 03, 2008 1:20 pm

Marrying again is forbidden in the bible. Remarriage is only permitted if the spouse dies. I'm not sure what churches think and it will vary, but thats what the bible says.

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Postby *Bambi* on Tue Mar 04, 2008 5:57 pm

ill forget the previous post (probably a crazy american) yes you can in some church of england churches you will need to speak to your vicar or preist regarding this
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Postby rebel-carpenter on Thu Mar 06, 2008 12:36 pm

Bambi, I'm from the U.k. Why is it CRAZY to post what it says in the Bible, when someone is wondering if they could get married in a church? Isn't a church a Christian place of worship? or is it just a nice pretty place for anyone to get married?

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Postby rebel-carpenter on Thu Mar 06, 2008 12:48 pm

Honestly, don't you think it shows a lack of respect for someone to get married in God's house and not give a damn what he thinks?

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Postby *Bambi* on Mon Mar 10, 2008 4:55 pm

i myself do go to church regularly and i do give a damb what he thinks, just because someone makes a mistake should they be judged for the rest of all time.

church of england was created dont forget so that henry the eighth could remarry, that why our sovereign is the head of our church.

get you head out of the old testement, and start living in this century
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Postby The Colonel on Sat Mar 22, 2008 9:57 pm

rebel-carpenter wrote:Honestly, don't you think it shows a lack of respect for someone to get married in God's house and not give a damn what he thinks?


More to the point, why would someone who didn't believe in it want to be associated with the hateful, bigoted religious on their wedding day?

I am an atheist, as is my wife, and we married in a registry office DESPITE the fact my parents (as Catholics) demanded we marry in a Catholic church.

My children have been raised as atheists too. That is all the matters. A free mind and a free life.
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Postby The Colonel on Thu Mar 27, 2008 2:18 am

Fred75 wrote:
The Colonel wrote:
rebel-carpenter wrote:Honestly, don't you think it shows a lack of respect for someone to get married in God's house and not give a damn what he thinks?


More to the point, why would someone who didn't believe in it want to be associated with the hateful, bigoted religious on their wedding day?

I am an atheist, as is my wife, and we married in a registry office DESPITE the fact my parents (as Catholics) demanded we marry in a Catholic church.

My children have been raised as atheists too. That is all the matters. A free mind and a free life.


Then why not go home and in front of your wife and sons TEAR UP your marriage license and chuck your wedding ring down the loo?


That comment makes no sense Fred.

My marriage is a CIVIL one.

If only your TONGUE was the same huh?
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Postby The Colonel on Fri Mar 28, 2008 7:42 pm

Fred75 wrote:
The Colonel wrote:
Fred75 wrote:
The Colonel wrote:
rebel-carpenter wrote:Honestly, don't you think it shows a lack of respect for someone to get married in God's house and not give a damn what he thinks?


More to the point, why would someone who didn't believe in it want to be associated with the hateful, bigoted religious on their wedding day?

I am an atheist, as is my wife, and we married in a registry office DESPITE the fact my parents (as Catholics) demanded we marry in a Catholic church.

My children have been raised as atheists too. That is all the matters. A free mind and a free life.


Then why not go home and in front of your wife and sons TEAR UP your marriage license and chuck your wedding ring down the loo?


That comment makes no sense Fred.

My marriage is a CIVIL one.


Civil or not... Marriage today is considered RELIGIOUS in nature.


Not when most are civil!

The majority (60%) are now civil here. :lol:

Atheist love is nicer love. :)
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Postby lisa star on Sat May 24, 2008 12:10 pm

Thanks for all your comments.
It is ok with some churches as long as the person you wish to mary was not the cause of the break-up of your last marriage.

So the church is now booked for a June Wedding in 2009.

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Postby The Colonel on Sun May 25, 2008 7:38 pm

Best of luck.
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Postby paul120 on Wed Jul 23, 2008 5:18 am

Hello..lisa star

I can't get marriage in church, because it is the place for worship not for enjoyment ..i decided i go to maui for my marriage & honeymoon..thanks


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