by Guest1953 on Tue Feb 12, 2008 10:56 pm
If a trusted friend of 28 years who has told you everything about her personal life and whom you have told about yours all of a sudden tells you she wishes she hadn't been so open about her personal life in the past and asks you if you've noticed that she hasn't been talking about it as much lately, how would you take that?? The fact is, I have noticed it. Everytime we have talked in the past few months its been very superficial and mostly about her 15 year old son. My children are grown and gone so -been there done that- but I would listen to all the soccer buzz anyway because we are friends. I am the only friend she has that gives her child gifts on his birthday and Christmas. Even his own Aunts don't do as much. Then to to add injury to insult tells me something her husband said about me (alluded that I couldn't be trusted ??) and then when she sees my reaction (anger) tells me she proably shouldn't have told me?? What do you think is going on here? Is there a problem with our friendship or is it more her problem with her huisband? Expecially in the light I live in different state and don't have much communication with people from our old hometown anymore. NOTE * The jerk she's married to tapes her phone calls, is a prescription drug seeking disability con artist who still works on the side and who would love it if she didn't talk to anyone. Has he worked on her for the past sixteen years he's been married to her to the point she brainwashed or is it more sinister like she tells him everything we talk about??
