I don't think anyone should ever humiliate themselves for someone else's sexual pleasure and I find it sick that people get pleasure from humiliating others. I've never told this story to anyone, but I had a boyfriend five years ago who seemed lovely and charming at first - totally normal, in fact. Then one night some of his friends invited us for dinner. At one point during the meal, which was all very relaxed, he made some kind of point that I disagreed with, so I said what I thought, and the conversation just carried on - I didn't think anything of it. Later, when I went to the loo, he followed me, saying we need to have a chat. I couldn't think what he wanted to talk about locked in the loo, but obvioulsy I was concerned, so I let him come into the loo with me and lock the door. Once in there, he pushed me against the wall and accused me of belittling him in front of his friends. I tried to calm him down, and also by this point I was desperate to use the toilet and begging him to let me go. He got a really nasty grin on his face and told me he wasn't go to let me use the toilet. I'd humiliated him, he said, and so he was going to humiliate me even worse. He sneered at me that I was going to piss my pants and have to go back to the dinner party in sopping wet pants and trousers. I couldn't get him to let go of me - he was using physical force to keep me pushed up against the wall. I knew I only had seconds to spare before I had an accident, and I felt completely powerless and helpless. I just cried and begged him to let me use the lavatory. In the end, he said he'd only let go of me if I took my trousers and
knickers off and pissed on the floor. He said that way my clothes could stay dry and, after I'd cleaned up my piss, I could put them back on and go back to the dinner party and no one would need to know what had happened. I refused to do this - we had only just started dating and he'd never seen me with no clothes on, and I thought I'd rather die that feel that shame of agreeing to wet myself naked in front of him. He said, 'Well, then, you're going to have an embarrassing accident in your clothes, aren't you?' He also said, 'What if I tickled you now? Have you got any self control at all or would it be a puddle on the floor?' I started to leak a little bit at that point and bent double in an attempt to stop the flow. I just about succeeded. I realised then that the worst thing of all would be to let the people at the dinner party see that I'd soaked my clothes and have to be humiliated in front of them too - I was already utterly humiliated in front of him, so I agreed to what he asked. I took of my trousers and pants, handed them to him, sobbing, and instinctively covered my private parts with my hands as I peed all down my legs. He told me to take my hands away or he'd drop my clothes in the mess I was making. He waved my wet pants in front of my face and pointed out, gentleman that he was, that I'd slightly soiled my pants too, in my panic and desperation, and asked if I was going to poo all over the floor as well. Then he called me a sucker, took my dry trousers and my not-so-dry pants and left the room and the house, leaving me naked from the waist down in a house full of virtual strangers. I had to call out for help, and everyone saw what had happened. It turned out he'd thrown my weed-and-pooed in pants down on the hall floor, so that everyone saw them as soon as they came out of the dining room. None of his mates could believe he'd done it. I know he was angry with me, but I can't believe his main motivation wasn't sexual. To anyone who gets a kick out of humiliating other people, I just want to say that it isn't fun for those of us who end up on the receiving end. I have never felt worse than I did at that moment: how do you think you'd like it if you ended up, through no choice of your own, naked in front of strangers, with evidence of your incontinence on the floor in front of you and your excrement-stained pants spread out for a load of strangers to see. I couldn't even mop up the puddle I'd made because there wasn't enough toilet roll. I actually felt suicidal for several years and even now I have confidence and self-esteem problems. No one should ever be turned on by anything like this.
by katygirly on Fri Mar 07, 2008 7:55 pm 
in wet adventures which you call "humiliating". And for some of us it is the most thrilling of all solitary games. Anyway: To demand that your SO wet her/himself (if not part of a deliberate role play) is just miserable.
