Chippendales v other groups

[Guest]

Crikey Ruth, how hot are you

Have you always fantasised about naked men and big cocks or is it a recent thing - since you have been going to the strip shows?

Is the penis on it's own sexy or does it have to be attached to a nice looking guy? For example, some guys might 'admire' a girls boobs and want to have sex with her because of her boobs but not really fancy her. Is it the same for you - is it horny to see a nice penis or is it the guy as a whole?

[therealgman]

Well, I think its all good to go to a strip show if you are single. but going to a strip show while you havea boyfriend. husband is different, especially if he doesnt know. If you want a guy with big C***, you shuold leave your husband and get one. Simpe as that. Otherwise you are nothing but a cheating ho bag especially to the ones who are groping and sucking. Disgisting. Sure, everyone is curious to see. but some of the girls here are talking like this is a regular event for them, while they have boyfriends/ husbands. You girls are only fit to be f*cked.

On the other hand if the couple is happy with it, then so be it.

but whatever happened to the beauty of a marriage. it used to be something beautiful, pure and true.

I personally wouldnt have a stripper at my bucks/stag night. Cant seem to see the relevance that has to me marrying to woman i love. On the other hand if a friend was having one, i still dont know if i would go if I was in a relationship. But you hoes are obviously C*** hungry. Why else would you be going? Do you think men are that daft to beleive you are not C*** hungry and its just fpor fun. theres plenty of other fun things that dont involve a bunch of women playing with and sucking male strippers cocks. Are you just that daft to beleive this your self or delusional?

[therealgman]

and women always seem to ask..."whatever happened to chivalry and being a gentleman?'

who would want to be a gentleman when we have women like this.

Whatever happened to be a lady?

Thats where we are at today.

[obie]

Jeeze...not marriage ending stuff...you must be a real slut if you think holding a strippers dick and letting him suck stuff off your nipples is not marriage ending stuff. Its all good if the girls partner is cool with it, but otherwise you lot make me sick. I cant beleive there are so many women like this. it seems that everyone on this website is like this. so i am gathering that a lot of normal girls are like this. sick ass sluts. I pitty the poor ck r you ends up with you.

hey Charlotta, dont care about those people say, they are probably jealous because they dont have that kind of fun in their lives. Anyway, did the bachelorette suck or W*** the stripper? How did she feel doing that to a sexy stranger even though she was gonna get married the next day? lol

Well like I said, I've been to more than one bachelorette party. I'm in my 20s' and have a prety big group of friends, so some of us are starting to 'settle down'. I for one ain't ready for that whole deal yet!

But to answer your question, there's been 2 of the 3 bachelorettes that I've attended where the bride-to-be ended up doin' stuff w/the stripper. Like in the first one, we'd all played some party games before the stripper showed up - all of which got us drunk and got her into a silly french maid outfit. Basically he just did his best to embarrass her without getting too fresh. But with us cheering her on to just go with it, he ended up licking whipped cream off one of her nipples and she held his dick a couple times. Nothing THAT bad & nothing marriage-ending for sure. The more involved stuff with the stripper was reserved for the rest of us!

In the 2nd, well, lol, she was WAY drunk and her fiancee had told us that she should have 'a good time' - like as much as she wanted. So my other friend who'd hired the strippers talked them up into being a bit more dirty about their show, if they wanted. It turned out that they were!

From what I can remember, the most naughty thing that they did to her was give her poptarts (or 'titwanks' like you UK folks say). She's a really busty girl so they were all over her boobs and ended up getting her topless halfway through their 'show' focused on her. It went from them simulating putting their Thong-covered dicks between her boobs to actually doing it awhile after! That's a male stripper favorite it seems, by the way. But she did lick one of them if I remember right, but she never like 'went to town' on either guy. Again, that was reserved for the rest of us! Lol

Neither of these bachelorette parties were the night before the wedding, but a couple nights before - but we've always followed the don't ask, don't tell policy about what happened at them.

[Guest]

To be fair, it should be each to their own but I do agree that if you are going out 5/6 times a year and sucking and jacking other guys cocks (not to mention making them ejaculate) then your partner has a right to know.

With that in mind, it becomes a little more than just fun or fantasy. The idea of fantasy is that it stays in your mind where it is virtually harmless.

It's also interesting to note how quiet it gets in these threads when someone has a different point of view - that points out that what these ladies do, could actually wreck a relationship and could be perceived as cheating. By their silence, they have no answer to these possibilities.

I also wonder, if they didn't go to these shows, would they cheat anyway? And by going to a show a few times a year - it is almost 'legitimate' cheating - as in all the girls do it, and so will I, so it's ok.

I suppose the other argument is that women just cannot resist naked guys with huge cocks whatever their marital committments???

[therealgman]

Yes, I agree with you.

I think it's already in these ladies...and you know what they say alcohol brings out your true nature. It's in all people, but most people control these urges. Well at least it used to be like that.

and yeah, they have tried to legitimise it by saying that "all the girls do it, so ihave to as well". Try to make it something normal. Disgusting freaks.
You know you can actually have some principles and say "no thanks". That is if you wanted too. But obviously they jst love the naked strippers too much.

At one time even guys were looked down as being dirty for going to sleaxy strip joints. so now i guess it is you can beat em, join em (and go even worst).

To be fair, it should be each to their own but I do agree that if you are going out 5/6 times a year and sucking and jacking other guys cocks (not to mention making them ejaculate) then your partner has a right to know.

With that in mind, it becomes a little more than just fun or fantasy. The idea of fantasy is that it stays in your mind where it is virtually harmless.

It's also interesting to note how quiet it gets in these threads when someone has a different point of view - that points out that what these ladies do, could actually wreck a relationship and could be perceived as cheating. By their silence, they have no answer to these possibilities.

I also wonder, if they didn't go to these shows, would they cheat anyway? And by going to a show a few times a year - it is almost 'legitimate' cheating - as in all the girls do it, and so will I, so it's ok.

I suppose the other argument is that women just cannot resist naked guys with huge cocks whatever their marital committments???

[Guest]

And you still notice how they cannot and will not answer any of these points?

You are probably right in that it probably is part of their personality - but also we have (especially in the UK) a huge ladette culture in that girls go out, get blind drunk and behave very badly. If you watch any of these 'uk uncovered' shows or go away to a holiday resort where 18-30's go then you will see it with your own eyes.

Nowadays, it seems these girls can touch and/or suck a guys penis and not regard it as a) sexual or b) intimate ......... it apparently is just harmless fun and fantasy.

Personally, I think if they didn't go to these shows they would cheat anyway - but by going to the shows they are legitimizing their cheating. Interesting that there was a story about a couple of friends that went to see male strippers - and they did all the stuff talked about here. They later fell out and one showed the other's hubby pictures of her sucking one of the strippers erection. He divorced her. That tells you all you need to know about this behaviour.

[Charlotta]

Yup, you're right, we're all morally reprehensible sluts that are only out to ruin relationships. Get a F****** clue, guys. I would NEVER do things w/a stripper or ANY guy when I was dating someone. You've been assuming EVERY woman that goes to these thing or attends a party where male strippers entertain is married or attached. By my experiences, that's wrong. Another thing, not every male stripper gets naked. Rarer still are the strippers that will go much further than touching. Even rarer than that are women that will go much further than touching.

BUT...

Given the right group of single friends, the amount of inhibition-lowering alcohol consumed, the attractiveness of the stripper(s), the overall mood (outright erotic vs. nude acts used as embarrassing entertainment), & the existence or lack of 'one-upmanship' going on between everyone - the more sexual things can and do happen. You guys are taking things outta context as well as being some of the most judgemental pieces of work I've seen in a LONG time.

[Guest]

Sorry if you took offence but the context is that married or attached girls do this stuff here in the uk. There are even girls that have posted here that are attached that get dirty with male strippers.

I say more power to you if you are single and doing it - thats ok in my book. But if you are attached - it's dire. I think that there are a fair few strip groups in the uk who do aim to get women to do stuff - the group Loverboys being one, a group called 'the cheeky boys' being another.

The comments that are made here are aimed to voice disgust with women that suck, masturbate
Hope that clears it up.

[Guest]

my previous post got messed up. It should read at the end:

The comments that are made here are aimed to voice disgust with women that suck, mastur-bate and even get strippers to ejaculate over them or swallow their cum.

Hope that clears it up.

[longjohn]

my previous post got messed up. It should read at the end:

The comments that are made here are aimed to voice disgust with women that suck, mastur-bate and even get strippers to ejaculate over them or swallow their cum.

Hope that clears it up.

chill out fellow men!I think it's great! Stop being facistic and allow poeple to enjoy themselves!!

[therealgman]

Yeah, well if you are single, that a whole different story. However, most of the girls that were posting did not seem t be single, especially the F****** bride. hahahaha. wtf.

Plus, what kind of chick sucks some guys C*** she dosn't even know.
Man youse are disgusting hoe bags. Once you start you always will be.

If you think this is normal...then I have pity for all the men in the UK.

[therealgman]

By the way, I am not taking things out of context.

Just going off the post that I have been reading here.

Yeah, maybe I am judging, but I sure wouldn't want my bride to be sucking some guys C*** the week or day before she marries me.

Call it old fashioned or judgemental. I don't care. That wont scare me out of standing up for things lke this. It's disgusting S***.

[therealgman]

the worst thing is that it seems there are no other girls who think its wrong or disgusting. Very scary. I personally would never even think about dating most girls from the UK. they have got reps here. Well those reps are good for the guys who just out to have a good time and party. Like longjohn boy. I guess even for me, if i am just out for a good time. but a relationship...forget about it.

[Guest]

it isn't all ladies in the uk, but there is a culture of boozy, out for a good time, anything goes type of woman. In the right context it is really hot that they would suck any old strippers dick and make them cum - but as far as a relationship goes - no chance.

I feel sorry for the husbands and boyfriends who don't know what goes on.

I mean how can sucking another mans erection to the point of him cumming not be cheating? DOH!