i'm in love with a virgo

[30 yr old cap woman]

i'm in love with a virgo! i read that he is not forthcoming with his affections(but he can open up with cap's and visa versa), but, when i text, he doesn't reply, he hardly calls, we meet, have a really nice time, then i won't c or hear from him till next month. i also read that virgo's take their time to find perfect partner and i shouldn't wait for declarations of love and even when he falls in love he plays it cool. being cap, i also am cool, but i know me and him would b v good 2gether, i'm being patient and waiting 4 him, letting him take his time, but, its killing me, i've text him 2 let him know i want his as my man, cos i am shy, when we met up next, he says he wants me to have his baby, he wants me for his woman, he said if i ask him 2 his face he wont ignore me, but i couldn't, i didn't want 2 feel like i had 2 force him 2 b with me,i am the woman, i want him 2 b the man. he doesn't ask y i like him. he's good when we're 2 gether but when we're not he acts like he's not bothered/interested, not getting in touch. i am v confused. i know i need to talk 2 him, but how best to do it? this burns cos i know we'd b so good 2gether. a lil insight in2 this sign would help from some1 who knows would help. thanx.

[Guest]

i am virgo but i don't believe in the horoscopes just for fun

[Guest]

i had a similar situation before, like you...and lo and behold ..nothing happened, i think because he learned that i like him very much.. virgos love to chase...and if they really like you they will move mountains... i know coz he courted my friends... and not me... so sad... hahaha, what what waste i thought! but the saddest part is he cant even consider me a friend until now...so distant, will never initiate communication... and you'll just get tired waiting for the response...very seldom he will give you time...it means you're not that important to him...but who knows? goodluck!

[Guest]

i had a similar situation before, like you...and lo and behold ..nothing happened, i think because he learned that i like him very much.. virgos love to chase...and if they really like you they will move mountains... i know coz he courted my friends... and not me... so sad... hahaha, what what waste i thought! but the saddest part is he cant even consider me a friend until now...so distant, will never initiate communication... and you'll just get tired waiting for the response...very seldom he will give you time...it means you're not that important to him...but who knows? goodluck!

[Guest]

How about instead of trying to read stupid signs you actually look for the problem in your relationship to sort it out, why is he being distant sometimes, whats holding it back. And stop reading these ridiculous made up horoscopes. Its what type of person you are, not what MONTH you were born in.

[Guest]

i'm in love with a virgo! i read that he is not forthcoming with his affections(but he can open up with cap's and visa versa), but, when i text, he doesn't reply, he hardly calls, we meet, have a really nice time, then i won't c or hear from him till next month. i also read that virgo's take their time to find perfect partner and i shouldn't wait for declarations of love and even when he falls in love he plays it cool. being cap, i also am cool, but i know me and him would b v good 2gether, i'm being patient and waiting 4 him, letting him take his time, but, its killing me, i've text him 2 let him know i want his as my man, cos i am shy, when we met up next, he says he wants me to have his baby, he wants me for his woman, he said if i ask him 2 his face he wont ignore me, but i couldn't, i didn't want 2 feel like i had 2 force him 2 b with me,i am the woman, i want him 2 b the man. he doesn't ask y i like him. he's good when we're 2 gether but when we're not he acts like he's not bothered/interested, not getting in touch. i am v confused. i know i need to talk 2 him, but how best to do it? this burns cos i know we'd b so good 2gether. a lil insight in2 this sign would help from some1 who knows would help. thanx.

I'm a male Cap.

He's not taking your relationship seriously. Look elsewhere. Good luck...hug.

[Confused Chick]

He sounds immature. Forget about him. There's plenty of nice Virgo's out there.

[none of the above]

Does she need to know that I am ' interested'?

Well, unless she's a mind reader I suppose so.

[chester2]

There is another thread about a girl who is a virgo and afraid whether it will hurt the first time...

Maybe she can help..?

Oh... hang on..............

[HighTide]

Virgos can make you feel loved and appreciated more than probably any sign in the zodiac. They also like to be adored yet not as much as a Leo and in more of a subtle way at that. They are also sneakingly good in bed and will make you feel like what you have to say matters(even if inside they think they know whats right

However,I am a Cancer man and my hardest breakup was with a Virgo Woman. I am an emotional sign and Virgo women are almost pure logic so they can move on much much easier if they feel the relationship has failed. Its close to impossible for them to want to get back with you when they make their mind up. If you are a Cancer man please be wary of how Virgo woman operate during breakups so you won't mope for a year like I did. They will toy with you a while if you let them know you miss them because they (pretend) feel sad you are taking it so hard, but don't take it as them wanting to get back. They aren't emotionally gifted enough to realize some people need proper closure and not just "I use to love you last week, but I decided I don't anymore, wish you the best! They aren't meaning to be coldhearted, they just come off that way.

The Virgo issue during breakup doesn't seem to affect the Cancer Woman/Virgo Man matchup as much. The Virgo man usually has a hard time of letting go of the Cancer woman if he has strong sexual ties to her or left his ex to be with her. If his feelings aren't as deep he can let go just as easily as the Virgo Woman.Overall the Cancer Woman can make a Virgo Male act more illogical than the Cancer Man can with the Virgo Woman.

So basically if you are a sign that isn't rule by emotions, Virgo is a safe bet. They never think of the emotional consequences of how other people view their actions/reactions. They usually mean the best when it comes down to it however.

[vinivini]

I'm a virgo and certain characteristics of the virgo stereotype fit me well. I'm meticulous in what I do and try to function with a certain order in my life almost boring according to some people. When it comes to romance I do take a long time trying to know the person as well as I can, as I don't want to become emotionally attached to what could turn up to be the wrong person for me. I suppose we virgos are a bit calculating in that respect and if the person is not right then zero romance. One night stands and holiday romances are unknown territory for me as a virgo. It can be exasperating to a potential partner who wants to start a physical relationship ASAP. On the other hand we virgos suffer a lot when there is a break up, probably because we were convinced we had the right person when the relationship begins. It took me ages to get over my previous girfriend.

[koli]

something looks simple ,becme complicated !
perhaps can deal with in a better way !