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Postby Guest » Mon Apr 28, 2008 6:09 pm

Hey everyone. Thought i'd ask what people opinons are on getting back at an ex for cheating and generally been a t***?

I split up with my ex fiance after i found she had cheated on me twice. Long and short of it i saw the messages on her mobile phone. She swore it wouldn't happen again and me like a fool thought i'd give it a go. She then kept talking with this fella and I caught her again. That was the end of that.

The problem is since the break up she had been a grade A bitch. She keeps bringing some new fella to my local and hassling me about stuff with our old flat ( which is all sorted).

Do people think it would be abit harsh of me to post pictures of her on internet and then letting her parents know what type of daughter they have ( she has ALOT of stuff she hides from them). Or reckon it's just better to ignore her and carry on regardless?
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Postby tippytoes » Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:39 pm

Ignore her, she's desparate for a reaction out of you... you'd just bring yourself down to a level lower than her.... She obviously doesn't deserve you, she probably still wants you, why would she have anything to do with you otherwise.??

GOOD LUCK...
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Postby Verve » Tue Apr 29, 2008 3:49 am

DON'T DO IT!

Never let someone bring you down to that level. If you really want to hit her where is hurts. Live your life without her in it.
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Postby tippytoes » Tue Apr 29, 2008 9:17 am

Exactly, get on with your life, have fun, even if you're a bit miserable for a while, let her see how how happy you are without her. I think that's the best revenge.... :)
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Postby coolman » Tue Apr 29, 2008 9:21 am

I'd like to see the pictures, though. :twisted: :P
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Postby Guest » Tue Apr 29, 2008 6:44 pm

Thanks for the advice, I told her today to stop contacting me as i couldn't give a toss what she is doing and with whom. I believe i'll just carry on regardless and let her be a pain in the backside to this new fella.

Onwards and Upwards and all that!
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Postby tippytoes » Tue Apr 29, 2008 8:58 pm

Absolutely...!!! Life's too short for hassle like that... All the best.. :D
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Re: Revenge

Postby the 3rd » Sun May 04, 2008 2:11 am

. wrote:Hey everyone. Thought i'd ask what people opinons are on getting back at an ex for cheating and generally been a tvvat?

I split up with my ex fiance
That was the end of that.

problem is
to my local and hassling me about stuff with our old flat
(which is all sorted).

Or reckon it's just better to ignore her and carry on regardless?

Move on with your life.
'Allowing' her to cause you think
of revenge is, (in a bad way)
'giving her a type of power' over you.
Signed 'The 3rd Move-On' recomend'.
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Postby joe310 » Sun May 04, 2008 9:06 am

to each their own...
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