Boyfriend wants to watch me pee. What do I do????.

[Mac]

Hi,

A couple of weeks ago, I announced as you do sometimes, that I needed to go for a wee. My boyfriend asked me if he could watch, which I thought was said as a joke, and we both laughed it off and I didn't think any more of it.
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I was just wondering if any other women have had boyfriends or husband's asking to watch them pee, and whether anyone belives this could be just be a normal erotic request or the beginning of something kinky. I am just confused a little as to what I should do. Help!!!!

Thanks Dianne

What is the big deal especially if you have seen each other naked and had sex together? You really have nothing to hide.

Have you ever seen a boyfriend or any guy pee? They are really more exposed (if they stand and pull it out through their pants) than you are unless you spread your legs. Do you think that married or committed couples never see each other pee?

Your way (sitting) is much better than his way (standing). Maybe he is envious as well as curious.

[persona-non-grata]

The thing is, we can sit to pee if we want to.

Can you stand?

[Mac]

The thing is, we can sit to pee if we want to.

Can you stand?

I probably could if I tried but I don't have any desire to try. There are websites that describe device free methods for doing it as well as various devices to aid the process.

I have also seen where it is possible to wear a long skirt and no panties - just spread your legs a little and let go. It could be a little messy but nobody else would notice. Would work where you have large crowds of people and little or no facilities. You guys can't do that even if you wear long skirts!

[wow!]

never would have guessed!

last night was at pub with good band,
got drunk and needed loo.
Line was Way to LONG! for girls,
got offered use mens by 2 guys could see
'i in need!'
didn't want go in there! gross!
bf suggested i step-out back door and
go, knowing i 'commando' under mid thigh
length skirt, & go standing.

He showed a site a few days ago on
topic of females standing when
peeing and had asked i do in shower.

i did so he could watch and found it
easy to do once learn how without make mess.
So:
At pub, thought sure, why not?
-It dark back there, so forth.
Where *Already 3 other women couldn't
wait for loo out there! *2 Standing!
whilst at it, so i did too.
Some guys in shadows smoking herbal began applause!
when seeing me hike skirt and let go
huge stream. i think what guy's really
like is seeing how huge flow n fast we
empty out, - compared to them.

[sarahjane113]

At home when its just me and Mum we have always been open about weeing and usually leave the door open. I dont mind a couple of my friends seeing and often Claire and I will share a cubicle if we are out. Coupe of years ago tho I had a boyfriend who seemed to like seeing me wee. He never wanted to do anything other than watch but it always used to make me quite shy about weeing. I usually have to sit for a while trying anyway and that was the most embarassing bit sitting there knowing he was looking and waiting for me to start weeing. Does anyone else get shy if someones watching?

[persona-non-grata]

Not me!!!!

[couple1000]

My wife and i usually start off our night of hot sex by going out in our backyard and my wife sits on a stone bench, spreads her legs, and pee's right onto my rock hard C***! Its the biggest turn on there is! Then we get into the shower and continue our hot night! Once her two friends came over and had drinks at our house. I had to pee so i went next to a tree in our yard. Then one of her friends had to pee. She went to the bench and pulled down her pants. As soon as i saw her pink shaved pussy i was rock hard i asked my wife and her other friend if they would pee along side the other woman and before i knew it I was watching three women peeing all with their legs spread and i came w out even stroking my self. You should deffinatly try it with your boyfriend you dont have to bee on him or have him pee on you but i assure you his C*** will be harder than you ever thought possible!

[hrdmn08]

I often watch women pee. It makes my penis so hard! I love to see their little pink pussies spread and that yellow gold flowing from right below their clit! I love to put my fingers on their clit and rub it around in a circle as they pee. The feeling of their warm pee on my rock hard dick is so amazing i love to shoot my white creamy cum all over their clit to lube it up and finish by rubbing my cum on their clit!

[nevergrewup]

I often watch women pee. It makes my penis so hard! I love to see their little pink pussies spread and that yellow gold flowing from right below their clit! I love to put my fingers on their clit and rub it around in a circle as they pee. The feeling of their warm pee on my rock hard dick is so amazing i love to shoot my white creamy cum all over their clit to lube it up and finish by rubbing my cum on their clit!

Been spending a little too much time reading stories on Wetset or Patches, have we?

I dont see why some people have to consider peeing in front of a partner as so perverted. However, it does show how they are in denial of the fact that we have all evolved from animals.

How do many animal species mark their territory? They pee on objects. Can we be sure that we do not possess some remnant of this in our psyche? It is true that there is a continuing progression towards hiding our real selves under a veneer of clothing, cosmetics and even surgery, but are we beginning to reach a stage where we are not prepared to let our partners see us in anything other than pristine condition?

And what happens to all of us when we grow old and wrinkly, with dubious continence and need to rely on our partners to help with bodily functions we cannot even bare to mention? We cant all afford a full time nurse.

I think it is very sad that people should be criticised for just being curious about the opposite sex. Yes, the curiosity may be because of a childhood denial, or trauma, but why should anyone be vilified on a forum for that?

I think that any woman or man who may have taken ages to pluck up the courage to tell their partner about their fantasies should be treated with the utmost respect, and at the very least the partner ought to be given time to make a considered decision on whether they want to indulge them.

[Mac]

Just because women and men have different body characteristics and sexual parts, why should nudity or peeing in front of one another be such a big concern?

[davian]

I’m joining this discussion mid flow, as it were, but here’s my contribution . . .

I find that getting to a position in a relationship where my partner & I feel comfortable about peeing in front of each other helps increase the level of trust & intimacy between us. I’ve found those women I’ve had relationships with have all felt more initial embarrassment about it than I although this has varied between them, of course. All have felt more comfortable over time & seem to have appreciated it in terms of intimacy.

Personally I also often find it a turn on to see a woman I am attracted to peeing, especially early on in the relationship when she has to overcoming any embarrassment she feels to do so, or out of doors where she’s nervous about being seen by others.

I think it’s kind to be sensitive to one’s partner’s sexual urges if possible – it is an uncomfortable feeling to be treated like a complete pervert. I would think it is common to appreciate acceptance from those we love.

Having said that, I wouldn’t expect a woman to do anything that grossed her out or upset her & I’m also happy to do things which turn my loved one on even if I’m not into it, as long as it’s reasonably safe & sane. I find her excitement encourages my own, anyway. Admittedly, there isn’t a lot that I wouldn’t do for a woman I’m in love with & I like her to have a few slightly unusual sexual tastes, whatever they might be, as it makes the otherwise good sex even better & more varied.

I have occasionally peed on my current girlfriend & she on me – in the empty bath - which we both found exciting & led to great sex, although we did feel the need to clean the bath, fill it & jump in together afterwards.

[justaguy00000007]

its totally normal Dianne...by the way it means he is very hot for you honey...when a man is hot for his woman he wants to experience her intimate feminine moments...your bf is showing is love for you by wanting to share your private womanly moment...just let it happen and enjoy the sensual moment together

[Shavencouple]

I often pee in front of my hubby and he gets really hard watching.

If i am feeling very hot some times i will let him hold me open as i pee.

I also told him sometimes as he does it to

[shrimper]

Hi,

A couple of weeks ago, I announced as you do sometimes, that I needed to go for a wee. My boyfriend asked me if he could watch, which I thought was said as a joke, and we both laughed it off and I didn't think any more of it.

Later that evening, my b/f somehow raised the subject about how women go to the toilet and was talking about how inconvenient it must be for us to partially undress and sit down to pee. He then started to ask me questions about the way I pee like, do I always sit down?, do I squat over a public toilet, and what do I do if I need to go outdoors and that type of thing, which I thought was just a curiosity thing, with us having different equipment than a guy, which I had no problems discussing.

Then his questions became rather intimate asking me to describe what it feels like for a woman when she pee's, and to describe what my pee stream looks like, and at what angles does my stream exit my body?, which was beginning to make me feel a bit uncomfortable. He then told me that he had a sexual fantasy about watching a women pee, and asked if he could watch me in the toilet.

I didn't react very well, as I felt rather shocked by what he had told me and the questions he had been asking, and I told him he was being too kinky and that he couldn't watch me in the toilet and I was ashamed that he had asked something like that. I admit that my reaction made him feel terrible and he said he was sorry and would never mention it again which ended the conversation.

I thought about it afterwards and felt really sorry for him for the way I reacted badly and basically perceived he was being a pervert at the time, but I have thought since thinking that maybe I should allow him to watch me pee if it's something that he really want's to see, or just forget he mentioned it.

I was just wondering if any other women have had boyfriends or husband's asking to watch them pee, and whether anyone belives this could be just be a normal erotic request or the beginning of something kinky. I am just confused a little as to what I should do. Help!!!!

Thanks Dianne

It may be he was not around girls growing up and is just curious. Once he sees it there may not be any more interest. If there is then maybe it can be incorporated into your foreplay somehow.

[Guest]

My girlfriend & I have a pretty open relationship where we can discuss & pretty much feel comfortable doing anything. There's times when I'm in the bath & she'll need to use the toilet. We only have the one bathroom so she'd be holding on forever otherwise. I'm quite used to seeing her have a wee or a poo & vice versa so we don't really think anything of it.