I need advice please.

[love2lick]

yeah, but as i said before, she's the one in control and she decides what I can and can't do.....if she doesn't like the sound of it or just doesn't like it, then WE don't do it lol

[Mr B]

yeah, but as i said before, she's the one in control and she decides what I can and can't do.....if she doesn't like the sound of it or just doesn't like it, then WE don't do it lol

You're giving the impression you dont mind that, but you obviously do. Sounds like you need to put your foot down a bit more.

[louswain]

Do you feel satisfied after you have made love to your wife?

[Cambridge]

Hmmm…. Vanilla sex. Lotsa no-nos. One 3-way, mucho vanilla, then nothing. She’s the domme. Obviously, some communication problems (you’re talking to us, not her…hint, hint). Donno if I've ever seen a riper candidate for therapy, but the two of you are certainly in the running.

[femme88]

the Anal thing, you can't hold that against her, Anal isn't like pussy it hurts the firs few times around, takes a while to get used to, and needs a lot of prepping time like playing around her asshole with your fingers so that she even feels the excitement in that region. Imagine if she was like hey it turns me on if i was to shove a big fat dildos
If you want her tot try new things you need to subtly ease her into it, so she warms up to the idea. Theres lots of stuff on the internet where you can find out how to do that.

As far as the licking thing goes i agree with what the other guys had to say..you just have to let it go.