Why do women like big men

[Viveladifference]

I was going down on a woman the other night when I said:

"Geez you've got a big pussy" "Geez you've got a big pussy" "Geez you've got a big pussy"

"There's no need to repeat yourself" she said.

"I didn't" I replied "It was the echo..."

I have a pretty average 6 incher, and have been with some women who were as tight as a gnat, and others who could accommodate a well equipped caving club. I mean a real "stick in a hoop" situation after multiple childbirth.

Needless to say, the latter would no doubt prefer a larger penis than average. Though I was told by the most capacious woman I have entered, that it was the best sex she'd ever had because I was happy to entertain her kink for medical domination scenarios (she had suffered a well endowed but dull husband who wouldn't even let her go on top, he was so insecure).
My avergae penis was of little importance, when she got off just by me putting on some latex gloves.
To quote her: "How can I ever have boring normal sex again?".

I think a concentration on nothing other than penis size demonstrates a clear lack of intelligence and imagination, or perhaps a fetish developed from childhood experiences.
It's no different to men who like huge breasts; they are usually emotionally immature "Peter Pans" with a mother fixation.

The largest sex organ for intelligent people is undoubtedly the brain. Use your imagination and sex can be mind blowing, whatever the size of you genitals.

However, if you insist on being as thick as pigsh*t then you'd better keep looking for that huge penis.

BTW. In reference to the earlier tripe about high testosterone levels being related to high intelligence: Are you saying women, with their lack of testosterone, are all stupid?
I have an IQ of 156, but an average penis. The theory may be flawed.

[likeitmatters]

Big cocks feel nice in my pussy

Ahh, I'm reminded of the cerebral works of Bevis and Butthead...
"We saw naked people. Hu, hu, huhu, huhu, hu".

[Guest]

Why do women like big penises?

Don't get me started on this...

Where to begin?

For starters it is the visual impact. A bigger, fuller, longer penis is just more manly, more powerful, more masculine to look at and admire. A man who has a large, thick penis with a nice meaty head on it is just plain damn sexy to look at--period! It excites you and titillates. It speaks as a testament to sexual prowess and manliness for the pure raw visceral longing it generates. Compare this to a man with a stumply little C*** still looking like it needs to grow up. On an adult man it is just a comical sad little joke and it does nothing to inspire sexual excitement. Really, the only thing such a small dick is for is to highlight by negative example the real status of manhood by being a counter example to a man who is in possession of a manly size C***.

Then there are the very real physical reasons. For one thing a penis that is fuller means it has more girth, which in turn will stimulate the vagina, particularly the vaginal lips far more than a thinner penis. Feeling a large, thick C*** sliding in and out, tugging at your labia truly excites you far more superiorly than a skinnier penis. The length too is important. Contrary to the myth that a woman's sensation ends after the first third of her vagina, a woman can indeed feel sexual stimulation in the depths of her vagina. A long, full penis just gives you that filled up feeling, where you feel the warmth and manly fullness of the man inside of you, expanding you, stimulating you, and fulfilling you in everyplace and in ways that a smaller endowed man is just physically incapable of accomplishing.

And in my experience a larger endowed man just lasts longer. I do not know why that is, but I can honestly say that men of average to smaller size just do not last as long, nor are as readily up for subsequent sex. In striking contrast a larger endowed man has more stamina, which women naturally equate with greater masculinity, has a shorter refractory period, and able to sexually perform not only for a longer period of times but for a greater number of times as well.

All this for a woman translates to more intense, powerful, vagina-wide orgasms, more of them in one time, and more of them in greater number of sessions.

Orally as well, a larger penis is just more satisfying, since there is more to suck and lick and kiss and make love to. Feeling a man's large C*** in your hand is by itself just a *huge* turn on or seeing that beautiful bulge growing in his pants is enough to get you wet in anticipation. But see a well hung man's gorgeous manhood revealed, particularly for the first time, standing in proud erection is to evoke that deep eons long natural urgings and longings of loving worshipfulness.

Let's just face it, size definitely matters and bigger is indeed better. It is really not a mystery as to why women prefer larger sized penises. Most women will not say it aloud but lets face it, it is what excites us more than anything with perhaps the exception of a warm, skilled tongue. After all, you don't find the romance novel industry or porn film industry populated with men with average or small little dicks right? It just isn't a female fantasy. Prowess and masculinity is what excites us and a larger endowed man exudes that sexually far far more than a smaller endowed male, no matter what social status that smaller dick male might have.

This is why size matters and why we women prefer bigger cocks.

Hope I have not made an guy out there feel bad, but you asked the question and on here (the internet) we women do not have to be so guarded and have to censure our natural inclinations and perfectly normal feelings that is perfectly natural.

I do not think that you have any need to make an apologia for your natural desires. I agree with you. I think we should be all free to express ourselves and our true desires.

I am a psychological graduate student concentrating on evolutionary psychology. Interestingly enough Helen Fisher, the noted anthropologist offered a very insightful analysis for the reasons why women prefer larger endowed males. There have been others, even men, that concluded the same thing, but it is just more credulous to me as a woman when I read and related intimately with what another woman is saying. Basically, larger pensis size correlates with more dominance in males and also a higher ability to inseminate a woman. There is also strong evidence to show that larger endowed males produce not only more testosterone, but more sperm that is of a healtier quality, where the seamen of men who are more endowed are also able to more readily form a protective barrier that seals that and protects their sperm within womb. Even more amazingly is that a larger endowed penis literally acts like a plunger, able to create a large suction effect that effectly displaces the sperm of rival males. There are also a host of "sperm wars" that go on as well and it is truly fascinating, owed to our polygamous ancestral heritage and fierce sexual competition.


Thus, from an evolutionary perspective, then, men who were more endowed had more testosterone. Testosterone has been correlated with a host of male advantages, including more fertility, energy, alertness, resourcefulness, and even intelligence (incidentally Einstein was rumored to have been well endowed not only with a large cerebrum but also a large penis, as it was references in several correspondences from a few of his former lovers). What this means then is that a woman inseminated by a male who was more endowed passed on to his future sons the same evolutionary advantages. In times women who came to prefer men with larger penises had a greater chance to produces such alpha males and daughters that would seek them out, furthering their evolutionary success. Still there is much genetic variation and sexual rivalry, owed to the instinctual drive of the female of the species to procreate with male members of outside groups. This has been well documented in a host of primate species and is owed to preventing inbreeding within a population. Hence, there will me females that will mate with men with a range of penis sizes, accounting for the variability we see. Nevertheless, the strong sexual female preference for a larger endowed male still exists due to this common ancestral origin.

I not only relate to this, but as an Asian woman, where Asian women are often said to not have such a want for a bigger penis because we are very "tight," I further find the explanation very satisfying. Even among many Asian cultures, women are quite unabashed about their larger penis preference. This is particularly true among Thai and Filipino women and surveys in even Japan, which is readily losing its male-dominate hold on women there, is the preference for larger sized penises being made. Only really in Asian cultures that put a large social taboo or restraint on sexual expression do Asian women curtail their desires. This includes China and Korea, but interestingly enough in Taiwan, who are genetically identically to their Chinese counterparts, the Taiwanese women state a strong preference to larger sized penises.

Indeed, I think Asian women are "tighter" but this doesn't take away from the desire and preference for a larger penis. Physically, the vagina is a very accommodating organ, capable of stretching some five times its relaxed state, hence easily accommodating any size penis. I think many women who have difficulty in dealing with a larger sized penis are ones that are not lubricating or sexually relaxing enough to enjoy it. Before I became sexually active, I had great difficulty accommodating even a small penis. I was just psychologically not able to relax and feel free with my body to lubricate and enjoy sex that way. Now I can and if I want I can really tighten up and keep even the smallest man out. I have to be genuinely excited and relax to take a largely endowed man but I can and have and honestly the sex is hotter with a larger endowed man.

The more you eggheads study the stupider you get. If what you say is true then the average sized penis would be 8 inches, since (theoretically) most women look for the big one. The evidence of history and genetics shows that most women have looked for an attractive and responsible man that will love, protect and secure her in life. Some of those men have had big penises but most have had around 5" to 6". Thank God that there are plenty of women that look at the whole man and not just the penis!

[Guest]

Yesterday i wrote that someone like BIG and someone not. But it seems that people don't relize that. U people just talk usually BIG vs. average/small. For example my ex-gf and one of her friend didn't like big members at all because it was painful for them. Then some of her friends like big tools. So women think different about size. Some like it big and some not, easy as that. The size of vagina is different too. I have 7" (so it's average) and I have had veeery tight women, even so tight that my tool didn't fit proper. Then I have had women with large pussies, but then I usually use my fist...

[Guest]

Oh yes and I must say about small penises... A lot of women (Ithink majority) don't like small ones...

[getup3]

well im the length of a bic pen and as big around as an averagely grown banana with the peel on (5" around). But i am considered to be quite good looking with a great fun loving personality. Yes i am more than just a dick-- Im a man.

But honestly i would say this is average average--right in the middle of the road. The results. One woman out of 15 has had multiple orgasms with me. About half have had a single (vaginal, clitoral is 100% except for the first ones) )orgasm per session. But all of them said I was good in bed and that i was not small at all. But i am not big either--no one gasped when i took my pants off. But they liked me for my whole person because i am rather sexy

By the way, technique and looks can keep em comin and comin back for more.

[Guest]

The more you eggheads study the stupider you get. If what you say is true then the average sized penis would be 8 inches, since (theoretically) most women look for the big one. The evidence of history and genetics shows that most women have looked for an attractive and responsible man that will love, protect and secure her in life. Some of those men have had big penises but most have had around 5" to 6". Thank God that there are plenty of women that look at the whole man and not just the penis!

[Guest204]

I would prefer a man who is secure, loving, honest and has a big C***! Why not have the best of everything?

The question is why do women prefer big cocks, the same reason as majority of men prefer big tits on women.

I dont know why the discussion took place as if size matters or not, thats a different thread. This thread is why do women prefer bigger cocks and with that logic, anyone that comes to post anything on this forum accepts that as a fact before anything goes on.

[Guest]

Fill me up 'n plug me tight. That's what I need from a man.

[BinoKev]

Why is there never a survey of the average sized penis that women want a man to have? I would guess it would be about 7.5"

[Guest]

Why is there never a survey of the average sized penis that women want a man to have? I would guess it would be about 7.5"

There was a survey somewhere, think it was Mens Health which questioned something like 3000 women - something like 87% of those questioned were happy with their partners penis size.
The average size penis is between 5 and 6 inches.

[Guest]

I would prefer a man who is secure, loving, honest and has a big C***! Why not have the best of everything?

I wish you all the best hunny, but I doubt you'll find that combination.

The question is why do women prefer big cocks, the same reason as majority of men prefer big tits on women.

I'd love to see a survey showing proof of that (and I'm not talking about a biased poll on this sex-addict forum either). I think you'd be surpised how many men are actually turned off by big tits. I love average sized tits, big tits to me are a huge turn off and all of my mates agree. It's a myth that most men like huge tits.

I dont know why the discussion took place as if size matters or not, thats a different thread. This thread is why do women prefer bigger cocks and with that logic, anyone that comes to post anything on this forum accepts that as a fact before anything goes on.

That's the thing though, this question is biased. NOT ALL WOMEN prefer bigger cocks - you only need to look at some of the answers from women on the first page of this thread to find that out. So the question "Why do all women prefer bigger cocks" is a very biased question, because not ALL women do... That's the point I was trying to make.
I was also trying to give support to guys reading this thread who have "small" penises, that it's not the end of their sex life and they don't need a 8"+ C*** to please a women.

[Guest]

Why is there never a survey of the average sized penis that women want a man to have? I would guess it would be about 7.5"

There was a survey somewhere, think it was Mens Health which questioned something like 3000 women - something like 87% of those questioned were happy with their partners penis size.
The average size penis is between 5 and 6 inches.

Those were women in relationships who cared about their partners. Satisfied is a rather vague word and doesn't necessarily mean it couldn't better. I might be satisfied ok with my monetary level of lifestyle but that doesn't mean I wouldn't opt for more.

Another survey asked in a different way and asked something like 1000 women who were both married and single and gave them 4 choices - care not all about size, care a little, care moderately, and care a lot. Only 25% said they didn't care at all.

[Guest]

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NOT ALL WOMEN prefer bigger cocks [/quote]

True, but 75% do, although it's only important to about 10% of those 75%.

[Guest]

Why is there never a survey of the average sized penis that women want a man to have? I would guess it would be about 7.5"

Having read around many forums a lot in general the favorite penis size amongst white women is 7" long x thick. In general the favorite size amongst black women is 8+" long x thick. All sizes have their fans but those have the most fans.