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Should I tell my husband?

Postby Guest on Mon Jul 28, 2008 12:56 am

Should I tell my husband about a same sex experience that I had with a friend while we were in jail together? It was over 3 years ago, we both were sentenced to 30 days in jail for possesion charges. We were in the same cell and most of the time the only 2 female inmates in the jail, so several nights after the lights were turned off we experimented with lesbian sex and both enjoyed it but after our release we never did it again. Now my friend thinks we should tell our husbands. What is your advice.

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Postby Guest on Mon Aug 04, 2008 1:47 pm

No I would not tell him since 3 years has past since it happened, unless you and your friend are considering picking up the relationship you shared while in Jail.

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Postby wickedwill on Thu Aug 07, 2008 2:07 pm

Def not why risk it and never admit it

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Postby laceyLOVE on Sat Aug 23, 2008 11:46 pm

You definately should not tell your husbands!!! No good will come of that. However, if both of you enjoyed it, and your husbands know that you two are friends there is no reason why you two cant have sex together again from time to time as long as you dont get caught. But, that is your decision.

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Postby secretsally on Fri Aug 29, 2008 9:45 pm

Dear Guest, I'm having a little trouble with believing that you were the only two females in this jail.

Are you saying that this was a VERY small female jail or that you two were locked up in a jail for males?!!
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Postby lynnann on Sat Aug 30, 2008 5:51 am

no way keep it to ur self. there are only a few men with a open mind that could handle it.plus it was 3 years ago how will it help.

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Postby Guest on Mon Sep 01, 2008 5:41 pm

secretsally wrote:Dear Guest, I'm having a little trouble with believing that you were the only two females in this jail.

Are you saying that this was a VERY small female jail or that you two were locked up in a jail for males?!!

It was a county jail, which houses both male and female inmates. It is not a very big jail. There are only 3 cells in the female section of the jail. My friend and I was in the same cell as I said. We were serving a 30 day sentence, most of the other female prisoners served only 3 day sentences usually on the weekends which meant we were usually the only female inmates during the week, there were a few nights during the week that a female was arrested and held overnight. During the day we were allowed out of our cells into the cell block area to watch TV or play board games. On two occasions we were allowed to go outside into a fenced in area to clean the Sheriff cars, it was nice to get outside but it was really embarrassing since we were wearing inmate uniforms and people walking by the jail knew we were inmates. Usually around 08:00pm we were locked in our cell for the night this is when were started experimenting with lesbianism, also our cell was not open as you see on TV it was apprx. a 8x10 room with cement walls and a door with a small window, which gaves us some pricacy.

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Postby DawnRaider on Mon Sep 01, 2008 5:47 pm

Wow, so you were in the slammer for a whole 30 days and you missed rumpy-pumpy so much you turned lez that quick? Considering the amount of privacy you had why didn't you try one of the male lags? I'm sure one would have obliged. Actually didn't they make a movie about your experience? Red Hot Lesbian Jailbirds or something?

I remember having a soft porn mag as a kid of about 12 and there was a made-up letter to the editor in there along similar lines. Supposedly, female prison inmates made di1do3s for themselves by pouring prison porridge into the foot of their tights and then knotting them! The resukt was supposedly very realistic! 10/10 for creativity there and 10/10 for sense of humour. I wonder how many suckers believed and caused chaos at home making their own?

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Postby Hotel_Whiskey on Tue Sep 02, 2008 5:12 pm

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THe husbands will be turned on!

Postby Dennis+ on Tue Sep 02, 2008 10:49 pm

This may be a naughty thought on my part. I'm reading over the girl's only posts. Like all men I'm curious about what women like and think.
The one thought I had when I began reading this thread is that the husbands, if they're not total prudish, will probably get aroused by what you tell them about your girl/girl affair. Most men are curios and get aroused by lesbian actions and stories.
In fact the husband could want to get together and have three or four ways and include the girl/girl action as part of the fun that night.
Think it over!
I bet I'm right!
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Re: THe husbands will be turned on!

Postby Guest on Wed Sep 03, 2008 1:53 pm

Dennis+ wrote:This may be a naughty thought on my part. I'm reading over the girl's only posts. Like all men I'm curious about what women like and think.
The one thought I had when I began reading this thread is that the husbands, if they're not total prudish, will probably get aroused by what you tell them about your girl/girl affair. Most men are curios and get aroused by lesbian actions and stories.
In fact the husband could want to get together and have three or four ways and include the girl/girl action as part of the fun that night.
Think it over!
I bet I'm right!
Dennis
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I am not sure what my husbands reaction would be. I also do not have the urge to continue the relationship that we had while in jail and I don't believe my friend is interested in picking up the relationship either, but she feels we should tell our husbands.
I think at the time we were both curious and since we were in such small accomidations and alone with nothing to do things happened that normally would not have.
It started on about our fifth night in jail, we were in our cell at the end of the day, we had been busy all day as were we assigned to clean the TV area of the cell block. We were both sitting on my bunk talking and she started to massage my feet, we started talking about girl on girl sex and both of us admitted that we had thought about it.

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Postby old fart on Fri Sep 05, 2008 9:25 pm

By all means, tell your husbands. Maybe they would be turned on! Men love watching lesbian sex and maybe you could get a few three-way or four-way sessions started up. Go for it.

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Postby Goya on Wed Sep 10, 2008 1:23 am

What is the rational or reason to tell your husbands now after three years. Is there a reason for this? I believe it is best to ask your friend about the reason. If there is no rational, forget it ...it was an experience in a totally different circumstances ...... maybe you needed some security....

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