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. wrote:Hey! this is to king_fedor. a lot of people write about how low they feel but i was really touched by what you said. I am a 20 year old girl and my ex boyfriend had stretch marks and i can tell you i honestly never thought twice about them. it no way affected how i felt towards him or how attractive i thought he was. I know it might not mean much but i not everygirl out there is going to think badly of you because of your stretchmarks i promise you!
i understand that you somtimes feel suicidal because i do too (not helped by the fact that said boyfriend of four years dumped me last week) but while we're still going, and until that illusive laser is created, i think its worthwhile starting some sort of routine as there are people that have posted success in getting rid. i would be interested in looking at a picture because sometimes i find it hard to guage how bad mine are and it might be the same for you if you had somthing to compare it to?
but whatever, don't give up hope! we're young and thers no way we're not going to get a chance to be free and have fun!
king_fedor wrote:. wrote:Hey! this is to king_fedor. a lot of people write about how low they feel but i was really touched by what you said. I am a 20 year old girl and my ex boyfriend had stretch marks and i can tell you i honestly never thought twice about them. it no way affected how i felt towards him or how attractive i thought he was. I know it might not mean much but i not everygirl out there is going to think badly of you because of your stretchmarks i promise you!
i understand that you somtimes feel suicidal because i do too (not helped by the fact that said boyfriend of four years dumped me last week) but while we're still going, and until that illusive laser is created, i think its worthwhile starting some sort of routine as there are people that have posted success in getting rid. i would be interested in looking at a picture because sometimes i find it hard to guage how bad mine are and it might be the same for you if you had somthing to compare it to?
but whatever, don't give up hope! we're young and thers no way we're not going to get a chance to be free and have fun!
thanks for taking note of my situation. and it is encouraging to hear that there are girls out there who wouldnt mind too much. here is the problem though, i already knew that...but FINDING ONE is pretty much impossible...im 21 years old and time is ticking and i get more and more depressed as each day goes by...i can send a pic if u want, but i have to send it through email because i dont know how else to post pics
. wrote: I have had massive improvements already. I think tca just must not work on some people. I am considering ordering 30% tca next time I get it. Its hard for me to say when the marks will be gone, but I would think it would be this year at the latest. I will definitely post if they return, but here is the thing, I plan to do at least 2 peels after I believe I have completely removed them, just to make sure they are totally gone. Out of interest, on the whole do they go forever or return debate, I have posted that question for Dr Pickart on skin biology, though I think he is already of the belief that you can completely remove them and they will not return. We shall see what he has to say.
I really hope that mine do not return, because if they don't then it means that many other peoples won't too.
J
. wrote:. wrote: I have had massive improvements already. I think tca just must not work on some people. I am considering ordering 30% tca next time I get it. Its hard for me to say when the marks will be gone, but I would think it would be this year at the latest. I will definitely post if they return, but here is the thing, I plan to do at least 2 peels after I believe I have completely removed them, just to make sure they are totally gone. Out of interest, on the whole do they go forever or return debate, I have posted that question for Dr Pickart on skin biology, though I think he is already of the belief that you can completely remove them and they will not return. We shall see what he has to say.
I really hope that mine do not return, because if they don't then it means that many other peoples won't too.
J
I'm the person who posted the glycolic/tca routine around p410 or so!
I'll say it once more & once more only. TCA results for scarring are or anything of that nature is PERMANENT. TCA is only semi-permanent for RECURRING conditions....Meaning acne, wrinkles etc, etc. Scarring isn't recurring, it's a permanent condition. So the results you get are permanent. What TCA won't do though, is shrink loose skin back in. So if you've a baby & have a lot of loose hanging skin. It'll burn away the marks & to a degree it'll tighten the skin back in. But it'll never go back in completely. So if this is your problem, then use some sort of skin firming/tightening cream, lotion or potion as well.
The problem with TCA is that when your first start using it. It can seem like they're gone because of the redness that occurs, only for the skin to get back to normal in a few weeks & you see them still there. The other one is for some, it seems to make them worse with a little bit of temporary hyperpigmentation & then they panic. Stop the routine because it obviously isn't working & any it's back to square one. Problem is it does work, but it takes time & patience!
There is one reason that someone might think the marks come back after a few months. This is because the marks are so deep. Everytime you peel, your talking away the surface layers. Good skin grows, the older damaged layers beneath get pushed up further & further every time. If someone sees they are gone. They may be on the surface, but as your skin sheds. The healthy skin will be taken away & if there are any marks still lying underneath, they will begin to show through again.
It's not that the marks have returned. It's simply they were never fully removed in the first place! This is why you should continue to do a few peels after you think they're totally gone. They may be on the surface, but if there is any traces left underneath. There is a possibility that it will show back through in the coming months/years as it slowly gets pushed up to the surface.
Once you remove damaged tissue. It DOES not grow back, it's gone for good. You just need to keep peeling & peeling. Even when you think they're totally gone because it's not worth taking the chance that there could be any bits of scar tissue left underneath the good healthy skin. Anything that shows up after peeling simply means you didn't get all the scar tissue. So you'll need to do a few further peels again to remove whatever is left of the original damaged tissue.
Thank goodness!
RK wrote:Hi...
Well I kind of thought 'why not' when J told me to try once more... I took the bottle of TCA I had left (Oh - I didn't get it from platinum skincare, I read the bottle - it's from Yavonnae. Not sure if I've said this already but wanted to be honest). Anyway - the percentage was 100% - not wanting all the hyperpigmentation I got from the last set of peels (which I still have) I diluted it down to about 30-40%. I applied it only to the backs of my arms to start with - this area is now almost completely peeled & nothing has improvedA few days after doing that peel - I received my Retin-A 0.1% from Pharmacy2u (3 tubes). I took the newly diluted TCA (the backs of my arms hadn't peeled yet) & applied it to my tummy (which has been looking a bit worse recently), biceps, & hips. Because the backs of my arms have now almost finished peeling without result, I don't expect the other areas to be any better either.
HOWEVER - I'm now applying Retin-A everyday to certain areas (all the areas mentioned above, plus breasts, bum, & knees).
This is expensive but it's not something I've actually tried before & it is the only internationally lauded product that can help, so..... I don't have the money to afford DeepFX at the moment, so.......
Again.. I'm also considering ordering Trilastin to apply over the top of the Retin-A, but am a bit undecided now...
I will also continue doing TCA peels (if this lot doesn't cause my hyperpigmentation - it didn't frost at all at this percentage, so I don't think it will).
Unlike my previous post where I said I'd use the dermaroller with the Retin-A, I've decided not to, as I had too much irritation with the Obagi 0.05% & roller when I tried.
I still want to get some more Accent treatments done.
As for the guys with stretchmarks all over their bodies. Please do not worry TOO much. If you're after an airhead like someone of Beauty & the Geek, then, yeah, you probably wont get one, but for the average (and still beautiful) girl, it really wouldn't be a problem. Trust me.
I look okay with clothes on, have been asked to model etc but with clothes off about 50-60% of me is covered in marks too - perhaps more after the pregnancy... & they do cause me a lot of day-to-day trauma.. but guys generally don't notice them, or don't care & don't say anything when it comes to 'bedroom' time. I think the only thing that pisses them off is obsessing over them to them (so that they're forced to notice). & I'd imagine that would work the other way round too.
& Tracy - I'd love to know what the 6 month verdit on the ACtive FX treatment was too.
Many thanks,
Rhianna
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