What the hell is going on

[splinkygb]

Michelle, you both have different sex drives. It may or may not cause a problem in the longer term. Whether your loss of sex drive is temporary or not is another thing. As you may be a little stressed or something and that will definitely reduce your libido.

But you need to talk about it and be honest with each other!

[Cambridge]

I understand what you are saying.

I had a friend who had the same issue. You just need to explain to him, as so wonderfully put earlier, you want quality over quantity.

But when you do have sex just make it AMAZING!!

My boyfriend and I have these "Sex Days" where on special days (such as his birthday) we just have sex.

My boyfriends birthday was on a Sunday, which made it perfect. We had sex the night before, that morning, after breakfast, then we watched tv in bed (naked), and then again. We then went to his friends house for his party and had sex when we got back. I was so tired and sore but it was wonderful..and we were out of condoms

If he truly wants to be with you he will understand.

Yes, but I gather that she is unable to work within a schedule like that.

To put it politely, I have a feeling it's a mismatch.