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Fe-male wrote:Consider for a moment why women like the designers you list over and over again. Could it be because they make very feminine shoes that make a woman feel womanly? I suspect that has a lot to do with it, they are very girly. So if they started making heeled shoes for men in a similar style to the shoes they make for women but with a masculine edge don't you think it'd be commercial suicide? Don’t you think those companies would be taking away the very thing that sells their product, their femininity?
Fe-male wrote:Are you stuck in a loop?
Fe-male wrote:We've said this before as well. I've just put a similar reply in the other thread. You seem to have a huge misunderstanding of gender and the various steps between the two polar genders of man and woman.
Your question was: Manolo Blahnik and Jimmy Choo for Men?
For men. Not Drag Queens and Transvestites. They can already wear woman's shoes intended for woman because they are trying to pass as a woman. Why wear mens shoes when trying to pass as a woman, it's not going to work is it. You asked about shoes for men (again).
If you want to go and get some heels then go right ahead. No one will mind or care that much. Order them off ebay if you don't want to go to the a shop. You'll get a brown parcel in the post and that'll be it, you'll have your shoes. You don't need to justify it or reason it out, just do it.
Fe-male wrote:I have and will never speak against someone rights to wear whatever they want. I said above, if you want to buy and wear woman's shoes then go ahead and do so. I mean that, do it. They're just shoes, you'll not be harming anyone or breaking any laws and you will find on the whole that people don't care what you wear. Yes, some will make fun of you, some will find you a curiosity and some will make negative comments but on the whole, people don't care. You can't sit back and wait for a fashion revolution. The people you mention didn't sit back and wait for things to change, they put themselves forward and made things change. You can do the same, get those shoes you want and start wearing them.
But you may also find that the answer to your problems aren't in a pair of shoes and at the end of the day, they're just shoes and you're still you.
I'm not against you, Koichi Ito, just can't see why you need to ask the same question over and over.
Fe-male wrote:I have seen plenty of TG/TV, or whatever they wanted to call themselves, out in ordinary life. Each time I looked and wondered if they were truly happy. If dressing/living as a woman has fulfilled their inner feelings and if they've achieved what they set out to be. Sometimes I feel sad for them and other times I feel happy, it depends how they convey themselves which is one of my earlier points. The clothes and shoes in themselves won't make you happy. If I was to dress as a woman I wouldn't feel any more of a woman than I do right now dressed as a man. Those feelings come from within and for me clothes don't make any difference. In fact it just makes me sad as I'll never be a woman and I will never pass as a woman, I will be in that mid-ground where I'm neither a man or a woman in societies eyes.
Which again is another point, do you really give a fudge what society thinks of you? If you feel you are a woman and wish for society to accept you as a woman then you may find you will never be happy. But if you admit to yourself that you are a woman inside and you will be that woman regardless of what others think then you can achieve happiness. Let the woman out and do whatever you want to do, wear whatever you want to wear and don't give a damn about what others think.
Sometimes I look at TG/TV people in society and think congratulations, you've let the woman out and you're being yourself. Other times I look and think they're trying to pass as a woman and failing miserably, they're not achieving happiness.
After all, achieving happiness and fulfillment has to be the goal for all of us. Do whatever you need to do to achieve fulfillment.
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