i need some advice or opinions on my love life

[mulberry]

hi, well i have been seeing someone since november 07
up until april everything was amazing and we both felt the same about each other. It was the best thing ever!!
I kept geting scared of how i felt and i told him i couldn't see him anymore a number times, although as soon as i made that decision i changed my mind straight away.
We both really fancy each other and i know i am in love with him. But he says that things got weird and i suggested we should be friends to give him a get out basically if he wanted it.
he has also said he doesn't have the emotional capacity for a relationship. I am confused about what he means about this. All i know is that we both like each other alot and we will be friends no matter what and that we really fancy each other. I know i messed things up and i'm kicking myself. It just feels like its too late and i wouldn't know what to say to him to make everything great again with us even if it wasn't too late. I don't feel i can be without him and miss him so much.

[Verve]

Just tell him how you truly feel. If he doesn’t reciprocate then you won’t be wasting your time. Try dating men and not looking for just one. You seem to have some issues that you need to work on before you choose someone to get serious with.

[Guest]

thanks for the advice, why do you think i have issues? is it because i got scared and left him?

[Verve]

hi, well i have been seeing someone since november 07
up until april everything was amazing and we both felt the same about each other. It was the best thing ever!!
I kept geting scared of how i felt and i told him i couldn't see him anymore a number times, although as soon as i made that decision i changed my mind straight away.
We both really fancy each other and i know i am in love with him. But he says that things got weird and i suggested we should be friends to give him a get out basically if he wanted it.
he has also said he doesn't have the emotional capacity for a relationship. I am confused about what he means about this. All i know is that we both like each other alot and we will be friends no matter what and that we really fancy each other. I know i messed things up and i'm kicking myself. It just feels like its too late and i wouldn't know what to say to him to make everything great again with us even if it wasn't too late. I don't feel i can be without him and miss him so much.

Yup!

[Guest]

anyone have anymore advice on the "no emotional capacity" part?