im 7 weeks pregnant boyfriend doesnt wont it

[Ivan Diederhoff]

im 7 weeks pregnant 23 years old and been with my boyfriend for 3 months (28 years old) i told him i was pregnant and he will not talk about it he has just told me he thinks it would be best to have a abortion but i know i would regret for the rest of my life he just says he is not ready and feels to young to have a family what do i do.?

he should have thougth about that before he got his willy out, thick b*****.

+1. but she should have thought of that before she let him stick his willy into her!

She's pregnant now and it's her decision and it can be happy one, with or without him. He's laid the cards on the table admitted he can't provide. So she should get out of there while she still can. Good riddance to bad, bad rubbish.

It'll be her decision again, then next time she spreads for a man she isn't married to. What happened to birth control and common sense?

But it is now her chance to create a positive out of a negative. Once the negative i.e the guy who put his penis in, is out of the picture, she can enjoy her life as a mother. He can self-destruct on his own or go and fu-ck someone else over and whinge to his mates about how he was trapped.

So this is all his fault, huh? SHE went off the pill. SHE hopped in the sack and spread her legs while unprotected. SHE had the chance to decline sex outright until she got back on the pill. SHE had the choice to tell him where to go when they started talking again. I'm not condoning his behavior, but it still takes two to make babies. SHE is half the cause of the problem here.

[Guest]

im 7 weeks pregnant 23 years old and been with my boyfriend for 3 months (28 years old) i told him i was pregnant and he will not talk about it he has just told me he thinks it would be best to have a abortion but i know i would regret for the rest of my life he just says he is not ready and feels to young to have a family what do i do.?

he should have thougth about that before he got his willy out, thick b*****.

+1. but she should have thought of that before she let him stick his willy into her!

She's pregnant now and it's her decision and it can be happy one, with or without him. He's laid the cards on the table admitted he can't provide. So she should get out of there while she still can. Good riddance to bad, bad rubbish.

It'll be her decision again, then next time she spreads for a man she isn't married to. What happened to birth control and common sense?

But it is now her chance to create a positive out of a negative. Once the negative i.e the guy who put his penis in, is out of the picture, she can enjoy her life as a mother. He can self-destruct on his own or go and fu-ck someone else over and whinge to his mates about how he was trapped.

So this is all his fault, huh? SHE went off the pill. SHE hopped in the sack and spread her legs while unprotected. SHE had the chance to decline sex outright until she got back on the pill. SHE had the choice to tell him where to go when they started talking again. I'm not condoning his behavior, but it still takes two to make babies. SHE is half the cause of the problem here.

He doesn't have to be involved. He can walk away but he can't force her to have an abortion.

[Guest]

I am suspicious of this thread - since the OP has not responded.

Perhaps they are conservatives in disguise.

[Captain]

abortion is not sometimes necessary because pregnancy is preventable
There are exceptions to that rule such as rape or failed contraception but they are exceptions because generally if you use your head you can avoid becoming pregnant and having to make such a decision in the first place.
unborn babies are still babies. It is suprising how quickly they develop and are just like miniture newborns, just a bit more primitive. They are not motionless little alien looking things for very long.

To the OP
What is your issue? If you want this baby, keep it. If you do decide to abort it make sure you properly research what happens because you probably would feel horrendously guilty if you went and did it and then realised the reality. Either way it is your decision to make and only you can make it. If you don't want babies don't set up the circumstances that lead to them

[Guest]

abortion is not sometimes necessary because pregnancy is preventable
There are exceptions to that rule such as rape or failed contraception but they are exceptions because generally if you use your head you can avoid becoming pregnant and having to make such a decision in the first place.
unborn babies are still babies. It is suprising how quickly they develop and are just like miniture newborns, just a bit more primitive. They are not motionless little alien looking things for very long.

To the OP
What is your issue? If you want this baby, keep it. If you do decide to abort it make sure you properly research what happens because you probably would feel horrendously guilty if you went and did it and then realised the reality. Either way it is your decision to make and only you can make it. If you don't want babies don't set up the circumstances that lead to them

cases of rape or incest won't make a difference if republicans get elected in the US of A in November. The only way to avoid abortions is to not spread her legs to begin with.