My wife won't perform oral sex

[Guest]

I love my wife and we have great sex, but I would really love it if she would suck my c**k now and then. I have told here I would love that a few times and I told her fantasies about here doing that to me, but she never does it.

So i wonder:
1. Is it so bad to suck c**k?
2. Who has any tips on how I could get here to suck my c**k?

I do go down on here and she loves that, but she always gets a bit embarassad by it.

Tommy

[mr bob]

wait a minute you said you love her,but then when she won't suck you something is wrong.i guess so you!!!!tell me you like everything she likes or wants,you can't. so why should she.my friend and i love lots of things,but there is lots of things i don't like of his,like the beer he drinks,the butter on the sandwish and how he is in a hurry all the time.everyone is different and they all have things we like or don't like.plus ask lots of women and you will see many will tell you they do not like to suck guys,and why should they.why not try to suck your self then you don't need her to,and you can suck yourself all the time.that will make her happy and you to

[Guest]

Excuse me, I don't say that something is wrong with my wife and I don't love her more if she would suck me or less if she doesn't. But I would enjoy it if she would suck me, so if someone has tips how I could confince her to suck me that would be great. If a lot of woman think it is discusting to suck, then I would like to know that as well, then I will not bother her anymore with that question. It seems though a lot of woman enjoy it. So may main presumption is that she could learn to enjoy it, I just don't know how. Maybe some people here can give a more helpfull answer then yours.

Tommy

[Guest]

She is trying to control and manipulate you. By making you crazy and not sucking your c0ck, you are getting bored and bending to her will. You must remedy this. No more fancy restaurants. On her birthday and Christmas, its a new set of pots and pans, and sex toys. Start throwing away her underwear that you don't like, the ones that scream old lady. Replace them with thongs and gstrings. Sabotage her bras to break at bad times. She'll come around to the sex goddess you desire.

[Starshine]

Careful the post below allegedly from me too is from a person who has stolen my user name and my photo!

You are both missing out on so much. Please talk to her and if needs be come back to this thread and try and explain why she has difficulty. Then just perhaps someone can help you further.

You may want to try with flavoured condoms for starters.

I was wondering if you give her oral regularly and is she comfortable kissing you afterwards?

[Guest]

sucking C*** makes me feel like i'm in a porno

[TheFinalWord]

wait a minute you said you love her,but then when she won't suck you something is wrong.i guess so you!!!!tell me you like everything she likes or wants,you can't. so why should she.my friend and i love lots of things,but there is lots of things i don't like of his,like the beer he drinks,the butter on the sandwish and how he is in a hurry all the time.everyone is different and they all have things we like or don't like.plus ask lots of women and you will see many will tell you they do not like to suck guys,and why should they.why not try to suck your self then you don't need her to,and you can suck yourself all the time.that will make her happy and you to

Folks. Is that one of the most ridiculous pieces of advice you've ever heard?

Anyway, OP you wrote "she always gets a bit embarassad by it". I think that is the key point you made in all of this. Why don't you make a special night of it and gently guide her into a 69 position while you are going down on her. That way she is not performing solo and therfore being self conscience.

I would also be curious as to whether she has performed oral in past relationships etc.

[Starshine]

See penultimate post allegedly from me above. Someone has taken my user name and my avatar photo.

But it is not me. It says newbie and 22 posts and I would not write like that. If this person is not closed I will have to leave the forum. I do not want my views confused with this person. I can also write English!

[Guest]

We don't talk that often about previous relations. But I asked here before and she told me that se had sucked previous boyfriends and even swallowed (she never has done with me). She does not have a problem with kissing me after I give her oral, but often when I want to give her oral she wants to go to normal sex immediately. So I agree that embarassement seems to be the main problem, the times she lets go and relaxes she really seems to enjoy it.

I think I will give the 69 idea a try.

Thanks for Starshine and TheFinalWord your answers!

Tommy

[Summzie]

I think a relationship is about give and take.

It's my view that if a partner likes recieving oral sex, their partner should be good enough to give it to them.

I know my current bf doesn't particularly like kissing on me, but he does it and takes pleasure from my enjoyment.

It possibly helps that he gets lots and lots of blow jobs from me though...