Boyfriend problems

[Guest]

my boyfriend's is an insomniac and depressive and is always shouting at me or belittling me. when i argue back even if it't to argue a point, he'll turn it around and make me out to be a bully or the nasty one. It's physically draining and wondered if others have dealt with people like this.

[glidewest]

sound like an unrewarding relationship

try and work on the insomnia, the more tired a person the shorter the temper, can you get an evening routine going perhaps dinner and then a walk, no alcohol or caffine, keep the bedroom only as a sleeping place, not to warm, don't sit in bed watching telly.

if he crack the lack of sleep, you can then work on the relationship, but he's got to want to work at it, so don't flog a dead horse

[WhiteTrash]

Get out of there!

[Guest]

sound like an unrewarding relationship

try and work on the insomnia, the more tired a person the shorter the temper, can you get an evening routine going perhaps dinner and then a walk, no alcohol or caffine, keep the bedroom only as a sleeping place, not to warm, don't sit in bed watching telly.

if he crack the lack of sleep, you can then work on the relationship, but he's got to want to work at it, so don't flog a dead horse

he recently went through a big family trauma and up until then wanted to get married and have a baby, but now things have changed overnight and is talking of moving away with his mum, but still wants to keep in touch ans for me to help him with his business, he's only interested in me for what i can do for him not in us at all. he's messed me around so much emotionally.

[glidewest]

cut him loose, family problems are no excuse for messing you around he just wants all the benefits of the relationship with you, but without making any investment