Porn husband gets me down

[Guest]

i have been living with my partner for 2yrs and planned marriage, i loved him so much but now he has broke my heart,he said he watched porn once in a blue moon but i discovered otherwise-and what he watches is making me sick,all the girls look undeveloped and look around 14 although the site is legal,he dont like to see a man touching them just themselves,the younger more innocent the better.he told me its what all men want to see young virgins.he is 50yr and i am 49 and very attractive unlike him.he said he never went with a woman until he was 24 is this something to do with it and he said he would stop but i dont think he could i once seen a child lookin at a mans bits on his computer his upskirts site what am i living with.

[Wise Michael]

At the risk of being blunt, let me just say that it sounds to me like you're just jealous of the young women in those porn movies. None of them are 14. Most of them are probably well into their 20's. You need to accept reality and realize that you're not a young woman anymore and that you can't compete with them based on looks. Any normal man in your age range is going to like the raw physical beauty of younger women. It's just natural.

You need to leave your jealousy and insecurities behind and learn to supersede that youthful beauty with charm, sophistication, and emotional intimacy. It doesn't do any good to try and vilify your partners perfectly normal attraction to sexy young women. You're best bet is to confidently assert yourself as a mature woman and stop mentally competing with and comparing yourself to these 20 something year olds in those porn movies. They're no threat to you except in your mind. Once you realize that you won't worry about them anymore.

[Guest]

i have been living with my partner for 2yrs and planned marriage, i loved him so much but now he has broke my heart,he said he watched porn once in a blue moon but i discovered otherwise-and what he watches is making me sick,all the girls look undeveloped and look around 14 although the site is legal,he dont like to see a man touching them just themselves,the younger more innocent the better.he told me its what all men want to see young virgins.he is 50yr and i am 49 and very attractive unlike him.he said he never went with a woman until he was 24 is this something to do with it and he said he would stop but i dont think he could i once seen a child lookin at a mans bits on his computer his upskirts site what am i living with.

Ignore that guy he's justifying peadophilia. Jealousy ha ha, this guy needs a labotomy

[Ivan Diederhoff]

i have been living with my partner for 2yrs and planned marriage, i loved him so much but now he has broke my heart,he said he watched porn once in a blue moon but i discovered otherwise-and what he watches is making me sick,all the girls look undeveloped and look around 14 although the site is legal,he dont like to see a man touching them just themselves,the younger more innocent the better.he told me its what all men want to see young virgins.he is 50yr and i am 49 and very attractive unlike him.he said he never went with a woman until he was 24 is this something to do with it and he said he would stop but i dont think he could i once seen a child lookin at a mans bits on his computer his upskirts site what am i living with.

Gee, with under-the-breath barbs like that, who could resist your charm?

I have only read this one post of yours, and already, I'm ready to see what has his attention. Anything has to be a distraction from your acidity for life.

[WhiteTrash]

i have been living with my partner for 2yrs and planned marriage, i loved him so much but now he has broke my heart,he said he watched porn once in a blue moon but i discovered otherwise-and what he watches is making me sick,all the girls look undeveloped and look around 14 although the site is legal,he dont like to see a man touching them just themselves,the younger more innocent the better.he told me its what all men want to see young virgins.he is 50yr and i am 49 and very attractive unlike him.he said he never went with a woman until he was 24 is this something to do with it and he said he would stop but i dont think he could i once seen a child lookin at a mans bits on his computer his upskirts site what am i living with.

Eeeep, no matter if these girls are 17, 20 or 28 IF they look like they are 14, or dare I say younger then as it's porn what they look like matters the most.

Get out of there and report him - better to be safe than sorry.

I'd not be able to look him in the face, let alone share a bed with him.

[Wise Michael]

Yes I believe it is jealousy plainly and simply. In an ideal world, women who wish to go to Hollywood would start their careers at 18, and then when they were 25 could do something else. But life is not ideal: even at this age, women are trying to cut through Hollywood red tape. Therefore porn becomes necessary to correct this.

Let us think critically. In another life your partner might have been a king. Do you think King David would have tolerated a woman telling him he was not to look at his beautiful young concubines? Such a woman would have been dismissed from court as a troublemaker at best. Thus you should not discriminate against your poor partner just because you do not valus him as "important" in the history book sense.

[Guest]

Yes I believe it is jealousy plainly and simply. In an ideal world, women who wish to go to Hollywood would start their careers at 18, and then when they were 25 could do something else. But life is not ideal: even at this age, women are trying to cut through Hollywood red tape. Therefore porn becomes necessary to correct this.

Let us think critically. In another life your partner might have been a king. Do you think King David would have tolerated a woman telling him he was not to look at his beautiful young concubines? Such a woman would have been dismissed from court as a troublemaker at best. Thus you should not discriminate against your poor partner just because you do not valus him as "important" in the history book sense.

Yep well it isn't the dark ages anymore mate. In theory she should leave him and his magazines, maybe he can commit and marry a copy of Penthouse instead, but don't count on it

[shrimper]

Believe it or not most of the stuff men look at in porn they would never want to do with a woman they have any respect for. Would you be comfortable with doing any of those things with him? I think not.
Men don't look at porn because they feel like something is missing in their life. This is not something that many women seem to grasp.

[WhiteTrash]

Come on peeps - this ain't a typical "my bloke watches porn, why is wrong with me?" thread.

Shy did type, and I quote "what he watches is making me sick".

It's one thing to blame the women for being jealous, quite another saying hang on, he is over the line here.

If you're still about guest post this thread in another section - and see what response you get.

[Guest]

i have been living with my partner for 2yrs and planned marriage, i loved him so much but now he has broke my heart,he said he watched porn once in a blue moon but i discovered otherwise-and what he watches is making me sick,all the girls look undeveloped and look around 14 although the site is legal,he dont like to see a man touching them just themselves,the younger more innocent the better.he told me its what all men want to see young virgins.he is 50yr and i am 49 and very attractive unlike him.he said he never went with a woman until he was 24 is this something to do with it and he said he would stop but i dont think he could i once seen a child lookin at a mans bits on his computer his upskirts site what am i living with.

I knew a guy like this who lived with a female friend. He thought it was normal, complete narcissist. They try to make you believe it's normal but they are lowest common denominator perverts. Truth hurts.

[Guest]

I do not understand why anyone would say "It's ok what he's doing - they're 18". How does the man know one way or the other. It's horrible to think about and he doesn't see it as a problem. I find it so difficult when he says it's what every man wants to see - i can't tell him that it isn't. It's almost like he wants it - so how could it be wrong?

If you're still about guest post this thread in another section - and see what response you get.

Ok.

[Guest]

Yes I believe it is jealousy plainly and simply. In an ideal world, women who wish to go to Hollywood would start their careers at 18, and then when they were 25 could do something else. But life is not ideal: even at this age, women are trying to cut through Hollywood red tape. Therefore porn becomes necessary to correct this.

Let us think critically. In another life your partner might have been a king. Do you think King David would have tolerated a woman telling him he was not to look at his beautiful young concubines? Such a woman would have been dismissed from court as a troublemaker at best. Thus you should not discriminate against your poor partner just because you do not valus him as "important" in the history book sense.

Be quiet Mike.